<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > witness a happy old couple</h1>
---- Li Lingling and Wang Ping have walked through the wind and rain of life for 46 years
Li Lingling and Wang Ping took a group photo with the two girls
preface
What is a good couple like? Everyone has a different perspective and experience. Probably the vast majority of ordinary people, there are at least three emotions that cannot be separated from in their lives: parental love, husband and wife love, and children's love, these three emotions support the emotional world of a person's life. Among them, husband and wife love is often the largest span of companionship, a person with parents is about twenty years, the same is the same with children, husband and wife are at least half a life. Therefore, the relationship between husband and wife is a matter of great importance to the Chinese people, the family in any era of society will encounter various influences from the outside world, and the family is a person's last barrier guarantee, so how to correctly treat the relationship and emotions between husband and wife is crucial.
The most intimate relationship in the world is husband and wife, and the distance between the two hearts is the closest relationship and the most distant relationship, which seems contradictory, but it is a realistic portrayal of how many husband and wife relationships there are in the world.
Here is a couple over seventy years old, accompanied by wind and rain forty-six, they have experienced countless life tribulations in their lives, suffered a lot of suffering, suffered a lot of sins, but never gave up their pursuit of a better life: that is, a beautiful family life, accompanied by a lifelong love of music. They have created a warm family with strong love, raised two excellent daughters with hard work and sweat, and also cultivated excellent next generations with their love. In his later years, due to his love of music and dance, he met a group of like-minded old friends and cultivated a group of Nanshan music lovers. They are a happy couple, have an enviable family, have a group of good friends who love them, and they are a pair of elderly people who make people admire and respect them.
First, the glory of the ancestors did not bring her half happiness, but all kinds of pains and tribulations on the road of life
In this life, their experience grew up with the republic, because of the special influence of the two families, they witnessed the vicissitudes of history and experienced many hardships of life, and when they were young, they suddenly fell from the richest family to the real life of extreme poverty, which can be described as the ups and downs of life, which amazes them.
Sister Wang was born in 1952 into a large family in The Town of Baoji, Shaanxi Province. This is an extremely wealthy family, before liberation can be said to be the local rich family, the family is prosperous, the business is prosperous. Zu Shangshan managed and created large-scale assets: land, factories, and transportation. It can be said that it can be called a rich party, and it has made many contributions to local industrial development, charity, education assistance and public welfare, and has an excellent reputation in the countryside.
Her father was very good at reading in his youth, and in middle age he was a teacher at Baoji Middle School. Because of his high talent and personal magic, he is sought after by students in teaching and daily life, and has worked on the education front for many years and won the praise of teachers and students. At that time, the industry operated by the ancestors responded to the government's call for public-private partnerships after liberation and returned all the property in the family to the public. My grandfather ran to Chengdu to do fur business with foreign businessmen, and the family business was unmanaged, so my father had to quit his job as a teacher and bring his family to Tianshui from the beginning of 1954, and then to Silver to participate in construction. In Wang Ping's spiritual memory when she was a child, the silver was desolate and uninhabited, the wind and sand blew through a dark place, nothing could be seen clearly, and the sand dunes were scattered and tattered everywhere.
On the hardest days, her father led a group of guys and family members to build a house and a home. Father ran back and forth on the rough and difficult road every day, and often accompanied the wolves on the road at night, and the bells of the carriage and the light of the horse lamp illuminated the way forward, and the wolves did not dare to hurt people. After six years of this ordeal, in 1956, after the public-private partnership, everything was returned to the public, and all the efforts of the father were in vain and came to an end.
Later, in order to survive, the family came to Tianshui and did transportation business between silver and Tianshui. In the early years, she saw the big carriage on the street of Tianshui, which was inspired by her family; and there was the first big car, which his family also participated in the introduction. In 1966, during the Cultural Revolution, her family was divided into bourgeois families, and her father was sent to the farm to engage in the hardest agricultural life, where he worked for six years, consuming the best time of his life. Due to the influence of the family composition, after Zhiqing went to the mountains and went to the countryside, both of their sisters went to the countryside, and as the eldest in the family, she stayed temporarily in order to take care of the family. When the family was in the most difficult situation, the family supported their father's salary of 62.5 yuan, and they also had to share a share of the money to their elderly parents in their hometown.
In her youth, Wang Ping was influenced by her family and experienced discrimination and unfair treatment for all her children with high components: before finishing high school, she had to work to share the burden of the family for her parents. I just encountered a good opportunity to go to the cultural center as a docent, but because of the family composition problem, I did not pass the political examination, and I could not participate in my favorite job as I wished. Later, when the city motor factory recruited workers, she had to take a step out of life and go to work. At that time, what she remembered deeply was that she often did not have enough to eat, and a large family often waited for the rice to be cooked. After she worked, her colleagues gave her a dollar and a triangle to buy meat to eat at her house, and the supply and marketing agency stores could not buy it in line, and the meat was not eaten, and it was very embarrassing.
These are all part of the many tribulations she experienced in her youth, the blow to her suffering, and the same to her learning to face and be strong.
Second, the special family background allowed him to taste the warmth and coldness of the world's human feelings prematurely
Li Lingling's family origin is even more special, his maternal grandfather was a national officer, the famous Xu Tingyao. His father was a historical counter-revolutionary who had been serving at the Whampoa Military Academy, and on the eve of the liberation of Nanjing in 1949, he was preparing to flee to Taiwan and his family was arrested at the airport, when his mother gave birth to Li Lingling in the disaster. Because his father was a kuomintang military official, he had been reforming in Nanjing after liberation and was imprisoned for more than 20 years. His mother took the whole family and forced the exile to the Great Northwest Tianshui to make a living in order to survive.
His mother is a cultural person, can manage and understand finance, the government out of the needs of work to work in the Tianshui People's Bank, and their brothers and sisters at a young age forced to go to the east and west to survive, some to Shanghai, some to Anhui relatives' homes, to spend the most difficult days of life. It is conceivable that his mother suffered all kinds of shocks and tribulations during the Cultural Revolution.
Li Lingling was born in 1949 near the Presidential Palace of the Sun Yat-sen Mausoleum in Nanjing, and is now 72 years old. Now that the parents have been dead for many years, the eldest sister and the younger sisters are scattered everywhere, but they are very loving, caring, often in contact, and ask for warmth. The eldest sister and eldest brother care as much as parents do for their children. My sister graduated from Shanghai Medical College, is a senior intellectual, medical expert, and is now in her seventies, and after retirement, she continues to stay in the hospital to sit in the specialist clinic and serve patients. His brother was a rural intellectual in the Cultural Revolution, and after returning to the summer college entrance examination, he was admitted to the Chinese of Lan university, and after graduation, he was assigned to the education system of Tianshui City, served as the director of the Qinzhou Education Bureau, and retired to the United States with his daughter. Xiaomei worked as a manager in the commercial sector and is now retired. It can be said that everyone in the family has been affected by the history of their parents, but no one has sunk down, but has achieved outstanding results by relying on their tenacious fighting spirit.
Most of Li Lingling's life was spent in adversity and endeavor. Influenced by his family history, he did not succumb, but relied on his own ingenuity to overcome difficulties with tenacious perseverance in the most difficult period. After joining the work, he worked in a paper mill in Tianshui City. At that time, the country was poor, financial constraints, and the enterprise was even more difficult, as a young man in the factory, he had the culture to understand technology and devoted himself to work.
In the factory for many years, he is very aware that the development of the enterprise depends on technology, without the investment of new technology is a dead end. At that time, there was an advanced paper machine with hundreds of thousands of people in the factory, and due to the damage, there was no technical strength to repair and sleep for many years, and he was very shocked and sad after seeing it! In order to make this precious machine run as soon as possible, he studied with the workers and masters, insisted on technical research, and repaired day and night for several months, and finally came back to life, and the machine was successfully operated, which made a great contribution to the factory.
Because he was diligent in studying, good at studying technology, honest and earnest, close to the party organization, he joined the Communist Party of China after eight years of struggle and became a qualified enterprise leader. He has served as a leader in Tianshui and Gangu Paper Mills. He loves the factory, devotes himself to his work, and after hard work, he has obtained the titles of senior technical worker and intermediate engineer, and won many commendations and awards from the industry system and the city and county. Similarly, he also loves his employees, especially sympathizes with employees in difficulty, and takes care of all aspects and asks cold questions. Whoever has difficulties, he has to go to the door to help, and everyone praises.
Three, two people who meet in suffering, work together to support poor families
After working for a year, Wang Ping became acquainted with Li Lingling. She was very sympathetic to her husband's situation, and whenever she saw his mother's charitable, beautiful and strong figure, Wang Ping felt that she had given herself infinite strength. The old man could not forget his husband, children and elderly old woman in the years of suffering. No matter how difficult life is, she always has a dream, often singing a song of "Qiushui Yiren": looking through Qiushui, not seeing the shadow of Yiren---- only your daughter yo, has grown lively and innocent---- when listening to the old man's affectionate sad song, Wang Ping, as a daughter-in-law, quietly shed tears.
Wang Ping's acquaintance with Li Lingling was resolutely opposed by her family. At that time, although she was blocked by the family and beaten several times by her parents, she was determined to marry her husband. The mother-in-law treated her like a daughter, they were like mother and daughter; the husband knew that she cared for her, and for all this she did not care about anything, insisting on going to the end of the road she had identified.
In this way, they worked together to build a home in the difficult years. A few years passed, and the elderly in the family passed away one after another. Wang Ping also retired, but instead of resting, she took her grandson to a kindergarten to work as a nurseryman and brought her grandson to school. Later, he opened a small dining table and tutoring class, which was welcomed by the parents of the students because of its affordability and warmth, and the source of students was very good. After eight years of doing it, I was old and overwhelmed, so I let go.
Fourth, life has been tempered without complaint or regret, and finally saw the rainbow
This life has passed quickly, in the blink of an eye, they have reached the age of two sideburns, the family is happy, the children's careers are successful, they have completed their obligations very satisfactorily, and it is time to rest and cherish the rest of their lives.
The eldest sister Wang Ping has been influenced by a good big family culture since she was a child, and has a high realm and pursuit of life. She pursues the elegance and perfection of life all her life, loves family life, and often cleans up the home. She not only cooks a good home-cooked dish, but also grows flowers and raises fish, and in her spare time, she holds a book and a cup of tea to spend a quiet happy time.
She has the same hobbies as her husband and loves music very much. When she saw her husband, that is, because he could play beautiful music, she was deeply attracted to her and inspired her to pursue music and fall in love with her husband. During her work in the factory, she often sang and danced with her colleagues in the assembly workshop, and she often performed the most popular song "Huang ShuiYao" in the workshop of that era, which was sought after by her co-workers.
While working in the marketing department of the newspaper, in addition to her love of music, she also developed a strong interest in reading. She understands that the only way to enjoy life is to read, and she has poetry and books in her belly, and reading makes her life full of happiness, joy, and open-mindedness. She now often writes some feelings about life in the WeChat circle of friends, which is well received by everyone.
After retirement, they went in pairs every day, insisted on exercising, dancing and singing, often participated in various performance activities organized by the elderly team in Tianshui City, and went in and out of communities, factories, and troops to perform, not only publicizing the party's line and policies, but also enlivening the cultural and entertainment life of the masses, bringing joy and happiness to elderly friends.
Elder Brother Li has loved music all his life, and when he was young, he did not have the conditions to go to a regular music university, but he always hid a musical dream in his heart. After retirement, he used various times to actively participate in the performance activities of the Nanshan Song and Dance Troupe, and also used the Internet to study music theory knowledge and continuously improve his performance level. He is very strict with himself, insists on practicing the basic skills all year round, pursues the perfect performance of music, adheres to the artistic standards of learning fine and good learning, and strives to contribute to everyone's happiness.
How big people's hearts are, how big the stage is. The old couple's later life is rich and colorful, with quality, pursuit and dreams. Sister Wang is a confident and tasteful person in the eyes of everyone, and Brother Li is a person with free and interesting interest, and is a pair of happy couples in Nanshan. We can feel from them: today's happy life is soaked in the time of years, is polished through a long time, is through the trials of wind and rain to cultivate each other, they love each other like guests, happy and loving, holding the hand of the son, accompanying each other for life, setting a model for us in the life of husband and wife.
Looking back at the life journey they have traveled in this life, although they have experienced too much suffering, they look back and look at it again: the suffering they suffered in those years and the tribulations they have experienced are the foundation of today's happy life, and all the sufferings in the past are prepared for this year's happy life. Only in the life that has suffered hardships can we truly appreciate that today's happiness is not easy to come by, and we will know how to cherish today's happy time, and we sincerely hope that they will live a happy, healthy and long life in their old age!
Description: Written on November 22, 2020 based on materials provided by the eldest sister. Later, I asked myself to revise it and agree to publish it.
Li Lingling and Wang Ping took a group photo when they got married
This is a photo of Wang Ping when she was eighteen years old as a docent
This is a photo of Wang Ping when she participates in the performance
Li Lingling took a photo when he participated in the performance in the countryside
This is a photo of Wang Ping at home
Li Lingling's photograph of practicing the piano on weekdays
This is a group photo of Wang Ping with colleagues while working at Tianshui Daily
This is a group photo of Li Lingling and Wang Ping when they traveled
This is a group photo of Wang Ping with her second grandson who is in college
Wang Ping poses with her two daughters
Li Lingling and Wang Ping take a group photo of their eldest grandson and girlfriend
Scenes of the family life of Li Lingling and Wang Ping