"Mental Hospital Daily" has a pair of sick companions, which reminds me of my father's love like a mountain of "Ocean Paradise"

In the second department of early intervention, it is extremely common to come to new patients and walk away from patients every day. Maybe you're listening to a song in bed, and one of the patients you often see leaves. Maybe it's because it's stable, maybe it's because it's more serious that you need to move elsewhere. But after staying so many days, I see many patients and guardians, and most of their relationships are very poor - parents forced in, grandmothers take care of the children's diet and living.

But today came a father and son, and I saw another picture, this picture from Jet Li and the article "Ocean Paradise" tells the story between an autistic child and a terminally ill father.

In this ward, most of the escorts are grandma, followed by mom, and dad is not. Of course, there are many economic factors, family factors, including the fact that the patients are mainly girls. But this father and son brought a little different color to the ward that I had been showing for several days.

The patient should be schizophrenic, he speaks very clearly and logically, but the content of what he says is not coherent, but every sentence can reveal simple, innocent happiness. He was tall, chubby, and gave me the feeling of being magnified as a small child. At first glance, his eyes looked like there was no god, no point of focus, but if he looked closely, he would find that there was a world of his own in his eyes. So I called him chubby.

The fat dad is a serious-looking middle-aged man who doesn't look old, so it can be inferred that the fat age is actually not very old. The fat father basically accompanies his son all the time, and the two of them sit together on the bed or the nursing bed, holding each other. Chubby is like a child, whispering to his father about his views on the world, talking about his liking for his father, talking about eating, going to the toilet and many other things. And Dad would accompany him to answer his questions, answering every sentence, as if between them, there was no language communication difficulty caused by the language barrier caused by schizophrenia.

The fat father uses a very simple method, but also a method that cannot be used by the father who loves his son deeply, to accompany the child. So the child can communicate with him, and the child can try to listen to him and do good things.

They would walk in the corridor outside together, two people holding hands, fat pointing to the peach heart of the previous patient on the wall, telling Dad that there was a peach heart here, and he also had a peach heart in his heart. Fat Dad smiled and said, yes, everyone has this thing, we must take good care of it. Chubby said, well, okay, I see. (Although then his mind jumped to the stars and black holes.

This scene made me feel as if I had returned to "Ocean Paradise" where Daifuku was polite to everyone and expressed kindness in his own way. The father played by Jet Li, in the only two months left in his advanced liver cancer, wants to teach Dafu to be independent.

All the dads (moms, grandparents) in the world can't always be with their loved ones. But these children have become a burden for themselves and their families because of natural problems, educational problems, and psychological problems.

I always feel that the problems that can be solved with money are not problems, and many of these problems are not solved by money.

How I hope that some parents and guardians can learn a little bit from this father, learn how to understand children, and care for children. But unfortunately, most parents did not communicate with fat dad because they were afraid of this empty-eyed, tough fat man. Maybe there is communication, and it is useless.