Do you accept such love?

I feel that I am really a failure as a person, I am in my forties, and I am often scolded by my old mother. From childhood to adulthood, she has been scolded for being useless, every time she comes to my house, her two eyes are like searchlights to inspect the health situation everywhere, and every time I am scolded for being dirty at home. The problem is that friends and colleagues come to my house and praise my clean house.

Today, as usual, I came home from work happily and had dinner together, and during the meal, my father sandwiched a few pieces of sub-dishes, and my mother immediately stared at him to let him eat less of this dish, and casually pushed a pot of small yellow fish left over from my son's noon to my father for him to eat. I said casually: Don't let this pot of fish be diluted by my son at noon. If he likes to eat other dishes, let him eat them, as long as he doesn't eat more. Because my dad has high blood pressure and old problems with cardiovascular blockage, I know that my mom's starting point is also good, afraid that my dad will eat more high-fat dishes. My mother was immediately upset when she heard it, and said sharply: How good I am to you, how tired I usually am, I still help you mop the floor today, let's do it, let's do it. I said: I didn't let you do it, you can rest well, some things you feel good, others may not be good. This is good, directly fried, she picked up the two pots of vegetables on the table and fell to the ground, the plates were all broken. Then he sat on the side and scolded, anyway, anything ugly was scolded. I was really tired, and I didn't dare to talk back, and if I did, she would have to tear down her home. After scolding, she pulled my dad up and went back to her house.

The world was suddenly pure. Friends, are you saying I'm wrong? [Tears]