Introduction: "Fleeing the North, Shanghai and Guangzhou" is a very common name now, which represents a common social phenomenon, that is, the reverse flow of people in large cities. For many young people, they come from rural areas or small towns across the country, with a yearning and enthusiasm for the bustling big city life, but in the end they find that there is no place for them in the hustle and bustle of urban life. Leaving the big city and returning to the calm little city, life is flat, and everything seems to be back to square one. Released on October 27, 2015 in Chinese mainland, the heartwarming film "Back to Every Day Of Being Loved" tells the story of a young girl who leaves Beijing and returns to her hometown. Crossing the spatial distance between the two cities, in the passage of time, we face the dual life dilemma of family affection and love. Through this seemingly old-fashioned but somewhat novel story, we have a clear understanding of the cruelty of life and the fragility of human nature.
A calm and realistic film, seemingly unfazed, but it can ripple in the hearts of the North Drifters. Whether it is empathy or palpitations, the life depicted in the film is the same as the actual experience of many people. Rather than focusing on how to escape the big city, it details the discomfort of the change from noisy to quiet after returning to the twilight of one's hometown.
The film reflects the common problem faced by young people in this era, whether to go to the big city to pursue their dreams, or to stick to their original intentions in their hometown. It bears witness to the pain of a generation growing up, choosing between a big city with more development opportunities and a hometown that has been separated for a long time, and facing a choice between a rift of family affection and a love that has undergone the test of time and space, which is often difficult.
As a new work by director He Ping in the past six years, he selects the most representative theme of north drift through a subtle observation of society, thus reflecting the young people who are "wandering" in the big cities of Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen. The film uses plain and natural language to depict the real life of the North Drifters after returning to their hometown, reflecting their confusion in behavior and mentality.
The rare thing about the film is that it does not just stay at the level of the slogan of escaping from the north, Shanghai and Guangzhou, but also goes deeper into the hearts of a generation of young people who have left their hometowns, and analyzes the social problems of making a choice between the big city and the hometown from real life. The excellent actors and good script make this film a very true and apt reflection of the voice of the city wanderers.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-center-line" > the emotional confusion and dream vision of the "North Drifter" family: how to choose between big cities and hometowns</h1>
There is a lyric that once reads: "The hometown cannot tolerate the flesh, and the other country cannot accommodate the soul." If you can live a stable life, who wants to be displaced?" In fact, what this film expresses is a visual expression of this lyric, which is more graphic and convincing. Young people work hard in big cities, and they can find their busy figures in those first-tier cities, but their real life status is rarely paid attention to.
Indeed, the various resources brought about by the agglomeration effect of large cities have become the primary conditions for realizing their dreams, which is one of the reasons why many young people invariably flow to big cities after completing their studies. The world here is full of prosperity and hustle and bustle, and it also carries their dreams and aspirations. However, the huge pressure of job competition and the high cost of living have forced them to stop chasing their dreams and gradually lose themselves.
Words such as "Shanghai Drift", "North Drift" and "Deep Drift" often describe the floating population group in a specific city, and he generally refers to the group of young people working in big cities. They follow the tide, follow the pace of their fellow villagers or classmates and friends, leave their hometowns and come to big cities to set up camp, although the surface is bright, but they often live a life of upheaval and displacement. People who are far away from home will definitely have a heart to experience when they see this movie.
Compared with the intuitive salary income, what makes the young people in the North Drift even more elusive is emotional confusion. For them, the farther away from their hometown home, the stronger the attachment to their hometown and the miss for their parents. On the one hand, it is a big city that is difficult to get a foothold, and on the other hand, it is a homeland that cannot be returned, and such a dilemma makes it difficult to make a choice. Like the title of the movie, it gives a clear direction in life, that is, to return to the beloved.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > the faces of different groups around young people: Who is the person you love the most? </h1>
As an old drama bone, in this movie full of life and grounding, Wang Zhiwen is full of drama. The representative of the powerful actors, playing a variety of roles is easy. In this film, he plays the heroine's father, Ai Zhonghua, a middle-aged and elderly man who is not good at expressing love.
In fact, for such a role, there are many emotional scenes. In particular, the estrangement of family affection is shown in the most natural and authentic way, which relies heavily on the actor's personal life experience and control of details. Many people are fond of Wang Zhiwen's elderly appearance, Wang Zhiwen's good acting skills are on the one hand, the most important thing is the restoration of ordinary life, there is no trace of deliberate choreography.
Ai Ling, played by Wang Jiajia, is a typical north drift girl, brave and stubborn, and is full of youthful breath and the fighting spirit of hard work in her. From a small place to a big city to work hard, witnessed the moment of happiness and sad tears, and felt a deep feeling for this kind of life. The main plot line of the movie mainly revolves around Ai Ling, when she returns to her hometown, facing her aging father and lovers thousands of miles away, the contradictory life has just begun. So, in the face of family affection and love, who is the person you are most worthy of love?
Powerful actor Zhang Yi still dedicates wonderful acting skills in this film, although the role is limited, but there are still many highlights, especially the scene with Ai Ling to meet the woman's parents, which is particularly real. A thick and honest city boy meets a beloved girl in a chance encounter, and follows his loved one from the hustle and bustle of the big city to the quiet mountain town. Here, he felt the true meaning of a different life, and he cherished this feeling even more.
Liu Yiwei does not play much in this film, but the role he plays is impressive, that is, the Shanghai drifters, who use their best youth to fight in the big city, and at the age of middle age, they have no choice but to leave the big city and return to their hometown to start a business. Such a type of person is not very successful, but after accumulating a certain amount of contacts and capital, he is tired of the original life. It is worth mentioning that liu yiwei and his daughter, who is also a father who loves his daughter, and his daughter play the father-daughter file, making the originally more delicate relationship more real.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-center-line" > family reconciliation, love sublimation, the ideal ending is the interpretation of the "return to the basics" life itself</h1>
The power of love can be transmitted, especially in the beloved. The affectionate affection that our parents give us is the most simple, whether it is that our parents are getting old or we are already adults. A dinner, a companionship, a laugh, and even a cold family relationship will be reconciled.
Back to real life, in the face of life and marriage, the family contradictions in the reorganized family are more prominent. In fact, what we need to do is to understand the pain of parents, no parent does not want their children to live happily, but the expression is inappropriate. While living in a foreign land, we must not forget the love and concern of our parents for ourselves.
When the person you love deeply is not far away, across the distance of time and space to return to your side, as always, accompany you to share your worries, you should feel extremely happy. Even if he was confused in the face of the cruel reality, in the company of his lover, he cherished the life in front of him even more, and he loved the one in front of him more deeply, and his love was unconsciously sublimated.
Ordinary life itself contains many firsts, among which the first meeting with the woman's parents is indispensable for every boy, and it is like a secular etiquette that is a responsibility. There will always be a time when the wandering life will stabilize, and compared to the state of being homeless in the big city, once you decide to return to your hometown to develop, lifelong events such as feelings will also be settled. Shy, nervous, slightly awkward atmosphere, this is actually a kind of witness ceremony of family entrusting love, and the participants are the ones who love each other.
Returning to the truth is an ideal state of life, if you really return to life itself, away from all kinds of temptations and hustle and bustle, you will truly reach the state of life.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-center-line" > understand the essence of life, and the life of wandering should not forget the hometown and relatives</h1>
Real life is multiplicity, it produces sweet and unforgettable moments of happiness, but also shed bitter and painful helpless tears. Can not be blindly optimistic, do not be too pessimistic, in the face of all kinds of good times and adversities in life, we must face it calmly and deeply understand the essence of life.
In today's society, to survive, there are often times when home and place of work are not available at the same time, which gives birth to a variety of groups wandering in the city, covering two huge groups of young people and middle-aged people, who either chase their dreams or support their families, and contribute to the prosperity and construction of the city. Even when wandering outside, the hometown is always the place where one's soul haunts oneself, and one's relatives are one's own thoughts. As a person, we must not forget our roots, see through the essence of life and return to the ideal life itself, so that life can take fewer detours.
As a film with a strong literary atmosphere, "Back to Every Day Of Being Loved" uses a seemingly old-fashioned script to write a new chapter of real and cruel life. Powerful actors coupled with beautiful color pictures, supplemented by highly topical social themes, let many people calm down to enjoy the movie at the same time also get comfort in their hearts. The life of North Drift is not completely bitter tears, and only by returning to your hometown can you experience the hardships in the tears. The film is as bland as water, but it is worth pondering, which is the charm of the small fresh movie that focuses on life itself.