At the turn of the millennium, Cai Qin was diagnosed with breast cancer, and she wrote a suicide note in grief, which was ten pages long, and distributed the inheritance. At the time, there was speculation about whether her illness was related to the failed marriage that lasted for a decade.
So what kind of anti-cancer process did she go through later? How is it going now?
Cai Qin
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="01" data-track="3" > Cai Qin's long anti-cancer road</h1>
In 2000, when everyone was immersed in the joy of the coming of the millennium, Cai Qin was not happy. The sorrows and joys of human beings are not the same, and Cai Qin only feels that they are noisy. At this time, she was going to the hospital with a nervous mood.
After going to the hospital for a check-up, the doctor told her, "You have a lump in your chest, whether it is breast cancer is not certain, if the conditions allow, it is best to stay in the hospital for observation." ”
In the face of the doctor's advice, Cai Qin nodded without changing his color, and seemed to be very calm. But as soon as she left the hospital gate, she couldn't hold on. Everything between heaven and earth seemed to become blurred, and only a blank space was left in front of him.
Cai Qin wept bitterly
She picked up her phone with a shudder, and her first instinct was to tell her sister the news, the person closest to her. But as soon as the phone was answered, she began to cry, and in addition to despair, there was a feeling of powerlessness in her heart.
After venting her emotions, she slowly regained her composure. After all, life has not only given her a blow, she has also had the ability to resist pressure.
sadness
After returning home, Cai Qin began to write a suicide note, she wiped her tears while writing, she still had too many things to do, too many words to say. Unconsciously, she wrote a full ten pages.
Cai Qin is a woman who loves life, and there are some nostalgia for the past, so many things have been reluctant to change. Over time, they became a part of her life, and these things were her treasures.
Since they are regarded as treasures and are about to die, it is natural to find a new owner for these "pets". So she planned to give the record to her brother, the stereo to her sister, and even a pair of small earrings to find another owner.
Such an approach can not only show that she loves life, but also shows her love for her relatives and friends around her, hoping that in the future they will see things like people and ease their feelings of missing themselves.
Cai Qin's family
It's just that Cai Qin didn't expect that fate had made a big joke with her.
A few days later, the test report came out, and she came to the hospital with her sister again with a nervous mood. The difference was that, compared to the last uneasiness, this time she was ready to accept the worst.
Cai Qin was young
But after entering the clinic, the doctor smiled and told her not to worry, because although she had a lump in her chest, it was a benign tumor. As soon as the words fell, Cai Qin hugged her sister and cheered, and shed tears of excitement.
But even benign tumors have the possibility of deterioration, so Cai Qin opened her long road to fight cancer.
Cai Qin has a long anti-cancer road
It is said that it is a long way to go slowly, but in fact, it only took four days from preparation to surgery. But these four days were the longest wait in her life. Of course, she has also maintained an optimistic attitude for the past four days, and she has cheered herself up when she has nothing to do. In order to maintain her strength, she should still eat and drink.
On the day of the operation, everything went very smoothly, and the tumor in Cai Qin's chest was successfully removed.
Having experienced the moment of life and death, she now has a feeling of the rest of her life. Only when she loses it will she cherish it, and she has finally realized the fragility and preciousness of life. Only by living in the moment will you leave no regrets.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="02" data-track="57" > Cai Qin's platonic marriage</h1>
When the news of Cai Qin's cancer came out, many people were speculating whether it was related to the previous emotional experience. Because this marriage is unforgettable for her, after ten years of time and love, she has obtained a green hat.
Cai Qin personally admitted that the marriage failed
Yang Dechang was her ex-husband, when Cai Qin was singing in the recording studio, Yang Dechang happened to be present and praised her singing, so he invited her to star in his own movie "Green Plum Bamboo Horse".
The two soon had a common topic, and after a while, Cai Qin found herself in love with Yang Dechang. Although this man has just started his career, he has a lot of ideas, so she expressed her love to the other party, and the other party also had a good feeling for her, and hesitated for a moment before agreeing.
Cai Qin and Yang Dechang
Soon they entered the palace of marriage, but Yang Dechang put forward a condition: he hoped that the marriage would be platonic, there should be no impurities, and it must be sacred. Because their careers are still on the rise, we must pay attention to our work. In short, two people can't have X life.
Platonic marriage between Cai Qin and Yang Dechang
This condition can be said to be very avant-garde, just at this time Cai Qin was blinded by love. In her heart, Yang Dechang's face seemed to have been added to the tenth level of beauty, and then filtered, and her personality was suddenly much more noble, so she agreed to this request.
After marriage, Cai Qin's career did not go to a higher level, but Yang Dechang's career, with her assistance, was flat. In this decade, all Yang Dechang's films will have the figure of Cai Qin. She usually handles housework, not to mention, in the treatment of Yang Dechang's work, it is more meticulous like a nanny.
Yang Dechang's career is in the sky
As the saying goes, when a man has money, he gets bad. Sure enough, after Yang Dechang's fame and fortune were both gained, various scandals began to spread.
And Cai Qin is also long-term enough, she has always chosen to believe in her lover and implement this route to the end. Until Yang Dechang personally told her that he had long been in love with someone else, he still had a happy relationship. The skyscraper she built for the marriage collapsed completely.
In fact, the so-called platonic marriage is just a pretense, Yang Dechang only has friendship with Cai Qin, and there is always no love. By the time they realized this, things had reached the point of no return.
At a discussion about Bach, Yang Dechang developed a fondness for the pianist Peng Jiaoli. The two, who like classical music at the same time, soon began an "underground romance". In this way, he lived a life of stabilizing his old love while coaxing new love.
Peng Jiaoli and Yang Dechang
Until Peng Jiaoli was pregnant, I don't know whether it was because the paper wrapping couldn't hold the fire, or the guilt that had been accumulated for Cai Qin, in short, Yang Dechang finally confessed to Cai Qin and was lenient.
After ending a ten-year marriage, Cai Qin pushed off all her work and was depressed for three years. Under the enlightenment of her friends, she stepped out of the shadow of being suppressed by fate and returned to the stage.
Cai Qin was depressed for three years
For this relationship, Yang Dechang's view is: "Ten years of marriage, a blank. But Cai Qin believes that she has paid a lot in the past ten years, and she has not gained nothing. After this, she also looked away and announced that she would not marry for the rest of her life.
On the other hand, after the divorce, Yang Dechang, without saying a word, went to get a marriage license with Peng Jiaoli, often holding hands in front of the media to show affection. After marriage, Peng Jiaoli also played a similar role to Cai Qin, she promoted Yang Dechang's career to a higher level, and her shadow was also in the other party's film.
Although Yang Dechang gave Cai Qin a green hat, she did not complain about the world, but instead complained with virtue and wished them happiness with a peaceful heart.
Soon after, Yang Dechang died of colon cancer in a foreign country, and Cai Qin cried after hearing the news. She blamed her ex-husband's misfortune on herself and blamed herself: I delayed him, and I should have let go of him earlier and returned his freedom.
Cai Qin's self-blame
A few years later, Cai Qin was diagnosed with breast cancer, and it is no wonder that some people doubt whether it is because of the tumor lesions caused by this emotional experience. But in fact, cancer is often caused by bad habits, genetics, or radioactive elements. Of course, long-term depression can also easily cause viral attacks.
Cai Qin was found to have breast cancer
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="03" data-track="69" > the current situation of Cai Qin</h1>
Nowadays, Cai Qin attaches more importance to her own physical health and has maintained regular living habits to this day. In terms of diet, there is less oil and less salt, and she insists on regular exercise, which makes her more than half a hundred years old still radiant, and her state on the stage is also a lot of spirit.
Cai Qin took to the stage
Although she said that she did not plan to get married, she still had enthusiasm and hope for love, and she was younger and younger she lived, and she was also keen on public welfare.
Cai Qin used her own personal experience to encourage patients who were tormented by cancer and lost confidence in life, and performed charity performances in many countries and regions around the world to bring songs to the wards.
Cai Qin is actively involved in public welfare
In addition to the charity performances, she also participated in many programs, and none of the concerts were left behind. After her comeback, Cai Qin has been refining her music skills. Unexpectedly, after recovering from cancer, she could still reach the small peak of her music career.
In 2020, she participated in the variety show "Sing So Beautiful" with the famous singer Tengger, and became a fire among the middle-aged and elderly groups. After all, many young people will feel very familiar when they hear her singing, but they just can't remember who sang it.
Cai Qin participated in variety shows
In fact, Cai Qin is also a cute and lively person in private, which is confirmed in the show. During the recording process, when the scene becomes a little awkward, or contradictory, she will skillfully deal with it. Solves the problem without embarrassing everyone.
A recent photo of Cai Qin
The back waves of the Yangtze River beat the front waves, and in the face of the "back waves" on the stage, she also carefully taught, while euphemistically criticizing, but also caring for their emotions everywhere, as soon as she opened her mouth, she had a feeling of spring breeze.
Cai Qin, who has experienced the moment of life and death, now has a feeling of the rest of her life. It is said that only when it is lost will it be cherished, and she has finally realized the fragility and preciousness of life. Only by living in the present, will there be no regrets, as long as you can live one more day, look at the scenery of this world, even if it is a kind of happiness.
When Cai Qin first debuted