As the saying goes, "three generations can cultivate an aristocrat", and "nobility" and "gentleman" not only represent a certain economic status, but also a manifestation of demeanor and cultivation. "Family rules and family training" play a pivotal role in the long-term development of a family and family. Let's look through the family training of the nine families to see the hidden values, ways of thinking, and behaviors that should be formed behind them. Both adults and children must study hard and use it one day.
The world's first family
The Chinese Confucius family taught their children the Ten Precepts
1. Although living in poverty, he never complains about the environment in which he lives;
2. Even if she lives in difficult circumstances, the mother still devotes all her enthusiasm to educating her children;
3, the more great people, the more to self-learning and self-understanding;
4, failure is not discouraged, arm yourself with a tenacious spirit of challenge;
5. Test and exercise yourself through long-distance travel;
6. The threesome will have my teacher;
7. Make friends with like-minded people;
8. Do not teach the children personally, but only supervise and examine their learning;
9, the weakness of human nature will sometimes achieve a generation of great people;
10. Cultivate the habit of studying diligently and asking questions.
A family of politicians
The Kennedy family in the United States taught their children ten lessons
1. Make your child's parenting diary and reading records by hand, and then check this thoroughly;
2. Help children develop good habits of observing time;
3. Parents should often tell their children the stories of what happened in his career;
4. Form a natural and harmonious discussion atmosphere when eating;
5. Teach children the world law that "those who achieve the first place will not be ignored";
6. When children encounter difficulties, parents should help them solve problems from the perspective of their children;
7. Let children enter famous universities to study, so that they can get the best connections;
8, let the child understand that the initial clumsiness and inadaptability, will become the truth of practice through repeated efforts;
9, tell the child to set a lofty goal, but do not be impatient, must be gradual to succeed the truth;
10. Between parents and siblings, it is necessary to form a good family atmosphere of harmonious coexistence and mutual help.
Sweden's richest man
The Wallenberg family taught their children ten lessons
1. Serve in the Navy and cultivate the spirit of perseverance;
2. Broaden your horizons by studying at world-renowned universities and working in multinational enterprises;
3. Build international connections;
4. Abide by and attach importance to the principle of generational transmission;
5. Taken from society and used in society;
6. Walk with the children every Sunday morning;
7. The younger brother then wears the clothes worn by the older brother, thus developing a frugal life style;
8, do not do things recklessly, to avoid sharp behavior;
9. Grandpa, as the life mentor of his grandson, imparts wisdom and experience (intergenerational education);
10 If you want to be the heir, you must first have a patriotic heart.
A family of famous bankers in Seattle
The Gates family teaches their children ten lessons
1. If you leave a child with huge assets, it will inevitably hinder him from becoming a creative talent;
2. Parents help their children create a network of contacts;
3. Keep your shortcomings and make like-minded friends;
4. Read more science fiction novels (movies) when you are young;
5. The mother's gift may change the child's fate;
6. Broaden your horizons by reading newspapers;
7. The children of rich families should not be pampered;
8. Do not hesitate to meet the challenge when the opportunity comes;
9. The accumulated experience over the years will become the basis for future entrepreneurship;
10. Children use their parents as examples to learn from.
The supreme family of the Jews
The Rothschilds taught their children ten lessons
1. Attach importance to the tradition of fraternal harmony and inter-family unity;
2, do not pursue money, the pursuit of good interpersonal relations;
3. Educate children to have a correct view of money;
4, information is equal to money, from an early age to attach importance to the importance of information;
5. The tradition of collecting intelligence information has been passed down from generation to generation;
6. Be vigilant against the ideological tendency of pursuing material interests too much;
7. Adhere to the principle of "not a son will not participate in the business";
8. Do not forget the lesson of the "five bows and arrows" that prompted the reconciliation of the five brothers;
9. Maintain the charitable tradition of donation from generation to generation;
10. Jews help each other and develop their causes together.
Nobel fame family
The French Curie family educates their children ten lessons
1. Even if you don't study in school, you may become an excellent talent;
2. Practice the principle of equality between husband and wife, which is also excellent children's education;
3. Cultivate children's hearts to seek the truth in nature;
4. The father is both a tutor and a leader;
5. Through grandfather education of granddaughters, to achieve "generation-skipping education";
6. Even if both husband and wife are office workers, they should also pay attention to establishing an interdependent relationship with their children;
7. The mother's "enlightenment education" is crucial;
8. Never force children to become scientists in order to inherit and carry forward the honor of the family;
9. Let children consciously cultivate a sense of self-reliance;
10. Look for spouses who have tacit understanding with each other in the pursuit of learning.
A family of scientific masters
The British Darwin family taught their children the Ten Precepts
1. Parents, as their children's life mentors, must play a leading role;
2. Always create a cheerful family atmosphere full of music;
3. Create a turning point in life through travel;
4, no matter which aspect, if it is not suitable for the character of the child, do not force it;
5. Once it is found that children have the potential of scholars, they must fully support them;
6. If the opposition is in the majority, the method of long-term persuasion is adopted;
7. Hold parties to establish precious interpersonal relationships;
8. Create a family business or family school that can be passed on from generation to generation;
9. Make a daily schedule and work hard to complete it;
10. Make good teachers and friends who can create a new life for their children.
An Indian family of educators
The Tagore family of India teaches their children the Ten Precepts
1. Create a family atmosphere with a strong smell of books;
2. Make up for the knowledge that cannot be learned in school through reading;
3. When children cannot adapt to school life, look for positive countermeasures;
4. Cultivate children's various talents by hiring tutors;
5. Give the wallet to the child and educate him economically;
6. Eliminate prejudice against other religions;
7. Actively support culture and art after becoming a rich man;
8. Cultivate children's imagination by roaming nature with their children;
9. Make a careful plan so that your children can learn more from travel;
10. Guide children to contact music and art from an early age.
A family of literature
The Russian Tolstoy family taught their children ten lessons
1. Let the child reflect on the behavior of the day by writing a diary every day;
2. Draw up a thorough schedule and put it into action;
3, so that the members of the entire family develop a good habit of writing a diary;