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Before the girl married the boy, she worked in an advertising agency, the position was not very high, the salary was not very good, in the girl's view, this is to realize their own value, this job makes the girl passionate.
But after the birth of his daughter, the boy did not allow the girl to go out to work. The boy himself has a small company, it looks like a smooth sailing, the boy is naturally a little rich and rich feeling, the boy hates the girl for making less money, and thinks that the girl is better to return to the family to be a housewife at home with the child.
In fact, the girl has long been looking for a suitable candidate with children, experienced, and clean and sharp. But the boy just didn't agree, saying that it was the child or the mother to bring it was not reliable. There was no way, the girl said no boy, and eventually quit her job and became a stay-at-home mom at home. Boys should be grateful for the sacrifices made by girls, but boys are not only not grateful, but they do not talk and do things without paying attention to girls at all, and you are a woman who understands at every turn.
Girls are also too lazy to argue with boys, and boys' macho girls can't stand it, after all, girls and children eat and wear, everything. Slowly the boy has changed, began to dislike the girl's figure out of shape, said that the girl is lazy, do not know to clean up after themselves, said that just at home with a child also made themselves so sloppy, even at home can not be so untrimmed bar. The girl kind of began to wonder if the boy was out there, so she looked at herself and didn't like anything. Sometimes when going out with boys, everyone is lukewarm to girls, everyone is talking and laughing, talking about things in various fields at the moment, and girls can't interject a word. Girls surround their children and husbands every day, where there is time and experience to learn, so that girls are a bit derailed in this era.
Two years are all mothers, but it is to make the girl's reaction a little sluggish, the girl regrets the resignation of the original, the girl secretly decided to wait for the woman to go out to find a job as soon as she goes to kindergarten, but before that day, the girl found that the boy cheated, and the girl's heart was completely cold. The girl atmosphere and the boy proposed a divorce, the boy did not want to divorce, he took the daughter as a shield, in the boy's view the girl must be reluctant to the daughter, but the girl decisively left home alone after a few days of consideration.
The girl understands in her heart that even if the boy is macho, no matter how he looks at himself, he is not happy, but the boy is truly in love with his daughter, and even if he is not in the boy, he will take care of his daughter. In the long run, the girl's decision is correct, in the girl's view, no matter how many tears are left at the moment, she must start over and find the self she once was.
After the divorce, the girl suffered a lot, rented a small house, looked for a job everywhere, and tried her best. Two years later, the girl finally really reintegrated into the advertising industry, because of her own efforts, the performance is also quite ideal, the girl from the new brilliance of self-confidence. But the boy was upset by the women outside, and the company went bankrupt. The girl soon returned her daughter on the grounds of the boy's financial problems.
A woman's energy is sometimes stimulated by many reasons, as long as the woman has her own judgment and has her own values, the girl is willing to be a full-time mother, out of love, not to be a full-time mother, because love is no longer there. Either way, women must be cautious about their decision to be a stay-at-home mom. It is very likely that when you are busy looking for a child and taking care of your home, you are looked down upon by your husband and despised by the people around you.