That year, when my neighbor was repaying the loan, I found three counterfeit coins.
I remember vividly that it was a sunny afternoon, and I was on my way home. Suddenly, a voice sounded in my ears: "Xiao Wang, let's see if this is a counterfeit!" I looked back and saw that it was my neighbor's aunt with a few banknotes in her hand. I stepped forward, took the money from her hand, and when I looked closely, it was all counterfeit.
"Auntie, what can I do about this?" I asked, a little surprised.
Auntie's face turned a little pale, and she said in an anxious tone: "I collected this money for my children to go to school in the future, and now it's all fake, what should I do?"
I looked at my aunt's anxious expression, and I really sweated for her. "Auntie, I have an idea, maybe I can solve this problem, don't worry, I'll figure it out. ”
After comforting my aunt for a few words, I returned home. Over the next few days, I began to ask around about counterfeit money and asked my uncle for advice. Eventually, I found a way to detect counterfeit money, and through a reputable store, I was able to exchange my aunt's counterfeit money for real money.
After that incident, my family also changed a little because of what I did. My dad has always been a stubborn and serious man and didn't approve of my approach, thinking I was taking too many risks. My mother, on the other hand, comforted me, stroked my hair and said, "Child, your kindness and courage are good, but you should pay attention to safety in the future." ”
I knew my dad was worried about what I was going to lose, but I felt like I was doing the right thing. In the process, I felt the different attitudes of family members and realized that everyone has their own values and opinions.
And this incident also made me realize that I need to face problems more rationally, not just on impulse. After all, family is the most important thing to me, and I can't easily give up my responsibilities to my family. This incident has made me more mature and more aware of respecting the opinions of others, especially my family.
Now, although my dad still has reservations, he is slowly starting to accept my approach. And I also know how to deal with problems in the family with a more mature and rational attitude. This incident changed my family and myself.
However, just as the family dispute gradually subsided, another incident occurred that brought us into an argument.
It was a weekend afternoon and I was tidying up my room at home when I suddenly heard the sound of my mom and dad arguing loudly in the living room. I couldn't resist walking out to find out what was going on.
"How can you do this, and what's in it for the child?" said Dad's voice.
"I just feel like we should give our kids more freedom and let them make their own decisions. Mom replied firmly.
I was confused and didn't understand what the hell they were arguing about. When my dad saw me coming, he immediately restrained his emotions and told me that he was against my choice to go to the school's summer camp, while my mom insisted that it was an opportunity for me to grow.
After listening to this, I felt a sense of grievance. I think it is very meaningful for me to participate in the summer camp, it can exercise my abilities and make me more independent. I whispered to my dad, "Dad, I really want to participate in this summer camp, I will take good care of myself." ”
Dad looked at me, was silent for a moment, and finally sighed lightly, "Okay, since it's your choice, let's go." He turned and walked into the study and closed the door.
I felt a little guilty in my heart, and I was also distressed to see my dad like this, but I was still happy to have my mother's support. This conflict made me understand the potential conflicts in the family, everyone has their own ideas and opinions, but the final decision is still to respect the opinions of the family, and this process also requires us to learn to compromise and understand.
In the days that followed, the atmosphere at home became noticeably tense, and the relationship between father and mother became a little tense. I felt anxious and a little confused. I always want everyone in my family to be happy, but I can't seem to do it.
In this atmosphere, I began to learn to listen more to my family members and learn to be considerate and understanding of them. I realized that the family is a place full of emotions and contradictions, and as a member of the family, I have the responsibility to be more mature, calm and rational in dealing with family conflicts, in order to make the family more harmonious.
Family conflicts have taught me a lot and made me more respectful and tolerant. I don't know if there will be more of these challenges in the family in the days to come, but I just know that no matter what happens, I will do my best to maintain the warmth and harmony of this family.
During that time, the atmosphere at home became a little tense. My dad was still angry about what I was doing, and I felt a little wronged. I knew I was impulsive, but I really wanted to help my aunt solve the problem.
One weekend evening, our family was getting ready for dinner when suddenly the phone rang. Dad picked up the phone, and after listening to the other party's words, his face began to become gloomy. After hanging up the phone, Dad said to us solemnly, "It's a neighbor's house, and their family has some problems and needs help." ”
My mother immediately motioned to me, knowing that she wanted me to be able to understand the situation and help solve the problem. I was also very anxious, although my father had reservations about me, but after all, he was the pillar of the family, and I still hoped that he could help the neighbors.
I walked up to my dad and hoped he would think about it. Unexpectedly, Dad said sternly, "What does this have to do with you? We have our affairs to worry about at home, don't always think about some outside things." I felt a little helpless and disappointed, and I persuaded, "Dad, the neighbor is in trouble and needs our help. ”
Dad frowned, clearly not accepting my persuasion. This kind of situation is rare at home, and for a while, the atmosphere at home has become a little tense. My mother saw my displeasure and comforted me: "Son, Dad is also for our good. You know, he's a very strong guy. ”
I nodded, I knew my mother was telling the truth. I didn't blame my father, after all, he was always a family person.
That night, I finished my dinner quietly and walked to the window to watch the night. I wondered if my father's insistence was right or wrong, and how should I balance the responsibilities and love of the family with the outside world? I had a mess in my mind, and I didn't know what to do.
Everyone has their own persistence, and everyone has their own difficulties. This incident made me meditate. Perhaps, the contradictions in our family are also because of this insistence and different views. I don't know how this mess will be resolved, but I know that only by communicating well with my family can I find a common solution.
A family dispute in our family occurred after a conflict between me and my brother. My younger brother Xiao Li is a little naughty little guy, and on the contrary to me, he always doesn't play cards according to the rules, making the family all hands and feet.
One day, my mother got sick and needed bed rest. I routinely swept the floor, wiped the table, and took some fruit from the fridge and handed it to my mother. I saw my younger brother Xiao Li drinking a drink while looking at his phone, as if he didn't care.
I realized a problem: "Xiao Li, my mother is sick, how can you do this? Now is the time when we should care more about our mother." ”
Xiao Li glanced at me and continued to play with his phone with his head down. This made me quite unhappy, so I loudly reprimanded him and told him to bring his mother a cup of fruit tea.
But Xiao Li turned a deaf ear and continued to look down at his phone.
At this time, my father walked out, looked at me coldly, and said, "Xiao Wang, why are you so angry? Xiao Li also has his difficulties, you understand." ”
I was irritated by my father's words, and I thought that Xiao Li was not sensible at all and did not think about his parents like I did. This contradiction also opened up the contradiction between my father and me.
Since then, I feel that the atmosphere at home has become a little tense, and my father is always not so kind to me, and seems to have his own opinion on the conflict between me and Xiao Li.
I wanted to talk to my dad, but I couldn't find the right time. And Xiao Li seemed to be blind to the whole incident, and still didn't care.
In this tense atmosphere, I became more and more reserved and reluctant to communicate with my father. And Xiao Li didn't seem to care about all this, and his behavior became more capricious.
The conflict in the family makes the atmosphere of the whole family dull and depressing. I know that this is a problem between me and Xiao Li, and also between me and my father. But I don't know how to fix it.
Although that counterfeit money incident raised my status in the family, everything became complicated as the conflict between me and my dad escalated.
The conflict began at a family dinner. Dad suddenly became more demanding and didn't let go of every little mistake I made. The moon cake was not done well enough this time, and the dishes were not washed cleanly...... Every pickiness stuck like a needle in my heart. I didn't know what I was doing wrong, but my dad's attitude made me feel a lot of pressure.
"Xiao Wang, you can't always be so lazy! You have to work hard to be successful!" Dad became more demanding than before.
"Dad, I'm not lazy. I try to learn Xi and work every day. I tried to explain, but Dad wouldn't listen.
That night, I hid in my room and wondered what was going on. Why did my dad become so me? I tried to satisfy my family, but I felt that every effort was wasted.
As time went on, Dad's attitude did not change, but became more severe. Before I took an important exam, he suddenly said to me, "Xiao Wang, as long as your grades are not satisfactory, don't go home again." ”
I was shocked by his words. I really did my best and did my best to study Xi, but why was my dad so me?
"Why, Dad? I've done my best. I asked.
"Did you do your best? Do you think you really did your best?" snapped Daddy.
My heart was torn apart, and I hesitated to embark on the road to take the exam, and I could only prove my efforts with practical actions.
In families, there is often friction between parents' expectations and children's efforts, and this family is no exception. It hurts me to be aware of my hard work, but not to be recognized and understood. But in any case, this conflict will be a turning point for me to re-examine my place and role in the family.
I don't know what kind of deep meaning is hidden behind this contradiction, but I don't want to give up, and I can't give up. I have to prove myself, but also have a sincere communication with my dad to understand the true source of his harshness. Perhaps, this is another opportunity for me to grow.
Soon, another unexpected thing happened in the family. One day, my mother received a strange phone call from someone who claimed to be a distant relative, and after greeting her, she mentioned that she needed financial assistance. Mom didn't know him, but she mentioned my grandfather's name on the phone and mentioned some seemingly family secrets. I was impressed by the voice on the phone that sounded genuine and a little weird at the same time. We are all wary of this, but we are not sure of its authenticity.
This incident caused quarrels and dissatisfaction in our family, and the conflict between father and mother became more and more obvious. Dad always insisted that finding our family's genealogy and historical records was the way to determine kinship, while Mom thought that Dad was too skeptical and should try to find more information before making a decision. This made the atmosphere at home very tense, and I was struggling to know who to trust and how to deal with this sudden challenge.
I realized that disputes and conflicts in the family are unavoidable, but how to deal with them is crucial. I began to persuade both my father and mother to calm down and look for hard evidence to confirm the identity of the relative. At the same time, I am acutely aware of how precious family unity and trust are. Although this incident has caused tension at home, I hope that we can work together to get through this difficult time.