Do you know who was the only volunteer soldier officially approved to marry a local North Korean girl during the Korean War? It should be known that when the volunteer army went to Korea to resist the United States and aid Korea in the 50s of the last century, there was a clear stipulation in the army that soldiers could not fall in love with local Korean girls, let alone get married.
So what kind of story did he go through, and how did he fall into the trap of love with the heroine? What happens after he has a spark of love with the girl?
One: When do you know when you will see each other? At this time, this night is embarrassing!
Today I am sharing with you the story of a soldier named Wang Xingfu from the Korean War. Wang Xingfu was not a front-line worker in the Korean War, and he has been doing logistical work. For example, he worked as a clerk at a military station, and occasionally helped ordinary Korean families around the battlefield to do farm work.
In this context, the North Korean girl Wu Yushi knew Wang Xingfu. Wu Yushi's brother was a warrior, but unfortunately her brother fell on the battlefield, and only she was left in the family. At first, the girl was only seventeen years old, but it was possible to get married in that era.
The troops took extra care of the families of the martyrs, and Wu Yushi found work in the surrounding area with the help of the Chinese Volunteer Army. When the warriors are free, they will also go to the village to help do what they can. As soon as they came and went, Wu Yushi's contact with the warriors was naturally more.
At that time, the Chinese Volunteer Army's military station had movies to be screened, and everyone sat together to watch the atmosphere. When the Chinese Volunteer Army's military station played a movie, Wu Yushi would tie two braids and happily go to the military station to watch a movie.
It was fashionable to be able to watch movies with the villagers in those days. In addition to the movies, there are snacks to eat in the Chinese Volunteer Army's military station, such as steamed sweet potatoes, steamed bun slices and so on.
Wu Yushi liked to go to the Chinese Volunteer Army's military station, although at first she was not able to communicate with the Chinese Volunteer Army, after all, the language was not clear. But later, they got along more, and the other party wanted to express what he meant, and he could probably guess it.
After going to the military station more often, Wu Yushi and Wang Xingfu had more exchanges. Wang Xingfu said that the girl with two small pigtails was particularly handsome. Wu Yushi later recalled Wang Xingfu at that time, saying that he was very honest, only knew how to work, and knew how to leave a place for her when playing movies.
But once, Wu Yushi couldn't find the familiar figure in the military station. After inquiring about it, Wu Yushi learned that when Wang Xingfu went out that afternoon, his leg was injured and his pants were torn.
Wu Yushi went to look for him, but she didn't see anyone when she looked around, only a pair of torn pants in Wang Xingfu's office. Wu Yushi took his pants back, sewed them himself, and quickly sent them back to others at the evening party, not even paying attention to the movie and the steamed buns.
Wang Xingfu saw the pants sent by Wu Yushi, neat and tidy, a bit like the thoughtful feeling of his mother in his hometown. Although the two did not say anything, the feelings of the two warmed up that day. Wang Xingfu gestured at Wu Yushi with his hands, telling the girl not to do this in the future, to do her own thing, and to let the villagers help sew clothes, which is a matter of bad discipline.
The girl roughly understood, blushed and left. Later, when Wang Xingfu went to the village to help them carry water and work, Wu Yushi often appeared next to the boy to help set up the handle. The two men looked like very good friends, and Wang Xingfu taught Wu Yushi a few simple words of Chinese.
Immediately after the relationship between the two people became closer and closer, Wu Yushi repeatedly wanted to stay at Wang Xingfu's home to eat, but the man refused. Finally, one day, when Wu Yushi was carrying water, he accidentally tripped over a stone and fell to the ground, and the water was scattered everywhere. The clothes were also dirty with dirt, and the twisting of the feet was particularly painful.
Wang Xingfu helped the girl into the house, gave her some medicine, and took care of her next to her. Taking this opportunity, Wu Yushi tugged at the boy's sleeve and wanted to ask Wang Xingfu about the specific situation in his hometown.
This question only knew that although Wang Xingfu had been engaged in the work of the volunteer army station for almost 2 years, he not only did not marry in his hometown, but also never fell in love. This news made Wu Yushi very happy, and she took the opportunity to express her feelings to Wang Xingfu. He said that he learned to mend a pair of cloth shoes and wanted to wear them when the boy was working.
The window paper of the two people was broken, but at that time, free love was not so simple. Wang Xingfu is very worried, after all, the two people are not citizens of the same country, in this relationship they may encounter a particularly large resistance, but also worried that the woman's parents may not necessarily support the continuation of the relationship.
But unexpectedly, Wu Yushi's parents took the initiative to show that they were very optimistic about Wang Xingfu, and they also hoped that the boy could take good care of his daughter in the future. Wang Xingfu was relieved, he knew that all he had to do was to stick to his position.
When the Korean War slowly came to an end, Wang Xingfu was particularly nervous about this relationship. Because there were two problems he faced at that time, the first was that if with the dispatch of the troops, Wang Xingfu would most likely have to leave Korea quickly and return to the embrace of the motherland.
The second question is Wang Xingfu, who is a member of the volunteer army, and his identity is a Chinese soldier, then he will accept all the disciplinary arrangements of the Chinese army. One of them is that Chinese volunteer soldiers are not allowed to have feelings with local North Korean girls.
Although there were also many Chinese soldiers and North Korean women in that period who sparked love, these feelings ended without a problem. Because the discipline of the troops was not allowed, Wang Xingfu was also extremely distressed at that time due to various regulations.
Two: Knowing that it is so troubling, how can it be as if they did not know each other in the first place.
But Chinese there is an old saying that it is better to demolish a temple than to destroy a marriage. This means that Chinese is very fond of matchmaking for others, and Wang Xingfu has met such a good leader. After they learned that Wang Xingfu had such confusion, they took the initiative to find Wang Xingfu. According to the discussion on this matter, Wang Xingfu expressed the state he was in and hoped that the superior leaders could give him a suggestion.
Finally, with the help of everyone, Wang Xingfu got a final solution, that is, on-site restoration. This means that if Wang Xingfu insists on being with a local girl, Wu Yushi, then he must give up his status as a Chinese volunteer, which may affect his military status and nationality.
In the face of these choices, Wang Xingfu bent his waist for love without hesitation, so after layers of approval, Wang Xingfu finally got the consent form and completed the desire for local demobilization. He can finally stop caring about everything and get the right to marry a North Korean girl, Wu Yushi.
But the process of restoration in situ was not so easy, they applied around 1953, and the final result was only reached in 1962. There was an interval of nearly 9 years, and this 9 years of time has not allowed Wang Xingfu to break off his love for Wu Yushi.
Wang Xingfu kept this document, and often used it to joke with his wife: I am really obsessed with you. When he and Wu Yushi entered into marriage as he wished, the first thing the two did was to write to the relevant institutions to express their gratitude. After the two married, they respected each other as guests, between the girl's family conditions and other reasons, at that time Wang Xingfu did not return to China to settle down, in North Korea has been taking care of the woman's parents.
However, Chinese has a nostalgia complex, Wang Xingfu's body is flowing with the blood of Chinese, even if he is married in North Korea and has children in North Korea, his love for the mother of the motherland has not decreased. So during the period when he lived in North Korea, he has been doing business related to overseas Chinese education.
For example, there are three overseas Chinese primary schools next to Wang Xingfu's home, and there is also an overseas Chinese middle school, and then Wang Xingfu went to test for the teacher position in these schools, and then was successfully included. Because of his outstanding performance and increasingly deep qualifications, Wang Xingfu also became the principal of the Third Overseas Chinese Primary School, and his professional ability was deeply affirmed.
However, Wu Yushi's parents gradually passed away, and Wang Xingfu did not have too many worries at that time, and finally he decided to return to his country. Because when Wang Xingfu and Wu Yushi entered the marriage before, the man gave up his original nationality and chose to follow the woman to join the Korean nationality.
But now that he has no more worries, he decided to renounce his North Korean citizenship and return to his homeland. In 1967, Wang Xingfu decided to retire his nationality and return to his Chinese identity.
But returning to Chinese nationality is a very difficult thing, so Wang Xingfu can only become an overseas Chinese in North Korea in the process of waiting. It wasn't until the late 1970s that his request to restore his Chinese citizenship was finally approved by the government and he has been teaching at home ever since.
In fact, Wang Xingfu's story is a moving offshoot of the Korean War. There were too many stories of warriors in that era who were sad, and they were a different and warm one. Like Zhou Xiaolan, she is a woman from an ordinary family in Guangxi, China. Her husband fought in the Korean War, but year after year passed and he never came home to find her.
Their love and family were also affected, so Zhou Xiaolan decided to go to North Korea herself to find her husband. But after Zhou Xiaolan broke through the enemy's heavy artillery encirclement, she dragged her scarred body to receive a message that "her husband has sacrificed and become a martyr." Too many people's stories are sad, and there must be a wonderful warmth like Wang Fuxing and Wu Yushi.