Jiao Enjun's youthful era
One day in 1967, a lovely boy was born in an ordinary family in Taiwan, and his parents named him Jiao Enjun. Since he was a child, Jiao Enjun admired the martial arts movie stars at that time, and always imagined that he could also fight and kill on the screen and become a hero actor.
Whenever he comes home from school, he will imitate the actions on TV, hoping that when he grows up, he can also become a kung fu actor and show his skills on the screen.
At the age of 18, Jiao Enjun took the first step towards realizing his dream when he entered an actor training class in Taipei and began to study Xi acting courses. When he first started training, his face was covered with acne, and he always looked the least qualified among his classmates.
But Jiao Enjun has never been discouraged, fighting every day and night, practicing Xi expression management and body control. Half a year later, he successfully graduated from the training class and began the road of hard work in his acting career.
After graduation, Jiao Enjun joined the crew and began to start from doing tricks, playing various supporting roles that were killed. In his spare time, he will also humbly observe the acting skills of his predecessors on the sidelines, and actively ask senior actors about difficult problems in acting.
In the past 3 years, Jiao Enjun has relied on his own efforts and perseverance to slowly promote from an unknown group performer, and he began to get some small supporting roles with lines.
In order to hone his acting skills, Jiao Enjun also worked many temporary jobs, such as washing dishes in restaurants and handing out flyers on the streets. Although these jobs are hard, they have not weakened his dream of acting in the slightest.
Because of his ordinary family background and sometimes unstable work, Jiao Enjun will be nervous about his livelihood, but he still insists on his love and pursuit of acting.
Fortunately, Jiao Enjun's efforts were not in vain, just when he thought that his life was about to usher in a huge turnaround, he received a call for military service. Although unexpected, Jiao Enjun was not discouraged, he chose to be positive, and saw it as a good opportunity to hone himself.
The sweetness and pain of the first marriage
Three years of military life made Jiao Enjun mature a lot, and after returning home from the army, he redevoted himself to his acting career. In 1994, Jiao Enjun finally ushered in the first great opportunity in his life - to play the role of the actor Zhan Zhao in the TV series "Seven Heroes and Five Righteousness".
This is his first male number one role since his debut, which successfully attracted the attention of the audience, and also made Jiao Enjun famous in one fell swoop and started a career upswing.
Just when his career was in full swing, Jiao Enjun met a woman named Miss Huang. Miss Huang, like Jiao Enjun, is also a makeup artist engaged in the entertainment industry.
The two met at work, never got tired of each other, and quickly fell in love. Miss Huang has long silky hair, fair skin, delicate facial features, and is Jiao Enjun's ideal girl.
What's even more commendable is that the two are also very compatible in personality. Miss Huang is gentle and considerate, and Jiao Enjun feels very comfortable and comfortable with each other.
After a period of dating, Jiao Enjun decided to marry Miss Huang. The married life was very sweet, they had a daughter, and a little princess was added after a few years.
Jiao Enjun gave all the money he earned to Miss Huang to take care of expenses, and he only kept a little pocket money every month. Usually when he is free, he will take the initiative to share the housework and accompany his wife and children to go shopping.
Every time Miss Huang is on her birthday, Jiao Enjun will try his best to prepare surprise gifts for his beloved wife.
It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, and the originally happy marriage suddenly cracked in 2005. Perhaps because of the lack of run-in in the long-term relationship, Miss Huang proposed to divorce.
The moment he signed the divorce, Jiao Enjun only felt that his heart was like a knife, this divorce brought him a huge blow, and he fell into unprecedented pain.
I haven't seen my daughter's thoughts for four years
After the divorce, according to the court decision, the custody of the two daughters belonged to Miss Huang. Jiao Enjun can no longer see his daughter at any time as before, which makes him extremely painful and sad.
At first, he tried to contact his ex-wife through various channels and asked to see his daughter, but the other party took a tough attitude and refused his request.
Day after day, the pain of longing tormented Jiao Enjun. He would often wake up in the middle of the night, dreaming of the sweet smiling faces of his daughters, and then realize that it was just an illusory dream the moment he woke up.
On the daughters' birthdays, Jiao Enjun will prepare gifts and red envelopes in advance, and then ask acquaintances to pass them on. However, he couldn't see his daughter, so he could only send emails and gifts to express his love, which made Jiao Enjun feel sad and helpless.
For four years, Jiao Enjun had little contact with his daughters, and this gap was the most painful memory of his life.
It wasn't until 2009 that he wrote a "Letter to Two Daughters" to publicly express his longing, this sincere and touching letter touched countless netizens, and because of this letter, Jiao Enjun reconnected with his eldest daughter.
At first, my daughter simply replied to emails and did not actively contact her. But Jiao Enjun didn't give up, and he began to write letters to his daughter regularly, telling him how much he missed.
With the passage of time, the estrangement between father and daughter was finally eliminated, and the daughter began to take the initiative to contact and meet Jiao Enjun. Watching the children grow up, Jiao Enjun was very relieved, and he once again felt the joy and happiness of being a father.
The old lover rekindled and married
After experiencing his first marriage, Jiao Enjun chose to devote more time and energy to his work. In 2013, he traveled to Canada to relax, but met an old acquaintance there - Lin Qianyu.
Lin Qianyu is the heroine of a play filmed by Jiao Enjun when he was young. The two fell in love because of the drama and had a relationship in 2007, but it did not develop into a formal relationship at that time.
After not seeing each other for many years, Canada's "destined encounter" rekindled the old love between them. Lin Qianyu has waist-length hair and a gentle smile. She is a little quiet in her intellect, and she and Jiao Enjun are no longer what they were back then, but their feelings still exist.
After returning to Taiwan, Jiao Enjun expressed his willingness to associate again. Under the witness of both parents, the two officially entered into marriage. No one expected that just 6 years later, Jiao Enjun and Lin Qianyu announced their divorce.
In fact, the life of the two after marriage is not as happy and synchronous as imagined, Lin Qianyu has an introverted personality and a down-to-earth and steady style; Jiao Enjun, on the other hand, is more casual and enthusiastic. The two had difficulty agreeing on many aspects and often quarreled over trivial matters.
In 2020, Jiao Enjun and Lin Qianyu finally negotiated and decided to divorce, ending this marriage that was destined to end without a problem. When the divorce agreement was written, Jiao Enjun sighed deeply, life is indeed difficult to control, he thought.
The current situation of 54-year-old Jiao Enjun
After the ups and downs of two marriages, the 54-year-old Jiao Enjun is currently living a positive and optimistic life, living alone. Instead of stepping into marriage again, he chose to devote more of his time and energy to his career and family.
At work, Jiao Enjun is still active in the entertainment industry. He will choose high-quality and challenging roles to expand the boundaries of his acting skills, and he also shares his latest work updates on social media from time to time.
is no longer the little fresh meat of the year, but he still has high popularity and influence. In his spare time, Jiao Enjun walks his dog, exercises, reads books, and likes to have dinner with friends and chat. He learned to choose happiness and firmly believed that the meaning of life is not in the result, but in the process.
The relationship with his two daughters has always been close. They have grown up, but in Jiao Enjun's heart, they will always be his two little princesses. He is involved in the life events of his daughters, giving advice and support.
During the festive season, a family of three will also be reunited. Life is like a big stage, and Jiao Enjun has experienced too many unsatisfactory experiences. But instead of being defeated by these, he chose to move forward bravely. He lives in the moment, loves life, and has rebuilt a deep family bond with his two daughters.
After going through wind and rain, life is still beautiful, this is the current Jiao Enjun.
Article summary
Jiao's life story is full of ups and downs, and he has suffered several failures on the road to marriage, but he has not been defeated by these. He re-established his relationship with his daughter, showing responsibility and love as a father.
Now, he lives an active and independent life and continues to shine in his career.
No one can have smooth sailing in life, and we all encounter all kinds of difficulties. It is important to maintain an optimistic and positive mindset in the face of adversity. Learn Xi master your emotions, rebuild your self-confidence, and start anew.
Jiao's story also teaches us that the true meaning of life is not only about the result, but also about the process. Cherish the moment and love life, this is the secret of happiness.
I believe that by keeping these things in mind, we can all live our lives to the fullest.