In 2005, Jiao Enjun learned that his wife Huang Wanlin had cheated on him, and he was suddenly struck by lightning, and finally he chose to be patient for the sake of his two daughters, but Huang Wanlin said angrily: "With someone like you, I can't stand it for a minute!" ”
In 1989, jiao enjun met makeup artist Huang Wanlin when shooting an advertisement, and the two began to fall in love.
In 1994, the 27-year-old Jiao Enjun became a complete hit with the role of "Seven Heroes and Five Righteousness" Nanxia Zhan Zhao.
However, just when Jiao Enjun's career was booming, he chose to marry Huang Wanlin, a makeup artist who had been with him for five years.
He said: "Without her taking care of this angular face for me, I would not be known to so many audiences, and now that I am famous, I have to give her an explanation." ”
Jiao Enjun announced that he was going to marry makeup artist Huang Wanlin, and when his mother found out, she immediately called and angrily rebuked:
"Are you crazy?" This woman can't do it, if you want to marry her, I will break off the mother-child relationship with you! ”
Jiao's strong opposition did not make Jiao Enjun compromise, but he married Huang Wanlin more firmly.
He then broke off relations with his mother for 10 years to prove his love for his wife.
During this period, many friends advised him to carefully consider getting married, but Jiao Enjun did not think so.
He believes that public figures should not just pursue fame and fortune, and family and happiness are also part of life.
After marriage, Huang Wanlin gave birth to two daughters, and Jiao Enjun was completely reduced to a "daughter slave".
Husband and wife are already a family, and Jiao Enjun does not hide it.
He directly gave all the money to his wife, and even attributed all the property in his name to her.
However, Jiao Enjun looked up to his wife, and this sudden blow made him feel pain.
At that time, Jiao Enjun often worked and filmed in the mainland, and the husband and wife often separated in two places, and his wife, who was not willing to be lonely, found a boyfriend.
In 2005, when Jiao Enjun was promoting "Baolian Lantern" in the mainland, Huang Wanlin came to him and filed for divorce.
Even if Jiao Enjun knew that his wife was cheating, he chose to swallow his anger and advised her to "not divorce." ”
However, Huang Wanlin insisted on divorce, and said: "I don't want children, I want to work, there is no way to raise children." ”
Jiao Enjun said, "Then I only need 2 children." ”
Huang Wanlin was also very "kind" to give him a car, as the last decency of the two, and then left with his boyfriend.
As a result, Jiao Enjun left the house with an 8-year-old and a 9-year-old daughter by his side, and Huang Wanlin took hundreds of millions of his assets.
It was then that he realized how correct his mother had said to himself 11 years earlier.
For this woman who betrayed himself, he and his mother had a fight for 10 years, and his grievances came to his heart in an instant.
While trying to cry to my mother, I didn't have the face to see my mother.
Fortunately, his mother did not make trouble with him because of the 10-year severance of diplomatic relations, but after knowing what happened to him, she held him and kept comforting him.
However, Jiao Enjun still has to go to the mainland to make money by filming, and there is no way to take care of it.
He remembered that his brother Jiao Enhong was in a tutoring class, so he entrusted his 2 daughters to his brother and mother to take care of.
After Huang Wanlin divorced, he broke up with his lover not long after, and his life was not satisfactory.
At this time, Huang Wanlin remembered Jiao Enjun again and planned to find Jiao Enjun to remarry.
However, Jiao Enjun also had a new relationship after the divorce, and Huang Wanlin hurt Jiao Enjun too deeply, and Jiao Enjun refused to remarry.
Later, Huang Wanlin heard that his daughter had been beaten at her grandmother's house for not writing her homework.
Therefore, he immediately took his daughter back to his home, and ran to the police station to call the police, and refused to visit Jiao Enjun from then on.
After huang Wanlin regained his daughter, he kept instilling the words "Jiao Enjun is a strange man" to the children, so that the two daughters alienated Jiao Enjun.
He even obstructed the father and daughter from meeting each other, and Jiao Enjun was anxious to get many years old overnight.
Jiao Enjun once said: "I worked so hard for these two children, and as a result, the children were taken away, and I had nothing." ”
Having the opportunity to see the child and want to be alone with the child is also defeated by the child's sentence "Mother said, you can't spend the night with a strange boy", which is more than a heart for a father!
After that, Jiao Enjun was like Li Xunhuan in the novel who was completely decadent and loved to drink twice, and later even suffered from depression.
While thinking about his daughter, he thanked his ex-wife: "Thank you for divorcing me when I was able to work, otherwise I would have to die until I was 60 years old." ”
In order to see his daughter, Jiao Enjun looked for someone to find a place for his ex-wife to settle down.
It wasn't until 2011 that I saw my daughter again.
In 2014, 47-year-old Jiao Enjun married 44-year-old Ai Lin Qianyu, and the eldest daughter also participated in Jiao Enjun's wedding.
But I didn't expect that this marriage still had problems after all, and in 2020, Lin Qianyu told the media that he and Jiao Enjun had not been in contact for nearly 2 years.
As for the causes of the Cold War, Lin Qianyu stressed that the two sides did not have an affair or a third party to intervene, but the other side's emotional control issue.
In March 2021, Jiao Enjun posted a confession that he and Lin Qianyu were divorced, which triggered heated discussions.
Jiao Enjun said that when he was divorced, he said that he would be a lifelong friend, and despite his ex-wife's various complaints, Jiao Enjun still generously wished each other happiness, peace and happiness.
Although experiencing two less successful marriages has brought Jiao Enjun a lot of blows, it has not erased his love for life.
Jiao Enjun once said: "I am a very family lover. ”
However, the reality is often unsatisfactory, and his two marriages eventually either come to an end or die in name only.
The former "Little Li Flying Knife" fascinated thousands of young girls and swept the streets and alleys.
But now looking back at Jiao Enjun again, he is just a lonely person who has lost his youth and lost his style.
There is no companionship of the other half, and there is no child's knee to bear the joy, which is really lamentable.
