Men were originally hard-hearted, but as long as they became fathers, they would have a gentle heart. - Young
In 2010, martial arts star Jet Li starred in a literary and artistic family movie "Ocean Paradise" with the article. The story of the film is simple, and the emotions are also very simple, but it is through the series of simple small things that the ordinary and great father's love is displayed and the audience is in tears.
As a film that reflects children's autism, the father and son in "Ocean Paradise" are dependent on each other, although the story is too warm and beautiful, some are detached from reality, and the simple name has dissuaded many people, but the introverted restraint and no deliberate sensational narrative in the film shows the greatness of father's love at the same time, but also allows people to have a new understanding of autistic patients.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > winged child, the same love</h1>
At the beginning of the film, there is a lonely boat in the endless sea, and the protagonist Wang Xincheng and his son Wang Dafu sit in the boat. After thinking about it for a long time, Wang Xincheng pulled his son Dafu to jump and jump into the sea, hoping to end the lives of the two of them.
It turned out that Daifuku had suffered from autism since he was a child, and his mother died unexpectedly when he was very young, and he could only rely on his father Wang Xincheng for his life. However, his father, Wang Xincheng, was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer and had only 3 to 4 months to live.
Wang Xincheng was worried that Dafu, who was completely immersed in his own world and had no ability to take care of himself, would have a more difficult life after he left, so he decided to take his son to jump into the sea with him and commit suicide. Daifuku did not understand the deep meaning behind his father's behavior, and he rescued his father from the shore, who was good at swimming.
After the suicide failed, Wang Xincheng spent all day worrying about where his son would go after him, he was not afraid of the disease, the only thing he worried about was what his son would do after his death. The decision to deprive his son of his life was too cruel, and Wang Xincheng decided to go to an institution that could receive Dafu.
At this time, Dafu had reached adulthood, and many institutions refused Wang Xincheng's request. Because he was worried that his son would not have a safe place after his death, Wang Xincheng, who had only a few months left in his life, did not give up hope, and while cultivating his son's ability to take care of himself, he continued to look for institutions that could take in Dafu.
Daifuku has suffered from autism since birth, and after losing his mother, only Wang Xincheng was by his side, and the father and son were dependent on each other. Because of Dafu's special situation, Wang Xincheng put all his time and energy into Dafu.
Whether it is facing the hardships of life or the hardships of carrying children alone, Wang Xincheng has never thought of giving up Dafu. Daifuku is lucky, he is like an angel with broken wings, although somewhat mutilated, but he has been cared for and loved like other healthy children.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="14" > little things flow deeply with deep fatherly love</h1>
With the efforts of Wang Xincheng, the old principal of Dafu's school who used to go to school found a private shelter for Dafu, the staff here are very friendly, Wang Xincheng sent Dafu's things over, and left Dafu here with confidence.
When saying goodbye to Dafu, Wang Xincheng was a little bitter and unwilling in his heart, but Dafu, who suffered from autism, did not show the slightest emotion. However, in the evening, Daifuku was emotional and constantly whimpering, and the staff had to call Wang Xincheng and ask him to take Daifuku home first.
It turned out that Dafu was not without emotions, not willing to be separated from Wang Xincheng, he was just different from the way ordinary people expressed their emotions.
Although Wang Xincheng found a place to take in Dafu, he also wanted Dafu to learn some life skills, because except for him, no one in the world could be so patient, so meticulous, and take care of Dafu.
In the last days of his life, Wang Xincheng put all his energy into teaching Dafu to improve his self-care ability. People often say that fatherly love is like a mountain, and this mountain is slowly piled up with little things.
Wang Xincheng taught Dafu to distinguish clothes over and over again, taught him to count the seconds of boiling eggs, dressed as a flight attendant, and taught Dafu, who was reluctant to communicate with people, how to get on and off the bus. Things that are easy for ordinary people may have to be repeated a thousand times in Dafu to learn, and Dafu's eyes have never seriously looked at Wang Xincheng, but Wang Xincheng has never given up.
In order to allow Taifuku to have a job, Wang Xincheng consulted with the manager of the aquarium and hoped to make Daifuku a cleaner of the aquarium. After that, Wang Xincheng began to teach Dafu over and over again how to clean.
The only time Wang Xincheng was angry with Dafu was because he was worried that before he left, Dafu would not be able to learn basic life skills. After anxiety, Wang Xincheng still held Dafu and continued to teach him patiently while comforting him.
Wang Xincheng is like a big tree, shielding dafu from all wind and rain, and using his love and patience to care for Dafu's heart. Every detail in life is poked in the tears, and after becoming a parent, there are weak ribs and the hardest armor.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="24" > short life, long companionship</h1>
Finding a home and a stable job for Dafu, Wang Xincheng can finally leave with confidence. At the end of his life, he took Daifuku to the Aquarium and asked Daifuku softly, "If one day, Daddy can't be with you, will you miss me?" ”
Dafu, who was immersed in his own world, did not understand the deep meaning of Wang Xincheng's words, nor did he understand that if his father separated from himself, he would never see each other again. Dafu was the deepest concern in Wang Xincheng's heart, and seeing that Dafu did not respond, he said: "Dafu, the turtle lives the longest, when you see a turtle, you have to think of your father." ”
Dafu seemed to understand, as if he had listened to the words, and seemed to be habitually nodding, but in Wang Xincheng's view, he had completed the goodbye to his son. Today's Daifuku, even if he does not have his own company, can live independently, and there are kind people around him who can help him continue to take care of Daifuku.
At Wang Dafu's funeral, all the people were sad and solemn, only Dafu was a consistent expression, and did not show a little sadness. Perhaps at this time in his heart, Wang Xincheng has become the turtle in the aquarium and will always accompany him.
At the end of the film, Daifuku follows the old turtle in the aquarium, circling around the old turtle, and finally holding the turtle and floating in the misty water.
After Wang Xincheng left, Dafu, a child who had not grown up, seemed to have suddenly grown up a lot. At this time, he can already count the number of seconds to cook boiled eggs, can walk step by step to the bus stop and wait for the bus; can say "I am down" loudly when the bus arrives at the station; and also learn to mop the floor in the aquarium.
Wang Xincheng spent only 21 years with Dafu, but he seemed to be one with Dafu and never left. Whether it is the old turtle in the aquarium, or the sound of the tide rising and falling, the sound of the waves lapping on the shore, these seem to be related to Wang Xincheng, as if he accompanied Dafu in another identity.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="32" > love and kindness create heaven</h1>
The title of the movie is Ocean Paradise, on the one hand, because of the good nature of the water, in his world, the ocean is heaven, on the other hand, perhaps because he regards the turtle as a departing father, and the ocean constructed by the father with love is a beautiful paradise.
In the 14 years of taking care of Dafu alone, Wang Xincheng did not have his own time, he had to work to support his family, and at the same time he had to accompany and take care of Dafu who could not take care of himself. In the face of all the grievances and pressures, he chose to bear it silently and took on the responsibility of a father, even if he was seriously ill, he never thought of giving up his son.
Therefore, when they saw this movie, many people were in tears. In the film, Wang Xincheng rushed to work for his children, touching the heartstrings of many people and reminding people of his father.
No matter when we were born or where we walked, our parents at home will always be a solid support behind us. Unlike the delicacy of maternal love, father's love is mostly deep and wordless, and when mentioning his father, the most important thing that comes to mind is his broad shoulders.
The autistic patient Dafuku played by the article has a stubborn personality, is unwilling to speak, and will always avoid making eye contact with people, and he uses his acting skills to try to show the life of autistic people, which also makes this movie bring autism to the public eye in addition to celebrating fatherly love.
Autism, also known as autism, is a developmental disorder. These children are not blind, but they are blind to the world; they are not deaf, but they are deaf to their surroundings; they are not dumb, but they do not know how to speak. One in every 160 children in the world is an autistic child, and they are alone and world-by-world. They are autistic people and children from the stars.
In addition to Wang Xincheng, there are many warm people in the film. The manager of the aquarium loves Daifuku very much and leaves him in the aquarium, Lingling of the circus becomes friends with Daifuku, the neighbor Aunt Chai does her best to help Daifuku, and the staff of the shelter is also patient and friendly to Daifuku... Most of the people in the film show great kindness to autism.
Some people also criticize the environment constructed in "Ocean Paradise" for not being realistic enough, this society can not be as beautiful as in the film for accepting adult autistic patients like Daifuku, and there is no "bad guy" character in the whole movie, but the ending and details of this movie have brought comfort and encouragement to the families of many autistic people.
These children come from the stars and are enclosed in their own world, but they also need companionship, encouragement and love as they grow up. They need a family like Wang Xincheng, but they also need the tolerance and love of this society.
The world is not black and white, and the society is complex, with a dark side and a light side. In this more and more diverse, more and more open world, I hope that these children from the stars, even if they live in their own small planet, can feel the warmth and love of life, and be treated tenderly by this world.