One of the most common hallucinations of modern marriage is to pin the quality of marriage on finding an eternal and unchanging "ideal object." Once they don't get along as expected, people's first reaction is always "Are you looking for the wrong person?" ”。 So there are always people who ask: "What should I do if I meet better people in the future?" ”
< h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > "I've Lived My Life Like This."</h1>
I watched a movie yesterday called "I Lived My Life Like This", which is about a woman named Guimei, who went to Taiwan to join her cousin when she fled. Then her cousin-in-law introduced her to a divorced man who had 3 children. This man is a cook, and she sent someone under the fence to force her to marry.
Later, the man's eldest daughter did not accept her and kept working against her. His man still always gambles for money. Tell her to pack leftovers and eat them home. She lost it without eating leftovers, and when the man came back and wanted to drink and asked her, she said she lost it. The man got angry and said, "As long as you are high, you don't eat leftovers" She said, "Do we have anything to eat or be upright?" After opening your own small shop, how to eat how to eat. "But the man still gambled money, and because of the gambling money, she lost her job, and she was pregnant without rice at home." There was no way, I had to take the jewelry. And said to the man, "I beg you, I won't gamble anymore." The man promised to be good, or blocked, she rushed to the mahjong table one by one to ask her the man to pay back the money, the man ignored her, she directly drew the knife and asked, alarming the tire gas was born.
After giving birth, life was even more difficult, and she heard that going to Japan was highly paid, so she let her husband smuggle her to Japan to earn money. Took the eldest son and younger daughter with him. After a few years of hard work, I made some money and came back, and my husband was still raising women outside. She said she was going to work in a factory, and when she made money, her five children were all hers. Later, his eldest daughter fell pregnant early, and the children in the family were sick, saying that the child was her mother's concern, and she had to return to that home.
Eventually she got uterine cancer. The children are also married. She and his old open shop, her husband was reluctant to sell. There is a line in it: "Men who gamble money and have women, either forgive or accept, both of which I am not willing to accept." But what if she didn't accept it, "At the end of her life, with her children in groups, she found that what she couldn't let go of was her first love." And the men around her didn't know her preciousness until they were old. Unfortunately, there is no chance anymore!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > netizens' bullet screen is lamentable</h1>
However, the bullet screen of netizens makes people sigh, 1, a woman marrying someone is equal to a second rebirth, and what kind of person to marry is very important. 2, no matter at any time must be self-respect, self-love, self-confidence and self-improvement, because relying on their own hands to work hard to earn the money to spend peace of mind. 3) Good women influence three generations. Women will bear the weight for the sake of their children.
I think after watching the movie, I feel that the heroine is really inspiring, no matter what the situation, she has not given up the hope of life, nor has she given up her confidence and courage to work hard, no matter how bad it is, she has not given up her children and responsibilities as a mother, which is very valuable.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > is such love and marriage really what we want? </h1>
And today's times have changed, the strength of contemporary personal economic strength, has made marriage can not become a moat of life and feelings, everyone in their hearts, are actually based on self-interest, self-feeling as the center, to self-security as the boundary; human nature is complex, the evaluation of self-interest is difficult to have a market, the balance of interest considerations is the current human feelings and reality, especially the elders of the family, many people just calculate the choice not to say. Seeing through and not saying broken, they have also become protective colors, but is this kind of love and marriage really what we want?
What do you think? Please leave a message in the comment area and talk to me. I am Yanchun a video anchor who has been delayed by new media operation promotion and copywriting planning, welcome to pay attention, we learn together every day, continue to improve, and meet a better self.