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This year can probably be called the "year of divorce", and all kinds of earth-shattering melons are one after another.
But the happiest thing is that women are now stronger, daring to expose each other's true faces, so that some of the so-called "high-quality idols" presented in front of the audience are completely exposed.
Wang Lihong, how many people's youth quality idol ah.
How many people think that he and Wu Zun are the same person, with a perfect appearance, with a sincere and kind heart, the key is to have good feelings.
In fact, looking at it now, it is simply ridiculous.
Li Lianglei sent a long text accusing Wang Lihong, and her image collapsed
Wang Lihong officially announced the divorce, and for a time a thousand waves were stirred up.
Wang Lihong said that it was a "long-term contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law", which brought the marriage of the two people to an end, and said that he would not respond in the future.
All the spearheads were directed at Li Lianglei, who had not responded.
After a few years of marriage and three children, what exactly does marriage bring her?
Li Lianglei bravely stood up and said the words that had been pressed in her heart all these years, exposing Wang Lihong's true appearance.
In Li Lianglei's accusation, it can be roughly divided into the following aspects, in order to cover these things that make people lose their teeth, and the full text is attached at the end of the article:
1. Showed kindness to Li Lianglei, did not have a relationship, but clearly stated that he did not want to talk about feelings
Li Lianglei was 10 years younger than Wang Lihong, and when Li Lianglei was 16 years old, she knew Wang Lihong.
When I first met Li Lianglei, Wang Lihong launched a fierce pursuit, took the initiative to praise her beauty, and often called and talked for an hour.
A 16-year-old girl, when faced with the fierce attack of such a quality idol, of course thinks that he likes himself.
Two people start dating.
At this time, Li Lianglei knew that he and his ex-girlfriend were still confused.
Later broke up with his ex-girlfriend, the two met in the same city, he acted like a boyfriend should have, and the two had a relationship that night.
The most surprising thing is that the two people had a relationship, and he told Li Lianglei: I don't want to talk about feelings.
At that time, although Li Lianglei felt hurt, because she had fallen in love with this "high-quality big boy", she would not think that he was a "scum" performance, and she thought that he must have been hurt by feelings.
Later, what was even more shocking was that Li Lianglei found that there were many girls like her, and she was just one of them.
She was angry, and as a result he confessed all this in front of her and said "can't control himself", really not in the future, she will be his "only" in the future.
Girls are most likely to be deceived by boys' rhetoric, especially boys who look handsome on the outside.
Li Lianglei was like this, at that time, she only thought of "I will be the one who changed this boy", not "Men do not have one time, only zero times and countless times." ”
2. Sign an agreement before marriage and transfer property after marriage
For the lovers in his mouth, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong can be described as exhaustive.
Before getting married, Li Lianglei was asked to sign a prenuptial agreement, which basically meant that the woman could not get any of his property.
It is during the marriage period, the transfer of property, even the car is transferred to the name of her mother, Li Lianglei in these 8 years, can not get anything.
All you get is children, aging, and 8 years of youth for marriage.
3. After marriage, it will not stop giving birth
After the two people got married, Li Lianglei gave birth to children one after another, because she was constantly being promoted.
Li Lianglei's original idea was that because Wang Lihong was 10 years older than her and wanted to have children, he sacrificed his personal time for her and paid completely for the family.
Of course, the premise is that she herself likes children, so she will agree to have children.
But what about after having children?
The task of taking care of the child fell to the mother alone, and Wang Lihong basically did not participate in the growth of the child.
Even in the months or even months that followed, the children could not see their father.
Do you really like children but don't participate in the growth of children, or do you just use women as fertility tools in the name of liking?
4, after marriage, a variety of about p
Now that you are married and have children, can you "turn back" the prodigal son?
That's basically impossible.
Drinking and partying with p friends, n photos, tc photos, and l photos of each other on birthdays...
Some friends are even married.
In the face of her husband's performance, Li Lianglei was angry and helpless, and when the other party promised the last time, she still chose to forgive.
5. Use your wife as a shield
In Li Lianglei's complaint, it was also mentioned that Wang Lihong used her as a shield to fight for his own interests.
Marrying a wife can not only be white, but also allow her to have children, but also use her to fight for her own interests.
6. The last act that angered Li Lianglei
After the two divorced, Li Lianglei was subjected to an Internet storm, and she begged him to clarify for herself, and Wang Lihong's response was: I have said that I will not respond again.
Li Lianglei was helpless.
However, when it was later reported that Wang Lihong was out of Sun Yu in gBY2, he immediately stood up to clarify for himself.
Freezing three feet is not a day's cold, but in the end, the woman who completely makes this woman who loves Wang Lihong deeply recognize herself and the other party is this time of explicit rejection, and after rejecting, stand up for herself to clarify the behavior.
In fact, when Sun Yu issued a statement clarifying himself and saying that he had called the police, Li Lianglei directly forwarded and subtitled: Tell me the police contact information, and I will provide evidence.
7, Wang Lihong filed for divorce, because he did not want to let the girl he liked be the "three"
The most ridiculous thing is that Li Lianglei's forgiveness again and again is not exchanged for the return of the "prodigal son", but more questioning, coldness and cold violence.
Finally, when she gave birth to her third child, Wang Lihong filed for divorce on the grounds that "I met someone I liked and couldn't let her be the third child." ”
What is this logical thinking? Why has the popularity of this kind of scum always been so high!
Zhuo Wei posted in support of Li Lianglei
Zhuo Wei posted a post supporting Li Lianglei after this incident, praising her bravery.
In fact, Zhuo Wei exposed Wang Lihong's "zj" as early as 2016, but at that time, Wang Lihong's fame was too big, the image was too positive, and he did not believe it at all.
Now it seems that Zhuo Wei is right.
Compared with Li Yundi, the behavior is even more shameful
Not long ago, Li Yundi, a well-known piano master at home and abroad, had a reputation for collapsing the building because of "pc", and he himself confessed to this.
Li Yundi was generous, and each time he transferred tens of thousands of yuan afterwards, and transferred under his real name.
Finally caught.
At that time, when Li Yundi had an accident, Wang Lihong, who had always liked "pc", fell into the well.
Now it seems that fifty steps are laughing and a hundred steps, I don't know if I have the same dirty behavior, what courage do I have to maintain the image of "justice" in a dignified manner?
Sure enough, the entertainment industry is not something that ordinary people can enter, and this circle is too dark.
Female celebrities are competitive and engaged in careers, and once men have everything, they are prone to degeneration and cannot cope with the temptation of invasion from all directions.
Of course, Li Yundi, as a piano master, doing such a thing that damages the image is really shameful, but compared to his behavior of not hh a good family woman, spending money on "pc", Wang Lihong wants to not spend money, find a woman to have a child for himself, white p 8 years, but also continue to maintain his own wandering life, more shameful.
Li Lianglei had many opportunities to stop losses, but she missed them all
Wang Lihong not only scum, but also cut home, facing the wife who has given birth to 3 children, facing the wife who has paid for the family for 8 years, his approach is, I file for divorce, and you can't get any compensation.
A girl got 8 years, and it was gone.
Of course, Li Lianglei's family background is relatively good, graduated from Columbia University, has a good academic background, and is not worried about not being able to support herself and her children in the future.
But this kind of measure of men is really despicable.
Some people say that Li Lianglei destroyed Wang Lihong, and no one destroyed him, but it was he who misbehaved and finally sent himself to this road of no return.
To that, Li Lianglei's 8 years of youth was given white by this "scumbag".
In fact, from the thousand-word long text of Li Lianglei's complaint, we can see that she has many opportunities to stop losses in time, and she already knew Wang Lihong's behavior before marriage, but she chose to forgive in the sweet words of the other party.
In the end, girls are overwhelmed by love, lose themselves, and fail to maintain their sanity.
Girls must not have a fluke mentality, thinking that they can become a scumbag of some "prodigal son", in front of the feelings of the weak and unruly people, feelings are not worth mentioning.
The choice of marriage partner must polish the eyes, for personality problems, treatment of feelings of men, must say "no".
After marriage, with a baby, if the man is not responsible for the family and feelings, it is also necessary to stop the loss in time, because it is difficult for us to wake up a person who is "pretending to sleep".