Many of our couples will have marital difficulties. But in the case of infidelity, it is recommended to break up and end the relationship.
After we got married, the couple became strangers. Usually, there is little talk and no communication. When we encounter problems, we blame each other, and we are moved to see the opposite sex. Even if it's a sentence or two for us, we're in a particularly good mood. In this way, we are easily distracted, easy to empathize with each other, and at the beginning we are mentally infidel, and we will date the opposite sex and watch movies.
Here in the opposite sex we find happiness, find unprecedented happiness. Compared to the other half of the family that upset us, at first we dated occasionally, for a long time, and the dates were frequent. Maybe the other half will do the same, find a partner to talk to.
Facing two people who are cheating on each other illustrates a problem. That is, there is no affection for each other, no love for each other. Never get back to the original feeling, it may be that the two people did not love each other, and they made the mistake of walking together. Instead of living with your partner every day, become a strange roommate. Not as good as a showdown, divorce or breakup is the best option. We are all adults, not children, we must learn to take responsibility and learn to solve problems in an adult way.
Many of us couples, when encountering the matter of infidelity, are more entangled, do not know what to do? Even if the psychology is particularly painful, it is not willing to divorce and break up, the psychology is particularly concerned about each other, afraid that after the divorce, the parents will abandon themselves, embarrass their parents, and so on.
It's understandable to feel this way, especially for female friends. After marriage, the mother's family becomes a guest, and the in-laws are outsiders. If we get divorced, we will have to move out of our in-laws' house, and our mother's family will not be able to go back. Many of our female friends don't have jobs and aren't financially independent, so choosing divorce hits us too hard.
But in a home without love, life is not happy at all. We should look for our own happiness, we should be brave, we should find happiness, and we should also decisively say goodbye to the divorce now. Don't dwell on it, don't hesitate, happiness is in our hands.
Our female friends must be financially independent, whether it is after marriage or after having children, we must have a job or something that can be done happily for ourselves.
An affair is when many people meet the opposite sex in marriage and are not optimistic about their lover, but an affair can destroy a family. A lot of affairs are running for money. After we have a family, we have to keep our distance from the opposite sex. The wife and children at home are the ones who love us the most.
Two people live a good life, solve problems together, occasionally come to a romance, give a little color to the ordinary life, and leave happiness to each other.