One kind of lovesickness, two places of idleness
If love is just a feeling, then when it hits a challenge, that feeling quickly goes away because it's easy for us to get that feeling in different people, and the most common narrative of all empathy is that I don't have feelings anymore.
True love must not be an instant touch, but must be an eternal commitment, sacrificing each other, achieving each other, and respecting each other.

Venus said: People with spare tires will never graduate in love, because he has never invested, you have to invest in you to feel, if you always have a place there, I think your investment will be reduced, and many people with spare tires I think I am still afraid of lonely people. Love is something that both parties must pay to produce love.
Fu Seoul's view of love: choose what I love, love what I choose.
What is love, is that you write a lot of mate selection criteria on the paper, he must be excellent and self-motivated and erudite and rich, but suddenly one day you meet a person, you find that he has nothing to do with all the words you write, but you are moved, love is to forget your mother's standards, love is that you do not hesitate to tear the paper.
Isn't love what I dare to like and dare to leave? When I get it, I cherish everything, when I lose, I try to let go, electric light and flint, I didn't let go of the scales and wounds all over the body, I don't admit it, how many winds and snow moons are finally just a back shadow, and eventually you will meet a long and warm embrace, you will understand that some people are used to miss, and the most worthwhile thing to keep is the affectionate, regardless of gain or loss of their own.