One girl said, "A friend of mine doesn't want to live because his girlfriend is leaving him to marry someone else!" ”
It turned out to be because of love, and I think this boy must have loved very deeply, otherwise he wouldn't be sad enough to want to die. But the first life test that everyone has to face is love.
Love is often difficult to understand, and the person who was once deeply loved is now leaving you, and he is far more than the only one in the world who is trapped by love.
It's easy to fall in love with someone, but it's hard to keep someone. Everyone's aesthetics and preferences are different, if the person you love does not love you, it is not necessarily because you are not good enough, perhaps she does not like you at all, and your attachment is just wishful thinking. If you love her, you should make her happy, so how can you force her to love you too? But that's where the pain begins! Therefore, the other half we are looking for should be the one you love who also happens to love you, and only such love can bear the fruit of happiness.
God is fair, creating men and creating women at the same time, and while you never have to worry about not finding the other half, there may only be one that really works for you. You're looking for her and she's looking for you, so why should you insist when you find out that your partner you're with doesn't love you? Instead of forcing her to stay and hurt each other, it is better to let her go and find her own happiness. When you are in love, cherish the good times together, give each other a chance to start over when you don't love, and let her find her own true love in life, which is also a kind of wisdom. Otherwise, in the end, it is not only the other party that will be hurt, but also the person who is struggling to find you!
I have a friend who has been struggling to succeed, but after three years of hard work, he still failed. He was ready to leave this sad place that day, and I went to visit him. He recalled: "I once asked you, how far am I from success? You say, there is only one layer of window paper. But I have now found that this layer of window paper is so difficult to break! ”
Some truths are easy to understand, but some people may not understand them in their lifetime.
The reality is harsh, and not everyone can afford this frustration. The boy who was going to commit suicide finally chose to commit suicide!
That day, he sent a text message to his sister, he said: "Sister, I'm gone, you take good care of our parents, if possible, let them get back together!" ”
He grew up with his father, and what he lacked most in his life was his mother's love. In his heart, he has always had a dream, that is, to have a happy home! When he was very young, he had already endured the departure of his mother once, and when he grew up, he could not bear the departure of the person he loved the most!
His sister found him in a small hotel in Xi'an, where he lay alone on a small white bed, the white sheets stained red with bright red blood. Under the rescue of doctors, he eventually survived. Sitting on a hospital bed, he thought he would never fall in love with another woman again in this life.
Infatuated, he had written countless letters to the girl, but they were all stoned, and he hated her desperation.
Two years later, he fell in love with another girl.
He cherished this relationship so much that he gave her everything he had, and as long as she was happy, he was even willing to give up everything for her. In order to accompany her to watch concerts and play games, he spent all his savings; in order to treat her, he borrowed money from relatives and friends; for a happy promise, he took out a loan to start a business but lost nothing; the two had no money to spend, he even tricked his father into selling the family house, and took the money from the sale to make her happy...
He did not hesitate to live up to the whole world for love, and gave everything for her. He felt that it was love, and he had no complaints or regrets.
However, even after paying so much, after the prosperity and romance returned to reality, the girl still chose to leave, and he did not exchange for a happy life. And his so-called love is just wishful thinking!
Love is romantic, but reality is cruel. In reality, most people are the people you love who don't love you, and the people who love you don't love you. Some of the people who have loved each other have been together, and a small number of them have truly loved each other, but in the end they have not been able to grow old together. Because people can change, loving and loving you may find that there are many defects in this person that you cannot accept, so you are tired, tired, and separated.
The world was so wonderful that the girl who had asked me about love had become my wife. When I met her, I was penniless, but we still lived happily together.
Loving someone doesn't need a reason. If she really loves you, she doesn't need you to give her much gold and silver jewelry, and she doesn't need you to give everything for her, just give her an unchangeable love and be a good and good man. Although the external material is a plus, the inner charm of the individual is the most important assessment criterion, and this charm runs through his words and deeds. If she really loves you, she won't love you because of how much you've given her, just because she really likes you and wants to be with you forever and loves you.
Remember, love is not bought, what kind of person you are will meet what kind of person, belongs to you, will never miss, does not belong to you, want to stay can not stay. If you want a person to love you forever, you must let yourself have something worthy of her appreciation. And when you can't grasp love, what you really should do is not to use external materials to sew up love, but to improve your knowledge and cultivation, so that the people you love are reluctant to change their minds to you.
True love does not need to be deliberately flattered, nor is it a one-sided payment. Don't be a slave to love, appreciate each other, is the true meaning of love!