Text/Hideko Dye Natsu
Write the warmest words, heal you and me, warm you and me
Men and women in this world long for a kind and warm lover, a harmonious family, and a happy life, so how to treat love? Next, I will tell you the following principles about love.
1. Love is not a momentary pleasure, but a lifetime
There are many love at first sight in this world, the so-called love at first sight, in fact, is only mutual affection, not love, love is not a day, a moment, a few months can make a conclusion. Just like many blind date shows now, they hold hands in the show, that is just holding hands and successfully developing intentions, and it is not possible to develop love in reality.
The world is too impetuous, the impulsive feelings as love, in fact, for a long time, understand deep enough, the freshness is gone, tired, that is not necessarily the real love and not the attitude towards love
2. Love cannot be wishful thinking, but single-minded
One person's one-man show, just unrequited love, two people's love is love, do not think that you love a person, the other party will love you. Love in the old society is the word of the matchmaker, the parents arranged that also need to fall in love after marriage, if one party refuses, it will eventually lead to the breakdown of the family.
In today's society, people are too impetuous and have too many interests, and there are those "gold worship women" and "phoenix men", which are obviously not love, but everyone has their own way of life, and they also have their own views on love, and it is beyond reproach that this situation occurs.
3. Love can not be once and for all, but should always be fresh
Love is not to chase the hand is fine, but also need to be together when the care and love, but now there are some ridiculous phenomena, some men after chasing a woman, there is no previous courtesy, in his words: I have chased the hand, do you still need to pay anything? To be able to say this sentence shows that he does not understand true love. Love is not together or permanent, but mutual understanding, mutual care, in order to continue love.
4. Love cannot be bent on going its own way, but should be considered comprehensively
Love is originally a matter between men and women, if you want to enter marriage, it is a matter of two families, they are inseparable from their relatives and friends, inseparable from the social environment in which they live, whether the feelings of men and women can develop into love, and even marriage must consider many objective factors and take care of all aspects of acceptance, otherwise it is ultimately difficult to withstand the pressure of reality.
Here, I sincerely wish that every lover can get a satisfactory love, and every marriage can be happy and fulfilling!
Author: Hideko Dye Natsu, a girl who loves words and tea. Freelance writer, you have stories, I have tea, accompany you through the sun and moon mountains and rivers.