In 1997, Indah walked into the Civil Affairs Bureau twice.
One was a divorce from Song Dandan.
One was to marry Liang Huan.
After only 3 days, the relationship between Yingda and Song Dandan has been cut and messed up since then.
They divorced, and it was Song Dandan who cheated. As everyone knows, as early as before, Yingda has already hooked up with Liang Huan.
It wasn't until he saw the text message that Song Dandan reacted.
Before Song Dandan, Yingda also had a short marriage, because the development problem came to an end.
When he met Liang Huan, he completely accepted his heart, but the story with Song Dandan and Batuu really began.
Since then, Indah's reputation has gradually declined.
How did he, along with Song Dandan and Batu, come to where he is today? Why does word of mouth collapse?
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Yingda is a descendant of the Zhenghong Banner Herschel clan, and her great-grandfather was the husband of a Princess of the Qing Dynasty, who made great contributions to education. His father Ying Ruocheng and his mother Wu Shiliang were drama performers with prominent families.
He has held the key to the golden soup since he was born, but his education is naturally a top priority. Under a strict education, Indah aspired to freedom.
In elementary school, due to the arrest of her parents, Indah was not only not sad, but also very happy, thinking that she was free.
He was a "bad student" in the teacher's mouth, and the classmates did not play with him.
In 1977, the college entrance examination was resumed, and Yingda took back his heart and decided to take the college entrance examination. After several months of struggle, he was admitted to Peking University.
During college, Indah not only received a "Bachelor of Science in Science" degree, but also gained love and met his first wife.
They met in college, shared hobbies, and were close to home. Indah tried her best to chase her. Later, the relationship between the two quickly warmed up, from friends to lovers.
In 1985, Indah was not satisfied with his current state of life, and he was influenced by his father to like art. At that time, he and his wife decided to go to the United States to study theater.
During that time, Yingda and his wife supervised each other, made progress together, and learned a lot of knowledge.
Two years later, they graduated with two choices, whether to return home or stay. Yingda resolutely decided to choose the former, and his wife felt that there was a future for development in the United States.
In this way, Indah and his first wife parted ways.
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In 1987, Yingda, who returned to China, with the help of his father, entered the Beijing People's Art Theater for internship.
At that time, Song Dandan had been an actor for 4 years in Renyi, mixed up like a fish, but her feelings were fragmented, and she divorced her first husband.
Due to the launch of the drama "Arsonist", the two who have just divorced know each other. As an assistant director, Yingda has close contacts with actor Song Dandan.
Perhaps with the same experience, in just a few months, Song Dandan and Yingda became lovers.
At that time, Song Dandan and Yingda were very sober and determined to make a career in the show business circle.
In 1989, Song Dandan appeared on the stage of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala and cooperated with Zhao Lianjia and others on "Lazy Man Blind Date". A sentence "My name is Wei Shufen...", made her famous.
Before this, Song Dandan almost missed this sketch, Anda's father did not agree with her approach, it was to destroy art, who knew that her reputation was rising.
At that time, Yingda had not yet made achievements in the show business circle, but he married Song Dandan home. The following year his son Batuu was born.
Not content with mediocrity, Indah decided to direct a sitcom on her own.
At that time, there were no such works in China, and because I had been exposed to similar works during my studies in the United States, I wanted to try them.
Who knows this attempt, Indah has achieved unprecedented success.
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In 1993, China's first sitcom "I Love My Home" was born. The drama was broadcast all over the streets, and the director Yingda became famous in one fell swoop.
The 33-year-old Yingda pioneered Chinese sitcoms, and then created works such as "Home and Wanshixing" and "Idle Centaur Big Sister", laying the foundation for its position in the show business circle.
With the success of their careers, the love life of Yingda and Song Dandan gradually collapsed and reached the point of divorce.
After marriage, Yingda and Song Dandan had differences in ideas, Song Dandan was preoccupied with family, while Yingda was busy with his career and often had conflicts.
Coupled with the gathering of less and more, Song Dandan's heart is empty, and he has the idea of stealing food, and he goes out to find a man.
At that time, what she didn't know was that Indah had already cheated on her.
During the filming of "I Love My Home", Yingda and screenwriter Liang Zuo were very good friends. And Liang Zuo's sister Liang Huan also likes to create.
Liang Zuo suggested that she come to the crew for an internship, and thus met Yingda.
The wonderful story in the play, Liang Huan is also involved. Indah thinks she is talented and knows comedy.
After a long time of contact, his heart was surging. Regardless of his own family, he entangled with Liang Huan. Liang Zuo tried to stop it, but failed.
At that time, there was a scandal between Yingda and Liang Huan, but Song Dandan chose to believe it.
In 1997, Song Dandan cheated on him, felt guilty in his heart, felt sorry for Yingda, and proposed a divorce. Indah did not have any fluctuations, and even some small pleasures, directly agreed.
On the day of the divorce, Song Dandan saw the message sent by Liang Huan, is the matter finished?
It dawned on her that Indah had long since cheated on her, and the scandal was true.
After the divorce, Song Dandan quickly married Zhao Yuji and is still happy and happy. On the third day, Yingda and Liang Huan went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a permit.
Batuu was 7 years old that year.
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Although Yingda has a happy love, he and his ex-wife Song Dandan are slow to entangle. Batuu was taken care of by his grandfather since he was a child, and Indah did not ask questions and had no feelings for his son.
Grandpa wants Indah to fight for custody of the child, and Song Dandan does not give in, fighting for the custody of Handbatu.
Fortunately, Yingda and Liang Huan also soon welcomed their son Bayan.
Yingda and Liang Huan are together to appreciate her talent, such a combination, in the show business circle is bound to break out of the world.
But after the birth of her son, she gave up her career and taught her husband and son, the way of life inside the male and female protagonists.
Without his own career, Liang Huan's attention was all on cultivating his son.
Yingda is the fourth generation leader of the British family, and also wants to train his son Youbayan to become the fifth generation leader of the British family.
With the efforts of Yingda and Liang Huan, it succeeded.
At that time, because his parents divorced, It was a big blow to Batuu's heart, but fortunately, he did not know that his father had married another person and had a younger brother.
But Batuu did not let Song Dandan worry and often caused her trouble. And Song Dandan is a "Chinese-style education", which hits his son's self-confidence, causing him to have less and less confidence and is timid and afraid of things.
As a father, Indah did not care about his son Batuu at all, even if he was reduced to the point of wanting food, it seemed that he had nothing to do with him.
Because his condition is not satisfactory.
In 2001, Liang Zuo died, and Yingda, as his brother-in-law, dealt with the incident, but found that he was left with high debts.
Wang Shuo wants to sell the script in the computer to pay off these debts, but Indah disagrees, saying that he has worked with Liang Zuo before and that the script is his.
After that, he left with the script in his arms, leaving Wang Shuo alone.
The incident had a great impact on Yingda's reputation, but he did not think so. He focused only on works and fame.
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The proudest thing in Yingda's life is his son Bayan.
Since childhood, Yingda wanted to train his son to be a pianist like Lang Lang and Li Yundi, and required him to practice the piano for 3 hours a day.
Kindergarten is not going, but also practice at home.
In elementary school, Indah told the teacher directly that the child did not go to school in the afternoon because of practicing the piano.
Under the supervision and cultivation of Yingda, Bayan began to like the piano, developed into a piano master, and won the prize and won the soft hand.
Later, he discovered that his son liked ice hockey and decided to continue to cultivate him.
In 2007, Bayan participated in the Junior Ice Hockey World Championships and won the championship. It was also Chinese's first hockey title.
Yingda is proud of his son, and for his son to go to a higher level, he is sent to Chicago to study, hoping that he will learn a skill and return to China to participate in the Olympic Games to win glory for the country.
Such an excellent, proud son, Indah naturally wants to bring his son to the big screen to show off to everyone.
In 2011, Indah and Bayan recorded "Top Show".
In the show, Indah built himself into a good father, how dedicated to his son Bayan, how much he paid for his career and studies.
He was praised and the host said he was a great father.
However, this decision caused Song Dandan's dissatisfaction and also made Batuu heartbroken.
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Before the broadcast of "Top Show", Song Dandan took his son Batu to promote "The Spring of Li Spring".
At that time, netizens mistakenly thought that Song Dandan was in order to promote his son, and he did not know that he also participated in the play.
But netizens did not know that in connection with Indah taking his son to the show, questioning them were "fighting in the ring".
Coincidentally, Song Dandan saw the remarks made by the netizen, was furious, and quickly forwarded this Weibo: clarifying the origin of the matter, and warning Indah not to bully Batu, questioning his good father's identity.
At that time, some netizens suddenly realized that Batuu was the son of Indah, and they had never interacted with each other or mentioned each other.
Seeing that Song Dandan reacted so strongly, And Yingda was indifferent and did not dare to squeak.
Although the two divorced because song Dandan cheated, whether in terms of feelings or in life, he did not do a good job, did not fulfill his husband's responsibilities, and did not fulfill his father's obligations.
Long before, Song Dandan published his autobiography "The Depths of Happiness". One of them tells the story between her and Indah, and the reasons for the divorce are all written out.
At that time, Yingda and Liang Huan had a deep relationship, their careers reached their peak, and they did not have the psychology to do these things.
However, the media did not let go, because he had studied psychology, pushed the responsibility to Song Dandan, "said that she had a mental illness", and only then confused the matter.
From then on, the conflict between Song Dandan and Yingda was deeper, but more of its origin was the son Batu.
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From The time Batuu was born to the time he got married and had children, Indah never cared for and loved him, not even to look at him.
Indah explained that in such a situation, continuing to play the role of father is not good for him. What he didn't know was that Batuu's fatherly love was given by his stepfather.
From a young age, Batuu lived with his grandfather and had a good relationship. In 2003, Grandpa fell ill and died, reaching Batuu's ears.
He wanted to go to his grandfather's funeral and give him one last ride, but Indah refused.
For so many years, batuu's surname is not "Ying" in his place to deny, not a family naturally can not enter a door.
Therefore, when Batuu got married, Indah, as his biological father, did not have any expression or reaction.
Regardless of the feelings of father and son, who does not want to be present at the event of life.
In 2018, Batuu's son was born, song Dandan was a grandmother, and she held a full moon ceremony for her grandson.
At that time, Indah was 58 years old, and at the age of retirement, she gradually retreated behind the scenes. His son's hockey career is on the rise, and his daughter is only a teenager busy with her studies.
Like most people, he longs to hold his grandchild sooner. For the grandson who had never met, he was both curious and happy, and wanted to see his grandson, but he was rejected by Song Dandan.
As if he had no memory, did he forget how he did not recognize Batuu in the first place and refused to participate in his grandfather's funeral, as a mother Song Dandan was naturally unhappy.
Sooner or later, Yingda will be a grandfather and a grandfather, but whether he can still have a strong body to play with his grandchildren is unknown.
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For a while, Yingda and Liang Huan went to live in the United States with their sons and daughters. He was arrested for money.
The same biological son, for Bayan, Indah is a good and dutiful father, but for Batuu, he is not worthy to be a father.
His relationship with Batuu is ultimately self-inflicted.
Where there is a lot of hatred between the biological father and son, some misunderstandings are solved by sitting down for a drink.
But since his divorce from Song Dandan, Indah has never wanted to restore relations with Batuu.
For another biological son Bayan is different, supporting his dreams and career, and even showing off all over the world.
If he did the same to Batuu, it might be a different story, and the relationship with Song Dandan would not collapse.
In the relationship, Yingda was unfaithful to Song Dandan and was questioned by everyone as a "scumbag".
But since his marriage to Liang Huan, there has never been a scandal, and the two are happy and happy, and they respect each other like guests. In this way, he seems to have a crush on Liang Huan.
Do you think Indah is a good father? Is it a dedicated person?