Chen Kun's unhappy childhood
In 1976, on this midsummer night, a mother finally brought a baby child into the world after 10 hours of labor pains in an ordinary hospital in Chongqing.
This is the film and television star who will become popular in the future - Chen Kun. It's a pity that the family he came to was not as happy as it seemed on the surface.
When Chen Kun was not yet two years old, there was already a rift in his parents' relationship. The sound of parents arguing often comes from the house, and the little Chen Kun will hide in the closet and shiver.
Finally, when he was three years old, his parents filed for divorce. For Chen Kun, this is tantamount to a bolt from the blue. Since then, he and his younger brother can only live with their kind grandmother, and they have lost the love from both parents.
When he was eight years old, Chen Kun's sister also came to his grandmother's house to help take care of his two younger brothers. My sister is like Chen Kun's second mother, and she loves her two children very much. However, the good times did not last long, when Chen Kun was eleven years old, his sister died in an accident, which was a heavy blow to his growth.
Chen Kun lost his closest family member, and once again felt the pain of being unable to repay the kindness of nurturing.
In order to make the children's lives better, Chen Kun, who was still young, was sent back to his mother's arms. At first, he was full of longing and anticipation to return to his mother's love.
But soon, Chen Kun found that his mother had formed a new family and had children of her own. The family of five is crammed into a small room, and they can't even afford to eat meat.
What makes Chen Kun even more uncomfortable is that at school, he is always rejected and bullied by his classmates because of his different family background from others.
A soft heart gradually becomes introverted and gloomy in the midst of pain. Chen Kun longed for family affection but could not reciprocate, which became an incurable wound for many years. Many years later, when Chen Kun recalled this past incident in an interview, tears couldn't help but burst out of his eyes.
The pain of his childhood still haunts his heart and becomes a scar on his road to success.
The beautiful youth left by Beiying
In order to alleviate the financial burden on his family, Chen Kun began to work outside the home in high school, earning money to support himself with his own hands. During the day, he has to work hard to go to school, and at night he becomes a resident singer in a bar.
Chen Kun was born with a beautiful voice, and as long as he opened his mouth to sing, he could get a wave of applause and cheers from the audience. At the same time, the high tip at the bar also made him see the hope of money from a poor family.
By chance, Chen Kun was recommended to attend an interview at the Beijing Film Academy. Originally, he didn't dare to expect to go to university, let alone such a famous college.
But fate finally favored this man and experienced the sweetness of chasing his dreams for the first time in his life. In Beiying, Chen Kun met a group of like-minded partners.
Guo Xiaodong, Huang Xiaoming and other stars who became popular later are all his alumni. Everyone talked about ideals and shared dreams, and Chen Kun felt a warm friendship for the first time.
Despite the difficult conditions, often three people sleep in the same bed, but Chen Kun has a happy life. He devoted himself wholeheartedly to his love of acting, actively participated in club activities, and fought for his dreams with his friends.
He aspires to succeed, not only for himself, but also for a better life for his family. Whenever he received a letter quietly sent by his mother with dozens of yuan, Chen Kun would stare at it for a long time with red eyes.
These bits and pieces have become the nostalgia of his vigorous youth.
Three years passed in a flash, and the film academy gave Chen Kun a rare enlightenment and sublimation in his life. It not only cultivated his acting skills, but more importantly, opened up his vision for the future and ideals.
On the day of graduation, Chen Kun stood at the school gate and looked at the old school building, even if he left here, he would firmly remember the youthful passion given to him by Beiying.
"Like Rain, Like Fog and Like Wind" made him popular
In 2000, Chen Kun graduated from Beiying and couldn't wait to participate in a youth idol drama "Like Rain, Like Fog and Like Wind". This was the first work in his career, but it directly changed the trajectory of his life.
As soon as the play was broadcast, Chen Kun's popularity was in full swing and he was successfully promoted to a first-line star.
What is more worth remembering is the confidant he met in the crew - Zhou Xun. The first meeting of the two left a deep impression on Chen Kun. Zhou Xun's warm and generous personality made Chen Kun feel unprecedentedly cordial, and her delicate and outstanding acting skills also made Chen Kun and admire.
So in addition to work, two young people of the same age gradually became friends.
Chen Kun regards Zhou Xun as a teacher and often asks her for her experience in acting. Zhou Xun also unreservedly taught the essence of his acting skills, which benefited Chen Kun a lot. For the first time, he felt a sense of reverence similar to that of a student for his mentor.
The two developed a pure teacher-student trust, which laid the foundation for their future friendship.
The bits and pieces in the crew have become their common memories. Between filming, they would sit together and chat and talk, and Zhou Xun's gentle encouragement gave Chen Kun great support. Chen Kun also feels that Zhou Xun is like his closest family member.
This hard-won friendship transcended time and space and became the most precious spiritual wealth of the two in their lives.
Many years later, even if they are both talking points, Chen Kun and Zhou Xun can still keep their original intentions, and they will still lend a helping hand when they need each other. In this highly competitive circle, such a precious friendship is touching.
Chen Kun realized for the first time that family affection would surpass everything, which also became the most grateful harvest in his acting career.
The truth behind the rumors of an adopted son
In 2007, an astonishing news suddenly broke out in the entertainment industry, Chen Kun was rumored to have an illegitimate child. The news went viral on the Internet, and public opinion exploded for a while.
People have speculated about who the child's biological mother is, and every actress around Chen Kun has become the object of media speculation. In this storm of public opinion, Chen Kun chose to remain silent.
Many years later, the truth of this incident was revealed to the world - it turned out that the child was just an orphan adopted by Chen Kun, not his own flesh and blood.
In order to give this helpless child a home, Chen Kun fulfilled his father's responsibilities in his way. I send money regularly every month to support my children's lives, visit orphanages frequently, and prepare to take them to my side when they are older.
The child brought warmth to Chen Kun's life and made him feel the touching of being a father.
In order to give the child a healthy and happy growth environment, Chen Kun chose not to admit this relationship for the time being. He worries that excessive public attention will disrupt children's lives.
As long as the child grows up safely and happily, it doesn't matter what public opinion thinks of him. As a result, Chen Kun has been concealing this matter and allowing the outside world to speculate.
It wasn't until many years later that this past was revealed, and people saw Chen Kun's good intentions. He took on the responsibility of a father regardless of fame and fortune, just so that this helpless child could live happily.
Chen Kun used his way to successfully protect a simple heart. This incident makes people see that between fame and family affection, Chen Kun's choice is so firm. It has also become a low-key and touching story on his life path, proving that he is a responsible person.
The emotional outlook determines the path of love
As a first-line star, Chen Kun's relationship status has always attracted attention. But there are only a handful of actresses who have really had an affair with him. In the interview, Chen Kun admitted that he had no need for a long-term relationship and did not want to bear the damage that his feelings might bring.
Much of this attitude has to do with his upbringing. The shadow of his parents' divorce haunted him, and Chen Kun said that he didn't know what true love was. He is Xi to protect himself and those who love him.
As long as he thinks of the pain that feelings may bring, Chen Kun will subconsciously retreat.
The first love of adolescence gave Chen Kun the sweetness of love. But when he really experiences emotional pain, he will be afraid to give too deeply. Chen Kun chose to get along with the actress as a friend, and never mentioned love.
He cares too much about family affection, and is afraid that it will be hurt by love. In this way, Chen Kun spent one flowering season after another. He would rather fill his time with work than try new feelings easily. Now in his forties, Chen Kun is still living a single life.
For him, career and family are the first priority. Love is like the icing on the cake, beautiful but not essential.
Some people say that Chen Kun is too passive and passive. But in fact, this is just a kind of self-protection for him. He defines love differently than others.
Perhaps because he cherishes family affection too much, he is reluctant to risk going to the edge of affection. It's a choice that deserves to be respected. Maybe one day, fate will let Chen Kun meet the other half of his life. At that time, he may give up for love. But the current Chen Kun still lives in his own way and is alive and well.
That's enough.
Chen Kun uses acting to illuminate his life
For more than 20 years, Chen Kun has continued to use his own efforts to achieve higher achievements in the entertainment industry. From the child who was bullied at school to the first-line star who is now a household name, he has walked an easy road.
Chen Kun is working hard to build his career step by step with sweat and tears. From high school to working as a helper, he now has tens of millions of assets. His acting career not only brought him a sense of accomplishment in his career, but also gave him the opportunity to change his fate.
What Chen Kun is most grateful for is that his acting career has given him more than just fame and fortune. In this circle, he met his bosom friend and found the sustenance of life.
The road of acting cured his lonely and lonely heart, and made Chen Kun feel the warmth of home.
Whenever he needs to cry for family affection in the play, Chen Kun can interpret the heartache without reservation. Because he knows too much the value of family affection. His acting achievements not only made him live a better life, but also sublimated him spiritually.
Today's Chen Kun is already a familiar face in every household. He infects thousands of families with his stories. Career gave Chen Kun strength and made him a solid backing to support his family.
For many years, Chen Kun has relied on acting to support himself and changed the fate of the entire family.
There are no ifs in life, and Chen Kun will not be defined by past pain. Because he knows that as long as he moves forward bravely, the stage of acting will illuminate the future for him.
It has become the most shining scenery in Chen Kun's life.