The youth fell in love with each other fruitlessly
17-year-old Xie Xian has a handsome appearance and a sunny and cheerful personality. Attending an actor training class was a new experience for him, and it was here that he met a special girl.
The girl's name is Jialing, one year older than Xie Xian, and she has a delicate and refined face. The two fell in love at first sight and quickly became acquainted. Xie Xian will take the initiative to chat with Jialing, and her eyes are warm; Jia Ling would also secretly look at Xie Xian from time to time, and her cheeks flushed.
They became contracted actors from the same film company and had more opportunities to get along. The first film to work together, the two are full of tacit understanding, and their acting skills have been well received.
During the filming, Xie Xian will carefully help Jia Ling to play against the scene, and Jia Ling will also hand over water and towels when Xie Xian is tired. After work, they go for a walk in the park together and enjoy the good time of their youth. Xie Xian would pluck the flowers on the side of the road and weave them into a wreath and put them on Jialing's head.
Jialing listened, blushing but very happy. However, the good times did not last long, and this youthful relationship, which lasted for 10 years, finally ended when Xie Xian was defenseless. Jialing chose to marry a wealthy Thai businessman and left the film and television industry.
When they broke up, Xie Xian looked at Jialing's distant back with a sad face, and his heart was full of confusion.
It was the best time they spent together, and it was also the most unforgettable separation for Xie Xian. Years later, whenever he thought about it, he would still sigh softly. Those sunny days, that sweet and lovely girl, are gone.
Girlfriends in the art circle are in and out of impermanence
After breaking up with Jialing, Xie Xian met an extraordinary girl in a cooperation with a drama troupe.
Her name is Xiao Fangfang, with beautiful hair and flowing eyes, she is a well-known beauty. Not only that, but she is also versatile, whether it is singing, dancing or foreign languages, she is proficient in everything.
Xie Xian fell in love with her at first sight. The two soon began a romance, reveling in each other's fresh feelings. Xie Xian would invite Xiao Fangfang to dance in a nightclub, and then watch her dance gracefully and fascinated; Xiao Fangfang will also send flowers to Xie Xian after his performance to praise his acting skills.
However, after the fiery love, there is a rational scrutiny. Xiao Fangfang found that Xie Xian's personality was too self-serving, and it was difficult to establish a long-term relationship. The stable life she wants seems to be too far from Xie Xian's ideals.
So, it was Xiao Fangfang who took the initiative to break up. Her resoluteness shocked Xie Xian, and he couldn't believe that the relationship had ended. After parting ways, Xiao Fangfang soon married a Taiwanese musician, and Xie Xian could only watch her leave, lamenting the loss of a perfect girl.
This relationship, which only lasted for more than a year, made Xie Xian understand one thing: just like his impermanence, his girlfriend will leave him at any time. A long-term relationship requires two people to work together and compromise. And whether he did this remains to be reflected.
The first marriage ends early
In 1974, Xie Xian ushered in his first wedding. The bride is Taiwanese actor Zhen Zhen, and the two met and knew each other in the crew. Getting married was a new experience for Xie Xian, and he was immersed in the warmth of this group and felt that he had found his other half.
It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, and more than a year later, the difference in temperament and personality between the two began to be highlighted. Zhen Zhen loves quiet, while Xie Xian likes to be lively; Zhen Zhen is steady and introverted, while Xie Xian is flamboyant and outward.
In the slightest discord, Xie Xian will choose to drink and party with friends, while Zhen Zhen will stay at home alone.
Gradually, there are fewer and fewer topics, and the distance is getting farther and farther away. In less than a year and a half, the two filed for separation. Three years later, the divorce lawsuit was officially decided, and their marriage came to an end.
Zhen Zhen soon remarried, while Xie Xian faced the failed marriage alone, falling into deep self-blame and reflection.
He began to examine whether he had fulfilled his responsibilities in the marriage. Are you too self-disciplined to understand your partner's thoughts?
The first marriage ended in just three years. This became a unity in Xie Xian's heart that he could not understand for a long time, and it also made him doubt whether he was really suitable for family life.
The second marriage turned out to be the same
In 1979, 42-year-old Xie Xian stood in the wedding hall again. This time, the bride Deborah was 15 years younger than him and was beautiful. Both fell in love at first sight and couldn't wait to get married.
Soon after their marriage, they welcomed their first child. Xie Xian's heart was full of joy at the cradle, and he tasted the feeling of being a father for the first time. Then a second child was born, and a warm little home was established.
However, the good times did not last long, and as time went by, Xie Xian still found it difficult to completely get rid of his cynical personality in the past. He would spend a lot of time on the road, always leaving Deborah alone at home with the children.
Over time, Deborah felt overwhelmed by this life. 16 years passed, and Deborah finally chose to divorce. She soon remarried, and Xie Xian once again tasted the pain of a broken marriage.
Looking at the two little children, Xie Xian fell into deep thought. This is the second divorce in his life, and whether he really has enough dedication and sincerity to the family is indeed worth revisiting.
Maybe he has always gone his own way and failed to fulfill the responsibilities of a father and husband.
This second marriage still ended in a separation, which continued to deepen Xie Xian's self-doubt. He had to face up to his problems in order to determine what to do next.
Meet Coco and start a new relationship
In 2005, 69-year-old Xie Xian met a girl whose fate crossed with him at a bar.
The girl's name is Coco, a girl from Shanghai. She is 49 years younger than Xie Xian, and she is in the best years of her youth. As soon as the two met, they had a tacit understanding, and Coco's liveliness and cheerfulness gradually melted Xie Xian's heart knot for many years.
Although the outside world has criticized this relationship with a huge age difference, Xie Xian decided to follow his heart. He began to accompany Coco to Xi and watch her grow step by step.
Coco also gradually adapted to Xie Xian's life circle, and the two were inseparable. In the days when there is less gathering and more separation, Xie Xian will miss Coco's sweet smile. He would put the best bits and pieces of the two of them into a photo album and flip through them when he was lonely. The appearance of Coco gave Xie Xian a long-lost warmth.
He even thought that maybe he could give everything for this relationship and no longer have worries. Coco is like a ray of sunshine in spring, warming his faint biting winter.
Xie Xian decided to seize this opportunity and no longer let love slip through his fingers.
The end of the division and merger is finally announced
Xie Xian and Coco have been in love for many years, and the stable relationship allows Xie Xian to see the long-term future of the two. However, the good times did not last long, and in 2018, Xie Xian suddenly announced the news of their breakup.
When they broke up, Xie Xian had a sad face, and he began to reflect on what he hadn't done well enough in the relationship. He wanted to give young Coco more care and space, but unconsciously ignored her feelings.
It didn't take long for the two to suddenly get back together. Xie Xian had a smile on his face again, and it seemed that everything was back on track. But the outside world still has doubts about whether the two can last for a long time, thinking that it is just a short-term illusion.
These doubts became a knot in Xie Xian's heart that could not be ignored. He began to think seriously about the future of the two. After weighing it repeatedly, Xie Xian finally made up his mind to take the initiative to end this 10-year relationship.
He realizes that his age and experience will inevitably affect Coco, delaying her from finding the right partner. For Coco to be young and have no regrets, he must let go.
At the time of parting, Xie Xian stood alone on the balcony with red eyes, staring at the back of Coco leaving. This time, he finally learned to take the initiative to let go and no longer tie up another soul because of himself.
Maybe that's good for everyone.
The white head is inseparable from the road of acting
Xie Xian has experienced all the vicissitudes of his relationship, but in his acting career, he has never slowed down. Regardless of his personal experience, he persistently pursues his acting ideals.
He began to enter the film and television industry in his 20s, and more than 60 years have passed, and 86-year-old Xie Xian is still active. He has witnessed the changes in this circle bit by bit, and has also written his own legendary story.
Xie Xian is not an actor who can only act, he is diligent in learning Xi, has a wide range of roles: screenwriter, director, producer, etc. He is good at discovering excellent works and talents to promote the progress of Hong Kong's film and television industry.
Even in his old age, Xie Xian has never stopped his passionate pursuit of performance. He continues to shoot new plays and delve into different roles. In front of the camera, he is still professional, dedicated, and personable.
Over the years, Xie Xian has received one lifetime achievement award after another for his outstanding acting achievements. But he never became complacent, just quietly accepted, and then set his eyes on the distance again.
Life is long, how many things are there, and the spring breeze blows and wakes up. There may be ups and downs in the relationship, but on the road of acting, Xie Xian uses his perseverance to light up the lights of progress.
This is the most regretless choice in his life.