On March 16, Huang Jian, the husband of a well-known former gymnast and a paraplegic Sonland who was paraplegic for life due to injuries in training and competitions in the United States, wrote a very touching and admiring sentence:
"I can always see friends say: Sunland found me is a blessing in misfortune. Lao Huang said sincerely, I don't particularly like everyone to say this sentence, for me, my wife she is a very good person in my heart! ”
"Although she was injured in the United States and never won an Olympic title, her spirit and her perseverance are not something that ordinary people can have." For more than twenty years, I have watched her come step by step, suffering a lot and suffering a lot of sins."
"...'Life is a nail and a rivet', in fact, this is it, in this life, people find the right one for themselves is the best." As for the rest, according to my most clichéd phrase, it is 'play fading away'."
"A lot of people feel disabled, just dwarfs, poor ... In fact, this is caused by the low degree of social civilization."
"Therefore, some people will say: A man like me, looking for a wheelchair, is a plan. I want to say that people who can say such things are themselves very poor in quality and very dirty in their thinking, and I am afraid that there is no sunshine in the eyes of these people."
"Lao Huang is not rich and noble, eating and drinking in this life is not worried, the son is estimated to be impure, because I have a very light view of money and such things since I was a child, I began to toss in my twenties, and I also suffered a lot of losses." Man, almost on the line, the son is good, the wife is good, the family and everything is happy, the money cannot be earned, the officials and children will always be too small, only this life is these decades, saying that the long is not long, the short is not short."
"Some people now lack 'morality', virtue is not worthy of the position, but also to treat people with themselves, pure nonsense." Oh, Beijing says it well, who is good and who stays..."
"My wife is a true hero, no one in my heart can compare, but also the person who taught me the true meaning of life and made me understand it thoroughly... To the wife, the clothes must also be obeyed! If you don't obey, you have to obey! Holding, holding, and holding is also a lifetime! ”
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After reading Huang Jian's words, the author really felt moved, and looked up to him even more:
First, in this somewhat "special" relationship and marriage, Huang Jian is not at all like some people say, he is interested in Sunland's fame and fortune!
In fact, Huang Jian himself was originally Sunland's agent, he had his own business and career, his family was also very good, and his economic strength was very strong.
At the same time, Sunland himself did not have any money! It is true that Sunland received $10 million in compensation from insurance companies in the United States, but this is only the cost that Sunland can use for treatment, and this cost can only be reimbursed when treated in the United States, and cannot be used for other purposes!
The reason why Huang Jian can come together with Sanglan, now has a son, and has walked together for nearly 20 years, and the feelings have been so firm and deep, as Huang Jian said: Sunland in her heart, is a beautiful and brave goddess, she does not succumb to fate, but chokes the throat of fate, becoming a hero to look up to, so Huang Jian loves her so much and is willing to spend her life with her!
Therefore, Huang Jiancai said: It is not that people say that Sunland is "lucky in misfortune" when he meets himself, but that he himself has the privilege of three lifetimes to be able to cultivate with Sunland to "cross the same boat for a hundred years and sleep together for a thousand years"! To be able to meet Sunland is the great fortune of his life!
Second, some people always like to start from the "conspiracy theory" and use a dark psychology to speculate on the thoughts and spiritual worlds of others, but the more people who "live in the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain", the more it shows that Huang Jian's sentence is reasonable: "The quality is very poor, the thinking is dirty, and there is no sunshine in the heart."
In fact, if we like to darken people in our hearts, in fact, we will make our hearts more likely to lay shadows; and if we look at things from an optimistic, positive, positive, and sunny point of view, perhaps, this can make our own psychology equally bright and brilliant - more importantly, we are not others, how can we rely on our own ideas to speculate and define gender?
When we look at Sunland and Huang Jian over the years, in cold words and rumors, but they have traveled together through the wind and rain and lived happier and happier, we may know that the sunshine is always after the wind and rain - the sunshine should be the most beautiful color that occupies people's hearts! 【Original Review: Yu said that hugh】