Now the audience may not know much about Cai Qin, a hot Taiwanese singer in the 80s of the last century. The first golden songs "Just Like Your Tenderness", "Your Eyes", "Ferry" and so on, featuring mid-bass and bass are more known as audition discs. In the Infernal Affairs movie, Andy Lau and Tony Leung are her enthusiasts.
Cai Qin, born in 1957, is 66 years old this year, still active in the music scene, and will hold a concert in the mainland this year. At this age, he is still trying to really love music, and the singers of the same period have basically retired.
Maybe like Cai Qin himself said back then, he has no family to take care of, and he seems to have nothing else except music, so his career will be long, long. In the audience's impression, Cai Qin's image is the appearance of a middle-aged singer, with a very distinctive hairstyle and a long skirt.
Who has a young time, Cai Qin himself said that when he was a child, he often looked in the mirror to see why he was so ugly, Cai Qin has always been very mature when he first debuted, and he is as old as a teenager like he is in his thirties, and he has no confidence in himself, no matter who is young, he has been beautiful. The picture proves that the young Cai Qin is also beautiful.
In fact, Cai Qin also wanted to have a happy family, like ordinary people, husband and son, but God did not give her a right person.
In 1985, Cai Qin met the man who ruined her life, this person is Taiwanese literary film director Yang Dechang, the name Yang Dechang is famous in Taiwan's director's circle, even director Hou Xiaoxian was the male protagonist in Yang Dechang's movies at the beginning, and Ang Lee was not famous at that time.
In 1985, Cai Qin, as the heroine in Yang Dechang's movie, met Yang Dechang, who had been married once, and was completely fallen by this talented director. The two were 10 years apart, Cai Qin was already a well-known singer at that time, and Yang Dechang was just a director at the beginning of his career. Cai Qin ignored the opposition of his family and resolutely wanted to marry Yang Dechang, when Cai Qin's father asked Cai Qin: What will he take to support you after marriage? At this time, Cai Qin had no self at all, and said to his father: I can support myself.
The father saw that his daughter was so determined, and he also knew that Cai Qin's character at this time was not to listen to advice, so he had to reluctantly agree.
This marriage was wrong from the beginning, but women in love are stupid, Cai Qin originally thought that she was married to love, and she was dedicated to paving the way for her husband's career in order to help Yang Dechang movies, help him do publicity, and receive advertisements.
When Yang Dechang was making in the independent era of the film, because he was always unable to find the heroine styling design, Yang Dechang lost his temper after returning home, and Cai Qin at that time was also busy with his own record release, but for the sake of her husband's movie helplessness Cai Qin had to ask her stylist and costumer to design the movie heroine, and she did everything and did everything by herself.
When the two were married for four years, for the sake of the movie to do publicity on the show, the host asked Cai Qin why she still does not have children, Cai Qin said that she wanted to be a mother, but because her husband was very busy with work and career, he temporarily let it go.
Yang Dechang replied: Having a child is a very big responsibility, and he is not fully prepared.
In this way, a few years after the two got married, Yang Dechang actually proposed a platonic nominal marriage and wanted to try a different marriage relationship.
At this time, Cai Qin also agreed in order to keep her husband, always thinking that she could slowly influence her husband. But I didn't expect that not only did I not influence my husband, but I became more and more lonely.
When Cai Qin's father was about to become critically ill, her younger siblings called to say that her father's situation was very critical and came to the hospital quickly, Cai Qin very much hoped that Yang Dechang could accompany her to the hospital at this time out of her husband's responsibility, but in exchange for a cold eye, let herself go to the hospital alone in the middle of the night, even her friends around her could not stand it.
Cai Qin endured all this, but then Yang Dechang stopped going home and left Cai Qin at home alone. Later, Yang Dechang met Xinhuan, who was 18 years younger than him, and said to Cai Qin: I love her and I want to be with her.
Cai Qin, who heard these words, was heartache like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, the best ten years of his life, these ten years for her husband's career to give all her heart, for her husband Plato's love to endure a sexless marriage, and finally her husband turned around and had children with others.
I wanted to save the last bit of face for myself as a woman, but Yang Dechang was asked about his marriage with Cai Qin in an interview, and answered: Ten years of marriage, a blank.
All of a sudden, Cai Qin's last face and self-esteem were also torn off, and it was an insult to his wife's sexless life, but he had children with others.
In the end, Cai Qin also understood that there is no holy love, but it is just an excuse not to love yourself. After all, it was a mispayment.