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Two people together, if you want to live for a long time, in fact, it is more to keep things between each other. Falling in love is easy, staying together is too difficult, and you will face many problems if you want to go on.
When love becomes chai rice oil and salt, many things come out.
Feelings of this kind of thing, is not a person's problem, what is needed is the maintenance and management of both sides, it is not enough to rely on love, but also to keep some things between each other.
Therefore, love is more about management, know how to cherish, can keep these things, will live a very happy life.
Keep the freshness between each other
When you are in love, you are full of curiosity, fresh enough, and have a desire to know about each other.
After getting acquainted with each other, the enthusiasm may disappear, and then both sides need to run into each other. There is no innate beauty, and all good feelings depend on the efforts of both parties.
After a long time together, the passion will fade, the freshness will be gone, and there will be simple greetings between each other, and if you want to go on with your feelings for a long time, you will have to spend more effort to create some surprises and emotions for each other.
In fact, two people together not only need the initial heartbeat, more need to manage each other in the future, say more nice words, do some touching things, the other party will naturally experience your sincerity, love more in the details.
Therefore, if you can keep the freshness of each other, the feelings will become more and more beautiful.
Keep a sense of proportion between each other
It's good for two people to be together and stay close, but being too close can be easy to get bored. People are like this, only by maintaining a comfortable distance can they get along comfortably.
Feelings do not mean to be tired of being together every day, staying together for a long time will be tired, and distance produces beauty.
Everyone will have their own space, what they want to do, you can love someone but also to give each other freedom, sometimes too much management, will give the other party pressure, let him disgust, will want to escape.
The sense of proportion is a very delicate thing, and if the distance can be grasped well, your feelings will become more and more beautiful.
Loving someone is not about being together every day, and being too dependent is not a good thing. Only by remaining dependent on each other but relatively independent, will the feelings become more and more tacit.
You know, no one in this world can really accompany you for a lifetime, so keep a safe distance, not too dependent, maybe each other will go a long way, and there will not be too much pressure.
Hold on to each other's emotions
In this world, everyone will have their own temper and disposition, but love is more about learning to restrain.
If you love someone, you will use the love of the other party and unscrupulously vent your emotions, which will only push the other party farther and farther.
Love is more about tolerance, is restraint, can stand in the other person's position to think, but also willing to be soft. You know, reason with the person you love, even if you win and lose, the other party will not be worth the loss.
Feelings such things are unreasonable, love a person should learn to restrain, know how to give in.
Although sometimes women will be a little unreasonable, but that is because they love you and care more about your attitude.
If men can know how to give in and take a soft, so that maybe they won't be too stiff with each other.
Everything can have its own attitude and temper, but don't be too tough, after all, it doesn't make much sense to worry about the person you love.
summary:
In this life, we will meet many people, and it is fate to be able to come together.
It is not easy to meet, it is too difficult to meet, and to be able to stay together must be cherished even more. In this world, there is no perfect love, only two people who know how to operate.
Therefore, if both parties know how to keep these things, the feelings will become more and more intimate.