Blue sky, white clouds, clear water, a vast sea, a lonely leaf, a hesitant father, a sluggish son, sitting alone on the boat. The father looked at the sea, his heart was calm, perhaps this is the best destination for the child, so he quietly tied an iron knot to his son, and then took his son's hand and jumped into the sea...
The sea gradually flooded over, and the father's and children's bodies began to sink slowly. At this moment, the father's mind is full of bits and pieces about the child.
His father is 47 years old and named Wang Xincheng (Jet Li), and his son Taifook (Wenwen) is 21 years old. My son has suffered from autism since childhood and is unable to take care of himself. After the child's mother died unexpectedly when he was a child, the father and son became dependent on each other and pulled him up alone.
The father thought that he could take care of the child like this for a lifetime, but fate always loved to joke, and the father was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer, and his life was only three or four months left. The father is not afraid of death, and the child who cannot take care of himself has become his only concern. Countless nights, the father has difficulty sleeping: what should the child do after that? What to do?
Sinking, then sinking, the father who was drowned by the sea thought he was going to be liberated with his child! I never thought that my son, who grew up in the aquarium and dealt with water every day, had excellent water properties, and he broke free to untangle the iron knots, and he also took his father to swim out of the sea.
Looking at his son's efforts to survive, the father began to reflect on his own behavior: my days are running out, but I have no right to decide the life and death of my children, which is too unfair to him!
So the father began to take his children to learn "how to live":
How to buy groceries, how to cook, how to beat eggs, how to scramble eggs, over and over again.
How to take the bus, how to take the bus to see the road, how to use the key to open and close the door, over and over again.
Father himself was a plumber in an aquarium. He took the kids to work with him. He teaches children how to clean the floor and teaches them basic livelihood skills so that one day when he leaves, his son can have a job supporting himself in the aquarium. The father wants to give everything to the child, but time is merciless, and his liver disease is getting worse and worse every day, and time is running out!
"Son, father can't hold on!" He began to find a welfare agency for the child to adopt him, but the orphanage thought he was too old, the nursing home thought he was too young, and the social security agency rejected him because there was no policy to adopt the autistic child.
After unremitting efforts, a welfare home finally agreed to accept its son. After sending the child to the welfare home, the father happily returned home, and for the first time in many years, he went home alone. Since his wife had an accident in the aquarium 14 years ago, he and the child have been inseparable, tasting all kinds of sweet and sour, and the father lies on his son's bed and sees the world, this home, from his son's vision. In the haze, the welfare home called: after dark, your son began to make a big fuss, banging his head against the wall, not taking off his clothes and sleeping, and it was useless for the staff to persuade him.
The father rushed to the welfare home in a hurry, and the son suddenly threw himself into his father's arms and cried bitterly. The father caressed his son's back in pain, and the father and son embraced each other like long-separated relatives and wept, which made everyone present move and sigh. Yes, for more than a decade, every night he helped his son undress, wash his feet, and then coax him to bed. The father had to move his family to a welfare home and put a camp bed next to his son's bed to accompany him.
Time passed day by day, and by chance, my son met Lingling, a clown actor who came to the aquarium to perform. As long as he has time, he will run to secretly watch Ling Ling's performance, and Ling Ling will play with Dafu and talk to Dafu as long as she has time. Although Daifuku is wooden, he is with Lingling, and his face is always full of happy smiles. "Mom!" The son cried out in his heart.
The son finally has his own friend, in order to soothe the son's heart, the father is ingenious, carrying a homemade turtle shell prop, letting the son swim with himself, and informing him: the turtle has the longest life span, and the old turtle in the aquarium is himself. Dad will always be with you.
This day still came, with the attachment to his son and the world, the father came to the end of his life.
Now, my son works in the aquarium during the day and sleeps in the welfare home at night. Thinking of my father, I followed the old turtle to swim. When he was tired of swimming, he lay quietly on the back of the turtle, just like he had once been lying on his father's back, and at that moment, it was as if his father had returned, swimming with him, happy and warm.
Fatherly love, delicate and simple, those scenes that are often overlooked in life are touching to recall, and the tiny details that infect emotions and touch people's hearts unconsciously poke at the tears.
Not every story ends satisfactorily. After all, the father left the child, and the child continued to live with the love and hope given to him by the father.
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