For everyone, there should be a fear that they will have "nothing", which means that they are a failure, without any achievements, without anyone who cares about themselves.
But in fact, everyone's understanding of the word nothing is different, and some people's nothingness is not really nothing, but his attention is focused on the direction he wants to pursue, thus ignoring what he has.
Many people will be demoralized after suffering failures on the road of hard work, and sadly say: "I have nothing, what is the meaning of life?" ”
Such an encounter is indeed not what we hope to encounter, but life is like this, even if you are fully prepared, even if you endure a lot of hardships and persistence, you may not be able to guarantee that the result must be what you want.
The preparation we need to do is not only to face success, but also to have failure. Although we do not want to face it, failure is inevitable.
I like a sentence that Chen Xinhong said: "As a young man, having the best weapon in the world is nothing." Because even if you fail, you have nothing to lose. ”
When you have what you want, you need to be extra careful, because if you don't pay attention, you can lose it all. But when you have nothing, you don't have to be afraid of anything, because you have nothing to lose.
At this time, you can put your mind at ease, you can face life calmly, and you can boldly pursue what you want. As long as you are willing to move forward, it is a process of continuous possession, and tomorrow you will be happier than you are today.
If one day you have nothing, don't despair. Because it's a reminder that it's time for you to do these three things.
01 Stop and stop thinking about what you have lost, but about what you have.
Tang Jun, who is nearly thirty years old, in the eyes of others, is a man with a double harvest of career love, and everyone feels that if he continues to develop in this way, his life will definitely get better and better.
But this happiness still came to an abrupt end one day, in his career, he was calculated by the company's competitors, and the project he was responsible for went wrong, causing the company to lose a lot of money, which directly led to his dismissal by the company.
Originally, he and his girlfriend planned to get married, but the girlfriend learned that his job was lost and could not find a good job in a short period of time, so he proposed to break up.
Tang Jun, who lost his love and career at the same time, was devastated and felt that he had nothing. Desperate, he did not want to stay in the city, so he returned to his hometown.
Seeing his parents' concern and encouragement for him, Tang Jun's heart was warm, and he suddenly felt that he was not nothing, and he would never betray his family affection. This warmth also encouraged him to start again and move on.
When you feel like you have nothing, you might as well stop thinking about what you've lost, but look back at what you have, which is the most precious.
02 Make your heart strong, even if you have nothing, you can bravely face it.
When you have nothing, what is most important to you in your heart? Many people will dwell on what they have lost, and feel that those losses mean their failures, which means that their lives have completely collapsed.
In fact, the more we lose, the more we realize what is most important to us. In my opinion, life is the most important thing.
As long as we are alive, those things that have been lost may return to us again. If there is no life left, then there is really nothing.
Linda said, "How lightly those who are strong stand in a manifesto of heroism against the losers." They can't understand that even if they have nothing, as long as they survive, the misfortune itself is elevating the value of life! ”
When you feel that you have nothing, you may wish to exercise yourself, let your heart really strong everything, dare to accept everything, dare to face everything. As long as there is faith in the heart, it will be re-possessed later.
03 Strengthen your faith and continue to create.
Many people feel like a complete loser when they lose something. Because he suffered too much blow, he was devastated from then on, and there was no longer any faith and persistence in his heart, and he eventually became a real failure.
In fact, the real loser is not nothing, but after being hit, he can no longer pick himself up.
Xin Yiwu said: "Many times, it is often because you want too little, others simply do not give you anything, and as a result you have nothing. ”
Hit by the blow, you choose to give up completely, and such a giving up also determines that your life has fallen into the bottomless abyss. If you want too little, you will end up with nothing.
If you want to change your situation, you must first change your state of mind, have a heart that does not accept defeat, always strengthen your belief, constantly struggle forward, and strive to create. Even if you have nothing now, one day, your efforts will definitely be rewarded.
As Roland put it: "It is a necessity to create, or to brew the creation of the future." Happiness can only exist when this necessity is satisfied. Blessed are those who have nothing, because they will receive everything! ”
Nothing is actually the same as having everything. Existence means finite, none means infinite. Only when we have nothing can we return to the infinite whole.
When you have nothing one day, remember to do these three things. Only then can you overcome yourself and regain it.
"On the other side of the world, I can understand you, and no matter how cold my heart is, I will warm you for the rest of my life." - Wei Tingting"