Wen 丨 Liu Kexin
Just felt the autumn coolness, a "divorce variety show" "Goodbye Lover" entered the audience's sight. Unlike the heartbeat and sweetness in "Love Variety", "Goodbye Lover" shows the contradictions between three couples who have broken up or are about to break up in front of the audience. "Dare to analyze and dare to present, there is thought and truth." Although it is a reality show, it is the look and feel of a documentary. A comment from netizens wrote the reason why "Goodbye Lover" can have a good reputation and high attention.
"Goodbye Lover" is a marriage documentary observation reality show. Three couples facing emotional crisis, riding in two motorhomes, embarked on an 18-day trip. During the trip, they will face all the problems that arise in married life, whether to solve them, or to give up, whether it is "goodbye, see the lover" or "goodbye, lover", the audience will walk with the guests for 18 days to know the answer.
The three couples in the program: Zhang He and Guo Keyu, who have been married for 10 years and divorced for 1 year, Wei Wei and Tong Chenjie, who are considering divorce, and Wang Qiuyu and Zhu Yaqiong, who are in the cooling off period of divorce shortly after signing the divorce agreement, represent 3 different marriage stages.
Three couples
Zhang He and Guo Keyu are both actors, and because of the drama, two lovers who long for a family decided to get married after 1 month of falling in love. But after getting married, they found that each other's living habits were completely different. Zhang He's voice was loud, and Guo Keyu asked him to whisper, and the two quarreled over such a thing.
Guo Keyu hates quarrelling, but argues again and again over similar trivia. The marriage between the two lasted for 10 years, patience and expectation had long been consumed by the quarrel, and the couple finally realized that "what he likes is not like me, and what I like is not like him", and the two naturally choose to divorce.
Wei Wei and Tong Chenjie, another couple, showed a contradiction at the beginning of the show in the end whether they want children or not and Tong Chenjie's intolerance of her husband Wei Wei's alcoholic nature. But with the broadcast of the show, the childishness in Wei Wei's personality has gradually shown. Housework, whether to have children, no empathy, etc. are just manifestations of "childishness", but he is funny and humorous, which can bring happiness to Tong Chenjie. But can some momentary happiness really offset the fundamental contradictions in marriage?
The couple of Wang Qiuyu and Zhu Yaqiong made the audience even more heart-wrenching. Wang Qiuyu's incomprehensible style has reached the point of "iron heart", and Zhu Yaqiong is a girl who wants romance and a sense of ceremony. Girls who are eager to wear wedding dresses, but because their husbands feel "unnecessary", they can't even hold the wedding ceremony; they talk about their creation and singing with comfort, but they are told by their husbands that "changing the lyrics can be fired". People with diametrically opposite personalities, because of love, have come together, but there is no way to go on.
Because the old and new contradictions caused by personality, living habits, trivia, and emotions are vividly exposed in the show, "Goodbye Lover" is closer to life than the sweetness of love. Whether married or unmarried, whether it is the interaction between lovers or interpersonal interactions, each of us can see our own shadow from the process of these three couples.
"I think the biggest beneficiary of this variety show is the audience"; "The ending was written long before the start of the play, but I still couldn't help but sigh and cry again and again"; "From each guest, I saw a lot of my own shadow, tried to reflect and understand". Reflection or resonance, looking at the comments of netizens, you will understand why this variety show is so "on top".
As the saying goes, "bystanders are clear, authorities are confused." As an emotional observation program, it is natural to have the observation and analysis of the guests. In addition to Hu Yanbin, Li Weijia, Guo Caijie, and Sun Yi, the show also invited Huang Zhizhong, the king of the third season of "Strange Story" in 2016, whose debate style is defined as "Confucian emotion", Shen Yifei, associate professor of Fudan University, and Qian Zhe, a post-95 representative and actor. In the show, it is normal to be angry to throw things and happy to applaud, and Guo Caijie and Sun Yi have repeatedly shed tears on the scene, because of emotion and helplessness.
"Don't overestimate your tolerance for marriage without love", Guo Caijie responded to the marriage urging with a sentence by Professor Shen Yifei; "Love and separation are not contradictory", making Hu Yanbin and Li Weijia cry; "I want to express love, not I want to receive your response", Sun Yi said of his own view of feelings, but also let other guests get inspired.
Studio guests
If the three couples are personally demonstrating the contradictions in life, then the effective output of the guests in the studio is also an indispensable highlight of "Goodbye Lover". Changing the "hip-hop" style in the studio in the past, some guests immersed themselves in chasing variety shows, and some guests kept the calm of onlookers. The theory of the academic guests, coupled with the "empathy speeches" of other guests, the "golden sentences" sent by the guests from the scene make the program more reasonable and compatible.
Although the old-fashioned emotional card was played, the variety show "Goodbye Lover" still made the audience of the "Hundred Views" variety show shine.
"Chasing variety shows for a long time without real feelings", "the only variety show in the past few years to watch one episode of the whole process", although the program has only been broadcast for 5 episodes, netizens have already given such a high evaluation.
It is not surprising that the refreshing "divorce variety show" breaks through the siege of "sweet love", but the dare to discuss and dare to present in "Goodbye Lover" is where the depth of this show lies. Although "Goodbye Lover" revolves around the way couples get along, it brings us to think about more than marriage and love. The discussion we initiated while watching this show, the seemingly superficial communication problems that inspire deeper thinking about life, is the important thing that touches the audience's heart.
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