People in this life, going around, in the end, always have to experience the ordeal of feelings, no matter how to operate, no matter how to maintain, always in the sudden by the feelings hurt, some people, in his stay on the feelings of the truest and most sincere, often encounter the feelings of teasing, and when he plays in the feelings, and found that the twists and turns, the original is still wrong, tired, tired, lost, suddenly found that even the road of their own life is also confused. Such emotions, such a life, is actually a kind of mistake, perhaps, the previous persistence is right, the wrong is others, even if there are changes in the middle, we must persist again and again, as long as we maintain our original intention, perhaps, life can still write a kind of light.
Jiao Enjun's love, some chaos, a lifetime of obsession with several women, involved in the pull, in the end, had to involve themselves into the puzzle of life. He is a relatively successful actor, but also a successful man, but not a successful husband, the first wife Huang Wanlin is his royal makeup artist, when he married the other party, his relatives and friends, including his colleagues, are against his decision, but he resolutely married this woman, because, this woman waited for him for ten years, he said, can not delay a woman's youth, to give the other party a complete account.
At that time, he and his second wife Lin Qianyu also had a good relationship, although he and Huang Wanlin established a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, but in order to develop in the entertainment industry, he also tried his best to flatter Lin Qianyu, because Lin Qianyu's network resources are wide, which is helpful for his development in the entertainment industry, Lin Qianyu's parents are well-known actors, in order to please Lin Qianyu, he often accompanies each other to buy underwear, and participates in her and girlfriends' parties, accompanies others, but has his own beloved woman in his heart, and is afraid of delaying each other's youth, so, It was in the psychology of contradiction that contradictory choices were made and erroneous results were produced.
It can be seen that in marriage, once they encounter opposition from relatives and friends, they are more or less right and should listen, because the authorities are confused and the bystanders are clear, because, in their eyes, they have clearly seen the ins and outs of the matter, and only he is still hesitating and can't figure out the clues. After marriage, they had two daughters, but he has been busy filming, and back and forth between the mainland and Taiwan, the husband and wife often get together less and more, her wife is extremely uneasy about him, worried about the marriage of the two changes, she is very opposed to his passion scenes, kissing scenes, and even scenes with actresses. It was in such a state that Huang Wanlin finally filed for divorce from him, and he chose to leave the house, but won the custody of his two daughters.
Married to his second wife, after five years of married life, but two years in the Cold War period, such a marriage, in fact, has long existed in name only, although the two said to be friends for a lifetime when divorced, but Lin Qianyu does not seem to abide by this agreement, so that Jiao Enjun slightly questioned. When the two married, Lin Qianyu's parents took an opposing attitude, saying that Jiao Enjun had hurt their daughter too much and they did not want their daughter to be hurt again. It can be seen that the hot love between the two was Jiao Enjun's treachery, he was afraid of delaying his ex-girlfriend, as a result, he hurt the new lover, and sometimes, the choice of marriage can not be indecisive, and it is hurtful to live up to which.
Married to Lin Qianyu, Jiao Enjun said that they were true love, but Lin Qianyu said that there was no way to be like before, they were old, they could not put down their work to soothe a person's emotions, and said that she had been too active before and raised Jiao Enjun badly. It can be seen that Jiao Enjun's true love is only implemented in his mouth, not in action, because he revolves around his daughter again. After he divorced his first wife, he won the custody of his daughter, and there was no time to take care of it, so he let his brother help bring it, but the brother was urging his niece to study, the niece beat his niece back, let the ex-wife know, a complaint sued him in court, and finally, the court awarded him custody of his daughter to the ex-wife, when he married the second wife, the first ex-wife sent the daughter over.
Jiao Enjun gave up love for the sake of affection, he accepted his daughter, but also because of this, let the daughter and the second wife between the chicken and dog jump, it can be seen that the daughter is with his mother's mission, the purpose is to spoil his marriage. Coupled with the fact that he had an entanglement with his third woman, for a while, his marriage was already in danger. His third woman, that is, Zhou Yang, originally, after his divorce, the two could come together, at that time Lin Qianyu was not yet married, but he came together with Zhou Yang, and also told Lin Qianyu that he only had Zhou Yang in his heart, and for a while Lin Qianyu married someone else in a negative and disappointed manner. But later, the two divorced again, and it was possible for him to marry Lin Qianyu again.
According to the current rhythm, Jiao Enjun will slowly move closer to his first wife under the leadership and mediation of his daughter, and by chance, he will continue the leading edge to achieve the result of breaking the mirror and reuniting. Moreover, his first ex-wife and his daughter also seem to have such a purpose, they are trying to break up his marriage, so as to achieve the purpose of taking advantage of the opportunity, sometimes, no matter how big a man's heart is, once he marries a woman and has children, if he loves this child very much in his heart, then his wife is his Buddha, he will never escape the palm of the other party's hand, his heart, still very small, embedded in the other person's heart, dim, therefore, his end can only have one, Return to the family, reunite and break the mirror.
Text/House Slave
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