Are there any shows in this world that Koreans dare not make?
In late September, South Korea suddenly announced that it would launch an unprecedented new variety show .
What love shows are weak and explosive, this time, they directly found divorced celebrity couples to live together!!
The original intention of the show is a serious book: in order to give these divorced couples a chance to reflect on the life of the two, and at the same time, to explore whether there is a possibility of establishing a new relationship after divorce.
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But is that the point??? A tearing war has been staged in my head!
As soon as the news was sent, netizens exploded. Whether in China or South Korea, none of them were broadcast first. Everyone unanimously said that just imagining it is like a thorn in the back, like a fish in the throat, like a needle felt.
But the next second, the instinct to eat melons makes people start to be tempted to nominate candidates:
Even began to fantasize about the Chinese version!
The Korean program group is still on the first layer, and Chinese netizens have already thought of the fifth layer, and they have also arranged derivative programs.
The most "bamboo shoot" variety show of the year is a waste of time. After the first episode was broadcast, it was frantically searched, and the Douban score soared directly to 8.3, and it also successfully reached the top of the ratings in South Korea.
However, unlike the expected style of painting, the program team did not blindly attract attention, but seriously restored and explored the real dilemma in marriage.
No tearing, no dog blood, but enough to suffocate.
This show, there's a little bit of stuff —
"We're Divorced"
The show invited two groups of divorced couples.
One of them is Li Yinghe, a 70-year-old actor this year, and XianYu Yinshu, a 62-year-old actor.
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Many young viewers may not know them, if you have to make an analogy, in the words of the host, Li Yinghe is Kong Liu or Li Dongxu of that era.
He is not only the master of yuanzu romance films, but also a powerful actor who has fascinated thousands of young girls.
The popularity of Yin Shu should not be underestimated, and she can be called a youth idol of the Yuanzu Ancestors with a pure and moving appearance.
He has also participated in well-known works such as "Full House of Romance" and "Blue Life and Death Love".
The union of these two people was high-profile and sensational at the time, and was also called the wedding of the century.
However, they chose to divorce by agreement after 26 years of marriage.
In that era when divorce would be regarded as a "disgrace", in an instant, all kinds of gossip and rumor speculation broke out frequently, and it was the actress who stepped in, and the woman who was pursued by the chaebol...
Finally, it was Xian Yu Yinshu who attended the press conference alone, clarified the false rumors, said that there was no special reason for the divorce, and made a surprising statement, and there may be a possibility of reunion in the future.
Now, separated for two years and divorced for 13 years, the two finally met alone for the first time in 15 years on the show.
But from the very beginning, the attitudes of the two sides were very different.
Before leaving, Xian Yu Yinshu specially did makeup and hair, like a little girl, while guessing what the other party's first expression would be like when she saw herself, she asked herself uneasily, "Will he treat me as a woman", and also prepared food for her ex-husband intimately.
Look at Li Yinghe again, busy with friends all day, looking completely indifferent.
After the two really met, the scene was even more embarrassing that people could not bear to look at directly.
Xian Yu Yinshu has been trying to find a topic, bluntly saying that she is excited, brave and frank.
But Li Yinghe has always been evading, neither daring to look at each other, nor answering the phone at all, really forcing him to laugh awkwardly, and all kinds of reluctant performances even make people wonder why he came to the show?!
When Xian Yu Yinshu sighed that time flew by, she couldn't help but cry and asked, "Don't you think time is a pity?" ”
That kind of regret made onlookers can't help but cry, but Li Yinghe once again lightly avoided the answer, and said that his heart was beating fast and he was going to eat the "heart-saving pill", which made people cry and laugh.
When you are young, one wants to talk and the other doesn't want to listen. Xian Yu Yinshu was anxious to pour out all the grievances and doubts that had accumulated in her heart for decades in just three days and two nights.
She kept asking questions and attacking.
"When you had a baby, you didn't spend a day in bed."
What is even more excessive is that when he deliberately ran to the train station to pick up her husband's performance after completing the confinement, he also witnessed him pulling the actress in one hand and carrying the other party's suitcase towards himself.
Even on her honeymoon trip, which was only once in her life, Li Yinghe ran alone to drink with local friends, leaving her alone.
Never enjoyed the sweetness of love, which was a regret in her life, but never to be able to do it again.
Whether it is a junior, a colleague or a friend, Li Yinghe has always taken good care of her, and even is famous in the industry. He is unconditionally considerate of people all over the world, but he is indifferent to his wife.
So that when someone bullied her, XianYu Yinshu clearly said that he would let Li Yinghe not make friends with the other party again, but instead of listening, he reprimanded himself.
"Why is it so good to others but so good to me?"
When she was young, she had to face her mother-in-law and husband alone, and she had to look at people's eyes and live carefully, and many grievances did not dare to say.
When I was old, I was finally able to ask the questions that made me so painful face to face, but what I got was that Li Yinghe pushed the responsibility to the young immature and pushed to the atmosphere of the times, an understatement of "I did it wrong", without any meaning.
One wants an answer, one just wants to be clean.
Originally, he wanted to make up for the two-person world that he had not had in the marriage, and also opened up the misunderstanding, but in the end it became another nightmare that was rarely repeated by Yin Shu.
Because of another trip after 40 years, Li Yinghe, instead of cherishing it, called out her juniors to drink together and let Xian Yu Yinshu wait alone in the car.
Time has only downplayed the contradictions, but has not solved the problem.
"He still hasn't changed."
Divorced, she still enjoys the care of her ex-wife and lets Xian Yu Yinshu help her decorate the house.
Still ignore the other party's humility and flattery.
He still regards the other party's cooking for himself as a matter of course, without a word of thanks.
Looking at the second group of divorced couples, the roles of men and women have been reversed.
Internet celebrities Cui Meat and Liu Zisu, a young couple who have only been divorced for 7 months.
The love affair between the two begins with the most romantic romance novel plot - love at first sight.
Later, Fengzi got married and had a lovely daughter, and the family of three often shared a happy life on YouTube plus sprinkled dog food.
But caught off guard, the two who had been married for only 5 years announced their divorce.
Their own CP has begun, and many fans are confused and can't figure out why.
This point is even more confusing after seeing the way the two get along.
Because unlike the previous couple, the man's attitude has always been very positive, always trying to talk, and also taking the initiative to cook for Shiso.
Soon after the divorce, the tacit understanding of life still exists, and When Shiso washes her face, Cui Flesh will naturally help her grasp her hair.
Between the chats, he revealed that he used to massage Shiso every night.
It will also affirm the hard work of perilla with children.
The topics of the two chats are also quite bold, not talking about the intimate "interaction" they once had:
It is to invite the same bed to share the pillow:
I watched the atmosphere turn to 18 several times.
Until Cui Meat meat mentioned his father-
An 80-year-old stubborn old man with extreme patriarchy, a tough attitude and old thinking.
"There is no woman like that in the world."
"Whether as a woman or a parent, it's a zero."
Because the daughter-in-law does not ask for greetings to herself, and does not take the initiative to cook when she wakes up in the early morning, her father is extremely dissatisfied with Shiso.
It has even reached the point of directly scolding in front of the granddaughter, and the speech is very ugly, without any regard for the impact on the child.
And this contradiction did not break out after marriage, as early as the family meeting before marriage, Cui Meat's father had spoken ill of Shiso's mother, causing great harm to both mother and daughter.
It is often said that marriage is a matter of two families, but divorce is also a tragedy for two families.
Because of Cui's father, Shiso's mother, even if she misses her granddaughter, wants to take her home and take her home for two days without consent.
It's just that his father is old, and out of health concerns, Cui Meat can't stand on the side of his wife, he is helpless, and his ability is not enough to deal with this kind of family problem.
But when Shiso asked her father why he kept scolding himself, Cui Meat asked, "Don't you really know?" ”
In a word, it can be seen that although he also feels guilty about his ex-wife, he may still agree with some of his father's views deep down.
Perhaps seeing through this, Cui Meat has the idea of compounding, but Shiso has no such will at all.
"Divorce is not about being happy, it's about reducing unhappiness."
Even if you love each other, if your father's problems are not solved, then separation is the best choice.
However, it is not certain that as the show continues, what will happen to the two.
From the beginning simply to eat melons, to the later true feelings of the chase and high degree of empathy with the protagonists in it, I believe that anyone who has watched the show in its entirety can not take this as ordinary star gossip and laugh it off.
Because this is not a dog-blooded romance exclusive to celebrities, but a microcosm of the real marital dilemma of all of us in general.
Two former couples reveal their scars in front of the camera, authentic and sincere, whether they have experienced marriage or not, and seeing their past experiences can not be moved.
Awkward, humble, naked, unbearable... The cruel truth of marriage is punctured one by one, especially the true restoration of the difficulties faced by women after marriage.
Take pregnancy, for example.
Xian Yu Yinshu, who has a child, once went to the set to visit Li Yinghe alone with a big belly, but when she saw the actresses in the same group who were all bright and beautiful, but she became fat and acne because of pregnancy, the feeling of inferiority that broke out instantly made her collapse and cry.
"How did I become less like a woman?"
Nearly 40 years have passed since that loss and still can't be let go.
A 24-year-old actress, when she was young and beautiful, had to watch herself become ugly a little bit because of pregnancy, and her heart was afraid, uneasy and unwilling, but this became a disease-free moan in her husband's eyes.
Of course, every woman is like this.
Not only is the status of marriage unequal, but the experience after divorce is even more different.
You can never imagine how harsh society is on divorced women, let alone entertainers, and divorce is social death.
At that time, the media immediately pointed all the spearhead at Xian Yu Yinshu, rumoring that she was being pursued by rich people.
No one believed her clarification, everyone felt that there must be something wrong with the divorced woman, and Xianyu Yinshu had been insomnia for three years and had taken medicine for three years, and even thought about ending all this with death when it was most painful.
Women will always be criticized more than men, male artists can quickly come back, but female artists' acting careers are likely to end.
The times cannot be used as a backdrop, because we can clearly see that even today these conditions have not changed.
The vast majority of netizens said that they were more afraid of marriage after watching it.
It turns out that marriage is so fragile, it does not even have to wait for the occurrence of principled problems such as infidelity and domestic violence, and often the indifference, neglect and obstruction of the other party are enough to become the last straw that crushes the camel.
However, there is no need to be afraid of marriage itself, more importantly, it is actually a calm thinking before entering marriage.
Many irreconcilable contradictions can be seen before marriage, and do not expect to be able to calm down naturally after marriage.
The time to give birth to a child should not be too natural, because the arrival of a life is often "at the expense" of the parents' best year.
Learn to understand each other, always communicate patiently, not affected by the world's vision, and the status of both parties is equal.
Compared with the six-month-long cooling-off period of compulsory divorce, what can effectively reduce the divorce rate should be to guide everyone to no longer be trapped in the old marriage model of "male and female protagonists" and "daughters-in-law must serve the father-in-law", and respect each other in marriage.