Wu Yanzu once commented that Li Xinjie is a girl with a unique temperament, which is different from other female stars.
He Rundong also publicly stated in "Kangxi Lai" that he liked Li Xinjie very much, and his computer desktop was Li Xinjie.
Even Chen Bailin once said in front of the media that when she saw Li Xinjie's advertisement when she was a child, she told her mother that her future girlfriend would be like her.
It is undeniable that Li Xinjie is the temperamental girl that boys like, with a clean face and a sweet smile.
Not only does she sing well, but she also doesn't act well, and you think she's going well, but in fact, her life is not smooth sailing.
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Born in Malaysia in 1976, Li Xinjie, like many children, should have lived her childhood carefree life, but she has always been precocious and sentimental, but she saw the bad in the adult world.
Li Xinjie once mentioned her family, and she said that her family was not happy. When my mother was pregnant in October, she still had to watch the shop, cook, do a lot of chores, and worry about the family's livelihood.
Not only his own family, but also the neighbors often quarrel, the husband will hold a kitchen knife to hunt down his wife, and his grandparents have been married for many years, but now they do not talk to each other.
So for love and marriage, Li Xinjie has a little fear from her heart, otherwise she would not have been in love with Peng Shun for eight years before getting married; at the same time, she also cherished marriage, and when Peng Shun cheated many times, she also chose to forgive and gave birth to twins for him.
After graduating from high school in 1995, he participated in Zhang Aijia's "Film Newcomer" recruitment, and Zhang Aijia took a picture of this girl with a unique temperament at a glance. She recruited her into her arms and praised her for her debut in the entertainment industry. In 2001, she starred in her debut film "Love You Love Me", which won the Best Newcomer Actor Award at the 51st Berlin International Film Festival, and her acting career has gradually entered the right track since then. In 2003, she starred in the famous work "See the Ghost" and won her many titles such as The Academy Award for Best Actress and the Golden Horse Award for Best Actress.
Perhaps Li Xinjie was born to be an actor, and the films she made not only have texture, but also beauty, and were favored by many directors for a time, and Peng Shun was one of them.
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During Li Xinjie's filming of the famous work "See the Ghost", a spark of love was rubbed between her and director Peng Shun, and the two quickly fell in love, and then began an eight-year love marathon.
The 11-year-old difference between the two did not become an obstacle between the two, on the contrary, Li Xinjie admired Peng Shun's films, and Peng Shun was also optimistic about Li Xinjie's acting skills. Despite the paparazzi's candid photos, the two often went out to eat and shop together, and began to live together. In the same month when the love affair was exposed, Li Xinjie admitted in front of the media that Peng Shun was his boyfriend, without any artist baggage.
Li Xinjie said: "I can talk to mature people more, because I can learn a lot. "Yes, Peng Shun, who is 11 years older than him, is much more mature than she is. In 1997, he made his first film, "Who's Running?" debuted and won the New Wave Award at the 3rd Busan International Film Festival for this film. Subsequently, the horror thriller "See the Ghost" made with his twin brother won the Best Film Award at the 3rd Chinese Film media awards.
Compared with the fledgling Li Xinjie, being with Peng Shun is unabated for his career.
Of course, for Li Xinjie, who is insecure every day, Peng Shun's appearance seems to be a ray of sunshine in her life, she often says that she is a pessimistic person, and it is Peng Shun's optimism that has changed herself.
She once said, "Since I met Peng Shun, I decided to fight my inner darkness to the end, because I love him very much."
After eight years of love and long-distance running, in 2010, Li Xinjie finally walked into the wedding hall with this man who brought him hope in Malaysia. Although she knew that Peng Shun had been married once before, and that her daughter had lived with her father after divorcing her ex-wife, she did not mind at all. She regards the 13-year-old daughter Xinxin born to Peng Shun and his ex-wife as her own, and even after marriage, Li Xinjie will shift her focus to Malaysia, and she will appear less and less on the screen, reducing filming just to accompany her stepdaughter to grow up and be a mother.
However, Li Xinjie's blind efforts to pay and maintain it have been exchanged for the betrayal of her husband Peng Shun again and again.
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As early as 2007, during the period when the two of them were in love, Peng Shun was revealed to have a drink with Luo Kaishan in a nightclub and then opened a hotel room, but Li Xinjie, who was a girlfriend at the time, quickly came out and said that she fully trusted her boyfriend and left the relationship for her boyfriend.
If the split before marriage was just a paparazzi catching the wind and catching shadows again and again, then the news of her husband's cheating after marriage this time completely hurt the girl's heart. In 2014, Peng Shun was kicked by the media and "little three" Li Yuetong not only kissed on the street, but also went to the hotel to open a room, and for a while the news was boiling, Peng Shun immediately flew to Malaysia to admit his mistake and ask his wife for forgiveness.
Hurt Li Xinjie did not know how to face, so he chose to play missing, refused to communicate with her husband, at this time it should be said that the relationship between the two is about to reach the freezing point, the media once speculated that their married life will end here, after all, Li Xinjie took off the wedding ring at that time, but who knows that things have taken a turn again.
At five o'clock in the afternoon of May 28, the husband and wife spoke out on Weibo, saying that it was a pity that the feelings between the two people for more than ten years were not easy to abandon, so they decided to face these tests together and continue to move forward hand in hand in the days to come.
Li Xinjie also said when attending the event: "I also had the lowest tide, he also tolerated me, has always led me to grow, this time encountered this kind of thing, want to face it with my husband, my husband made a mistake like a child doing something wrong, will forgive him." ”
Li Xinjie's generosity makes people wonder, why would a woman make such a decision after her husband cheated on her? Ming Was already angry, but finally chose to forgive, and in the second year of the storm, he gave birth to twins for Peng Shun at the age of 40.
How much a woman can love a man, just look at Li Xinjie.
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Li Xinjie's tolerance, I can understand it as the pursuit of a family's integrity and happiness. As we all know, the impact of childhood on a person is far-reaching, will affect her to make choices in many ways, and perhaps Li Xinjie's practice is also behind the influence of childhood and her original family.
Li Xinjie once mentioned her family, and she said that her family was not happy. Not only his own family, but also the neighbors often quarrel, the husband will hold a kitchen knife to hunt down his wife, and his grandparents have been married for many years, but now they do not talk to each other. When she was young, she saw too many unfortunate families, so she desperately longed for a happy and complete family, which also made her willing to tolerate and give in every way for this goal, and it was okay to make some sacrifices.
In fact, not only Li Xinjie, when the article broke the derailment of Yao Di, Ma Yili was not for the sake of the child to choose to forgive the mistakes made by the article with "and do and cherish", although the two chose to divorce after four years, but it was still good to get together and disperse without tearing their faces.
Lin Dan cheated on the model when his wife was pregnant, and Xie Xingfang still wrote a forgiveness on Weibo. Don't they have pain in their hearts? No, it is not to give up this relationship for many years. The twelve-year relationship between Li Xinjie and Peng Shun, the ten-year relationship between the article and Ma Yili, and the green plum bamboo horse of Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang from childhood to adulthood, these two have not only paid for their youth, but also paid for their feelings. If it is really over, the courage to find a new one may not be enough, who will consume a few years?
Li Xinjie once said, "Life is bitter, this is a certainty, in life encounter different things, try to use your wisdom, to make fun in suffering, encounter setbacks, try to use a positive perspective to see this matter, turn negative into positive." ”
Marriage is originally a practice for two people, and I hope that time will give them a more satisfactory ending.
Whether it is a celebrity or an ordinary person in a lifetime, the word infidelity will more or less linger in your ears, it may be your relatives or friends, or friends of friends, always inadvertently enter your ears. There is a question worth pondering, can you accept that the future marriage partner will have a child and let you be a step (parent)? If your husband (wife) cheats again and again, will you continue to be with him or her? For the answer to the two questions, Li Xinjie not only gave a positive answer, but even gave birth to twins for this husband who had cheated many times, and she chose to be patient because of habit and dependence.
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