What is love? What is marriage? What does marriage give women?

What is true love? It is to experience countless tossing and turning, still obsessively believing, and following in pieces. I have never cried bitterly in the long night, how can I understand the deep meaning of life, it is a fire stirring in my chest, and it is a spring breeze that blows intoxicatingly; It is a spring that flows slowly, the whispers of the ears grinding, and the rose color of all things shining. Teenagers have to think that having love, I have everything, but the idea can never withstand reality, can not withstand the day of chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, all say do not care about the door to the door, Chinese culture is broad and profound, I think since ancient times said that men and women should consider the door to the door is reasonable, the family origin is not the same, destined to accept the three views are not the same, even if combined, slowly and slowly there will be differences, reality can never be like fairy tales and TV series, married into the rich Cinderella is not all happy.

What is marriage? Marriage is a conjugal relationship that results from marriage, which legalizes two people together. Some people say that marriage means responsibility, and once married, it is necessary to carry a whole family. Some people say: Marriage is more than a warm dependence, is at any time, there is a sense of security that you can go back to home. Each of us has a different understanding of marriage, some through blind date union, some because of love, some because of the wrong combination caused by youth and ignorance, two people choose to set a life through legal relationship. In reality, there are many blind dates to know, coupled with the urging of the family, feel that it is appropriate, and after a long period of understanding, they are married. When I was in college, I secretly talked about it, when I first went to school, my mother said don't worry about talking about the object, after a semester I still broke up, because the personality is not compatible, and then it was time to intern, I came back, my parents kept urging, I entered the ranks of blind dates, at that time I was only about 22 years old, and now my husband is known through blind dates, after marriage you have to say that I have no regrets, that is not realistic, and then slowly and slowly get used to it, get used to each other's personality, get used to each other's way of talking, Accustomed to each other's family, the style of the in-laws and mother-in-law, now I don't think it's a big deal. I believe there should be many people like me.

First of all, I think what marriage brings to women is not necessarily a destination, but it is definitely an eternal affection, and children are the bridge connecting family affection. In marriage, a woman's greatest gain is to have children. This is a lifetime of continuous affection, the flesh on her own body, the continuation of a lifetime of affection, so women are willing to stick to their unhappy marriage for the sake of their children. Secondly, what marriage brings to women is to grow up quickly and learn how to love themselves. In the end, what marriage brings to women is independence and strength. Before marriage, no matter how delicate a woman is, after marriage, she has also become a humble woman. Because the man after marriage is like a child who does not grow up, sometimes he needs to be spurred, but sometimes some men do not even use the whip, marriage to women, often not married to a man, but harvested a "big son", sophistication, parents are short, everywhere need women to manage. So what exactly does marriage bring to women? Nothing more than unprecedented independence and strength, forcing us to grow step by step, marriage allows women to let go of complete trust and dependence on men. Today's men can not be trusted, not important, can not be relied on, not important, what matters is whether women can see through the importance of independence. I just got married for the first two years and felt that what would be in charge of my husband, what was not good would I talk about him, and slowly I didn't have much expectations for my husband, I just wanted the family to be good and the children to be good. It's all about the kids. I'm sure there are a lot of people like me!

If the essence of marriage is just a different way of life, then at least we have to be grateful that he gave us a different kind of life. We also don't always think about what marriage can bring to us, we must treat all of this and the things we have experienced as the scenery on the road of our lives, cherish the experience that has been brought to you since this road, slowly become independent, and live a more exciting life is more important!

Finally, I think that if you must get married, it is better to try marriage first, so that you can better understand and run-in, and if it is not appropriate, you can have room to turn back

(It's just my own perception and opinion, and experience, there are thousands of things in the world, and not necessarily everyone's love marriage, it's all like this)