In the past two days, another male star who was caught prostituting caused public anger, and this male star was the famous piano performance artist - Li Yundi.
Since the news of the detention of prostitutes, the recent hit "Brother with Thorns" has removed the first seven issues that Li Yundi participated in, as many as 12 business cooperation, and most of the brand official websites except Piano and Meijia Piano have been unable to query any li Yundi-related content information.
In addition, Li Yundi's alma mater, the Sichuan Conservatory of Music, has deleted all its information, the Piano Art Research Institute has also removed Li Yundi, and Li Yundi's piano studio has been delisted, overnight, Li Yundi's career and reputation have undergone earth-shaking changes.
Li Yundi, as one of the few pianists in China who can be well known to the public, he not only has excellent family conditions, but also looks handsome and elegant, gentle and elegant, and is also the white moonlight in the hearts of many female fans. Although he was previously criticized by fans for his addiction to gold in the entertainment industry, his technology regressed and lost his original intention, but his image in the public's mind has always been positive on the whole.
Such a person who is extremely excellent in all aspects, in the face of the fact that he is prostituting, we will inevitably sigh "he certainly does not lack beautiful girls as girlfriends, why should he go to prostitute", just as we do not understand Zhang Yuqi's ex-husband Wang Quan'an prostitution, do not understand Tong Liya's ex-husband Chen Sicheng prostitution, they obviously have better choices, but for the sake of temporary stimulation and violate morality and law. These people all have a common trait, that is, they like the new and hate the old, and they don't know how to learn enough.
Psychologists refer to the tendency of males in mammals to see and think differently as the "Colech effect." The Gurizhi mentioned in this effect is a head of state in the Western world, and one day when he and his wife visited a chicken coop, his wife suddenly wanted to ask the accompanying farmer, can you tell me how many times a day the rooster will do the "husband" duty on the hen, the farmer replied, about a dozen times a day, at this time, the president asked is it the same hen every time? The farmer replied that he would change his partner every time.
As a higher mammal, it is inevitable that traces of this effect will remain on people's bodies. In fact, the existence of men's psychological tendency to like the new and dislike the old has a very deep physiological basis and is a normal need. It is only that the difference between man and ordinary mammals is that man is a social animal with conscience and morality, and it is also because of these that man eventually breaks away from the animal kingdom.
It is natural for all men to find pleasure thrills. In the world, there are two basic behavioral mechanisms, namely the pursuit of happy stimuli and the avoidance of painful stimuli, immersion in a heterosexual relationship, which is the most primitive way for human beings to pursue happy stimuli.
However, there is a phenomenon in psychology called "sensory adaptation", that is, when you are applied to the same stimulus for a long time, you will feel that the stimulation is getting smaller and smaller, this phenomenon is also called "Fischner's law", Fischner's law applies to heterosexual relationships, mainly manifested in, with the prolongation of love time, the same person makes the same love move, but makes the other party's feelings more and more numb.
That is to say, when a fixed person occupies most of your time and energy, your life becomes two people with three meals and four seasons, this ordinary life, although it is a kind of happiness, lacks a little passion and excitement. Even the most attractive people will be familiar with each other because of the long time together, and the attraction of the body will become less amazing with the extension of time, which explains why many male celebrities will make the move of "the home flower is not as fragrant as the wildflower".
From the perspective of accidental sex, foreign psychologists once did a survey on the intention of accidental sex, researchers casually talked to men and women on the street, put forward requests for accidental sex, the results showed that more than 70% of men will agree, while only about 30% of women will accept.
This finding partly illustrates that men are more receptive to potential, portable, anonymous, worry-free sex, because this accidental sex does not require them to take on too much responsibility like a stable heterosexual relationship, and likewise, does not require too much energy and resources.
Greed is human nature, and human desire is inexhaustible. People are always in the fantasy of "maybe the next is better" and "maybe the things they haven't touched are better", and they don't let go of what they already have in order to get a good thing.
As the saying goes, contentment is wide in heaven and earth, greed for the universe, such people indulge in the heavenly pool of desire, and have long forgotten the preciousness of contentment and happiness. For each of us, having desire is a common thing, but we should be vigilant and restrained about our own desires, not to touch things that are not our own, touch too much, and ultimately hurt ourselves.