If it's lonely at the moment
Look up at the moon
Wen 丨 Li Moon
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I started chasing this story five years ago.
The protagonist is an Internet celebrity, called no plus V, and when he was more popular earlier, he was called Muzimi.
She is well known in the media circles. Graduated from the Philosophy Department of Sun Yat-sen University, he became popular more than a decade ago because of the public sex diary on the Internet. After that, a "Testament Letter" was published, the content was hot, all kinds of one-night stands, all kinds of ruined three views. Many reporters want to interview her, and she has a more ruined sentence: "If you want to interview, go to bed first, and as long as you stay in bed, I will talk to you for as long as possible."
The book was soon banned, and even the president of the publishing house was demoted.
It must be admitted that what she writes is intelligent and capable, unrestrained, and has a fresh style of petty bourgeoisie, which is very refreshing to read.
This circled a lot of fans for her.
Later, she opened a Weibo, from time to time to expose her various love affairs, many men fell off the horse - singers, stars, cultural celebrities... She named the big explosion, but also very real, what time, what place and what situation, she opened her mouth, and sometimes cooperated with e-mail, text message records, so that the other party has no power to fight back.
She also didn't care if others scolded her, slut bitch, and couldn't hurt her in the slightest.
Look at her own Weibo, you know what kind of person this is:
Over the years, Mu Zimei has been traversing the rivers and lakes in this way as a pioneer female writer, meaninglessly shameful, shocking the world, invincible to poison, and victorious in every battle.
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This time, however, she lost.
Officially start telling the story.
Mu Zimei lives in Yanjiao, Beijing, and five years ago, she once took a taxi and took a fancy to the driver.
To go further, she frequently hit his car, sometimes deliberately calling long distances, paying more each time.
She knew the driver had a daughter-in-law, but it was not on her radar at all.
She has been live streaming her mental journey on Weibo.
It is said that the driver was not in a good condition at that time, and his father owed more than 100,000 debts for surgery. He got up early and ran a taxi, pulled back the debt to pay off, and had a small car accident because of fatigue driving.
A generous, empathetic, and smiling female passenger probably let him relax for a moment in his tired life.
Anyway, after about half a year, the two of them got better.
Muzimi said:
We have known each other for half a year, we have taken 10 long trips in this half year, and we have a good conversation every time, he is a very attractive person in language, not the kind of taxi driver kandashan that you think.
He describes his work and family relationships: "Every day is like a cormorant, going out to fish and having to spit it out when you go back."
Once he told me about the fight, and he talked about it for twenty or thirty minutes in one breath, and the scene action emotional dialogue was wonderful like a blurted out martial arts novel. In short, it was more enjoyable to chat with him than any boyfriend ever before.
He didn't dress like a driver, he didn't look like a rich and handsome man, he looked natural and fresh, he would wear ripped jeans in the summer, he would wear a stand-up collar down jacket in the winter, never wore big pants, and he didn't wear them at home.
What is even more rare is that he does not have a little resentment in him, is very peaceful with people and things, and sometimes admires his ability to resist pressure and feels that he is a person with great inner strength.
In short, in the first two years of getting along, the days are very happy.
Muzimi herself wrote:
We wandered around in the car, by the river, in the grove, watching the fishing, watching the helicopters circling, watching the pine nuts fall, watching the flowers bloom.
We also eat together every day, eating Cantonese cuisine, Yangzhou cuisine, Yunnan cuisine that he has never eaten... Any festival is celebrated, and Singles' Day should also be celebrated together.
We hugged, kissed, rolled over, like a family.
And the daughter-in-law, like a very fierce mother, looks for him every day, where is it, is she pulling a living? Often, as soon as the phone rang, he would start the car, open the window, and lie solemnly: where I am. If you roll the sheets, you simply do not pick them up.
The driver called her a, got out of the car during the day, and ran to Muzimi's house halfway through, cooking for her, washing dishes and repairing toilets, and giving her gifts from time to time.
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Mu Zimei has been updating her affair with the driver on Weibo.
More than a year later, the driver finally knew that his lover was an Internet celebrity, and the extramarital affair that he thought was very hidden had been broadcast live, and was watched and commented by millions of people.
He was a little scared.
But at that time, you and I couldn't be separated, and we were confused and went on like this.
Many men are so confused when it comes to the relationship between men and women.
It is particularly strange that in their careers, businesses, and money, they are often shrewd and tight, logically clear, long-term vision, not bad at all, but when they face women, their brains are a mess, they know that they are pits and jump with their eyes closed, and they do not climb out when they know that there is a disaster.
But at this point in the story, it begins to turn.
The driver's daughter-in-law saw Muzimei's Weibo, and the matter was revealed.
Well. Extramarital affairs, this thing, can hide the sky across the sea is really not much, in most cases, paper can not cover the fire.
Especially that kind of long-term extramarital relationship, morning and evening dew filling.
Because people always have omissions. No matter how careful you are, you will also show your horse's feet.
This is the fate of almost all extramarital affairs: a wonderful start. The middle giant is cautious. Or was it discovered. Huge annoyance.
However, this time, it is only the driver who is annoyed. MuZimei, a little third who is not afraid of boiling water, does not care at all.
She even wrote this passage in a very literary way:
The summer before, he had eye surgery, the moment he entered the operating room, the mobile phone was handed to his daughter-in-law without a lock screen, the daughter-in-law saw him on Weibo, as if he saw another world of him, he was wandering around there, cooking, repairing water and electricity, writing love letters and talking, he also sent flowers to send rings and necklaces, he described his marriage as a quagmire, he also fought with me, kneeled.
She was shocked, every day the driver came out of the house, actually did so many things, Xiao San is still an Internet celebrity, the driver lives in another world, like a dog who does not know who he is, but so free.
- This is the pride of a little three.
The little three under the sky, at the moment of making the little three, are mostly proud and look down on the grandmother.
Because he has you, he still comes to me, indicating that I am better than you. In the battle between the two women, I won.
Of course, this is also the shallowness of the little three.
Because winning or losing is not in that moment, but in the final result. It is useless to be proud too early, and the days of crying are behind us.
Say it back.
Like most men who are caught in an affair, the driver initially stands in line with his lover.
Look at the style of his conversation with Muzimi.
Man seems to be this herd animal.
A person who does not want a face will feel very bad.
But two people don't want faces together, and they feel taken for granted.
I have to say that when I met Muzimei, a once-in-a-lifetime three, the driver's daughter-in-law was also very unlucky.
And the driver's performance in the face of his daughter-in-law is also the same as that of the cheating man in the world:
This passage, I think women should look at.
First, as soon as your husband cheats, you will put on yourself and feel that I was wrong, and you punished me like this. In fact, it has nothing to do with your dime. The truth is just that a person who wants to cheat happens to meet a person who cheats on him.
Second, if you don't want to divorce and act too cowardly, men will have no fear and desperately challenge your bottom line. "You are content, she does not want to marry me, you will not let me find her, in case I find another person who wants to marry me, don't you feel worse?" "Isn't this God's logic habitual?!"
On the other hand, Muzimi is also very arrogant.
This kind of three, is also to make people want to scold and forget words, right?
I heard that my daughter-in-law is now suffering from depression.
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The threesome came to this point and began to enter a state of anxiety.
The most common drama of extramarital affairs comes: a man, the wife desperately pulls home, the lover desperately drags out, the man does not want to divorce, and is not willing to go home, almost schizophrenic. The two women are also fighting openly and secretly, dead and alive.
Of course, experienced people will know that men will always come home eventually, sooner or later.
On the one hand, it is the wife and children's parents' family, and he can't do without it.
On the other hand, it is the lover who has been for a long time, and once the freshness passes, the true face is revealed, and there will always be a gap.
The daughter-in-law can't beat the Mandarin duck, time can be.
More importantly, after doing it for a long time, The little three will always be unwilling to get up. Strong as Muzimi is no exception.
She began to mind that the driver couldn't give her all the time:
She even wanted to have a baby with the driver. IVF.
The preliminary examination was done, and even the child's household registration problem was well thought out.
The driver was obsessed and wanted to cooperate. However, when the daughter-in-law learned of this, she resolutely refused to do it and made a more fierce fuss.
The driver saw that the fire in the backyard could not be controlled, instigated, and prepared to return to the family completely.
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If the story ends here, the ending is okay.
Consummation can't be talked about, at least not too bad.
However, Muzimi was not reconciled.
She seems to be a true love driver.
She can't let go of her feelings for 5 years.
Like the little three in the whole world, she began to work, began to make trouble, and began to change the law.
She was looking for her daughter-in-law on Weibo.
She rummaged through the driver's old accounts.
The most frightening thing is that she exposed the driver's photo, the taxi door number, the daughter-in-law's photo, the child's school...
The driver's family did not dare to go out.
At this point, the driver realized how toxic his lover was, and how much the cost of these five years of leisure was.
He is still like all cheating men, seeing things badly and wanting to get out of the way.
But it's no longer possible. Muzimi didn't want to let him go at all.
Mu Zimei constantly tweeted about her and the driver's story, posting photos of the driver - her habit is to save all the photos and chat records of the men she has interacted with. The ones from 20 years ago are still there, let alone 5 years.
Day after day, there is no sign of stopping.
The driver's feelings are unknown, but once a lawyer posted a child's letter of help, and the details are very similar to the driver's son:
In a family that is out of trouble, the most injured is always the child.
As soon as you sound greedy, the child is deeply mired.
Who did he provoke? He is unlucky enough to put on your dad.
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At this point, the driver and Muzimi completely collapsed. All old feelings are gone.
And Mu Zimei still refused to give up, and the driver was still a driver.
The driver couldn't bear it and decided to sue.
At the same time, he also opened a microblog and fought online.
Muzimi, on the other hand, was obviously chaotic and collapsed.
She sometimes confronts the driver:
Sometimes it's hard to help yourself:
Sometimes he looks at the shadow and pities himself:
Chinese sex pioneer Teacher Mu, in this way, fell into the clichéd extramarital love triangle and could not extricate himself.
She must have had a very, very bad time.
She can blatantly and righteously do three.
Innocents can be hurt with indifference.
You can blame all the fault on someone else.
But she can't face the man she has loved for 5 years to leave forever, and she completely turns her face and goes to court.
Unable to face her own defeat to a housewife in a small part of Hebei.
Unable to face the loneliness and desolation of the second half of life.
That's why she made a fuss.
But the more she made a fuss, the more thoroughly the man ran.
She once said:
I am a brave person in love, not seeking gold, not seeking the right door, not taking the usual road, not bearing ordinary results. Just by an intuition, wherever you go, it counts.
This may also be the voice of many little three.
But it turns out that women who don't ask for this and don't ask for that, whether they care about making three for love, don't have a good ending.
In fact, extramarital affairs, 9 of the 10 piles can not escape such a spell: the beginning is easy, the early stage is very happy, the wife begins to make trouble, the three people are chaotic and torn, the man returns home, and the small three are chaotic.
Married men's ideas are generally very simple, they can play with it any way, but they must save the family.
Once the fight starts, it may still struggle in the early stages, and finally it will be the wife.
As for the lover, love it. After all, I can't protect myself, and I can't take care of you.
Therefore, the little three who moved his heart was the most miserable.
Even Muzimei, such a fierce and open woman, ended up in pain and went crazy.
Look in the mirror, what are you better than her?
This is a lesson for women.
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And the lesson of men is to look at things in the long run.
The woman who stretched out her little hand to let you hold it, at first, was all little cute little fresh and beautiful.
But at the end of the game, you may become a cobra, sprinkle up and throw poison, you are not an opponent at all.
Women can give up everything for love. Can you?
Wife, children, reputation, status, money, which one you don't want?
Yes, people want to be happy, they all want to steal a moment of pleasure in a tired life.
But for ordinary people, that moment of joy is too expensive.
It's easy for you to steal food, but it hurts when you pay the bill.
Is it worth it to take the happiness and tranquility of the second half of your life and exchange it for these few days of happiness? Please think clearly.
Author / Author
Lee Moon. Popular columnist, neo-feminist, and down-to-earth writer. Grow up with reason and wisdom with thousands of women.