What is the number one place for lovers dating? This issue became a hot topic of discussion in this week's "Do Not Disturb", and coffee shops became recognized as dating meccas. The three teachers suggested that lovers could talk more about their respective "things that can be made up and can't be made up", a detail that is closely related to the two people's future common life.
What venue is better for dating? Cafes become recognized as "dating meccas"
Male guest Liu Yuchen was born in a brewery family, but fell in love with coffee when studying abroad, and seeing the coffee culture gradually rising in big cities, he began to seriously learn coffee knowledge. Later, I opened my own coffee shop in Shanghai, "I especially like the warm atmosphere and romantic atmosphere of the coffee shop, and I have witnessed many love stories that happened in the coffee shop." Many young people will meet for the first time in the coffee shop, and the temperature of the coffee will really heat up the feelings of the two people. ”
"Will you suddenly appear at the coffee shop on the corner?" I believe that many people have heard this lyric in the romantic love song "Long Time No See". Coffee culture is especially popular with young people, and coffee shops are also the first choice for many lovers when dating. What venues do you choose when dating? Most of the female guests also chose the coffee shop. As a coffee shop owner, Liu Yuchen shared his experience, "I once read a statistic on the Internet that the number one place for lovers to date is a coffee shop. Because the café environment is more elegant, and there is romantic background music, especially on sunny afternoons, the makeup of the girls is more charming, and the atmosphere is particularly good. ”
For the first date, the main thing is to leave a good impression on each other, choose a public place like a coffee shop that is elegant and emotional, which will make each other's mood more open, and will also give girls a certain sense of security, drink coffee, listen to songs, chat about their respective lives and ideals, and the romantic feeling will come out. For the choice of dating venue, the three teachers also gave advice: "Choosing the right place for dating is crucial to creating a pleasant dating atmosphere. First of all, it is necessary to carefully analyze each other's preferences, it is best to be able to do what they like; secondly, in different periods of relationship development, the choice of dating location is also different, and it is necessary to choose the appropriate dating scene in different relationship periods, which will directly affect the progress of the relationship upgrade between the two people. ”
When you are in love, you can talk more about "things that can be made up and can't be made up"
Liu Yuchen, 37 years old this year, said the most when talking about the criteria for mate selection, "can't make it up", "There are often friends in life who worry about introducing me to girlfriends, but many girls don't even want to see each other when they hear my age." Some friends also advised me that my age is not small, don't be too picky about finding a partner, just make it up. I especially can't listen to this sentence, I want to find the other half is not almost a coincidence, but to two people in line with each other, the three views are consistent. The female guests also agreed: there are indeed some things in life that can be reconciled, but feelings must not be made up. Sun Xue said: "Like something temporary, not something that needs to be sustained for a long time, I can make it up, and once in a while I can bear it, but the feelings are a lifetime." ”
Meng Fei said: "I think it is particularly meaningful for two people to talk about what they can make up and what they can't make up when they are in love, because the things that you can make up and can't make up are directly related to the two people's future common life, and you can deeply understand whether the other party is on the same frequency as you and whether you can live together." In real life, it is true that some parents often say to their children, "Just make up your life, don't be too picky." Huang Lan believes that after two people come together, they may be able to run into or even "make up" some living habits, but the premise must be the same as the three views, and some external conditions can be discussed, but the three views are incompatible and must not be made up. Chen Ming also said: "Love does not have many opportunities for trial and error, don't think about transforming the other party into your own ideal type in the process of making it up." Two people have a common topic, mutual comfort, mutual admiration, this is called love. ”
Female guest Zhang Yangping insisted on leaving the lamp and showed love: "Male guests don't always say that they are old, you look very young." Then, I like to be older than myself, very mature and stable, and the male guests feel calm and gentle, I like you like this! "In the end, can two people successfully hold hands?
Watch tips: Jiangsu Satellite TV's "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb" is brilliantly staged at 20:30 pm this Saturday (October 9th) evening!