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Ten years ago, two people met because of a play, less than a month to flash marriage, is it really only a hormonal impulse without love?
Ten years later, two people divorced decently, when divorced, they couldn't say a word, they didn't even dare to hug, and they kept comforting themselves and saying, "Maybe we don't have love, we got married too quickly, we got married for the sake of getting married", as if the past ten years were separated at the end, and everything could only be explained by "no love", but do you really have no love?
Zhang He is very similar to Guo Keyu, they are both so gamblers, I really hope that Zhang He can be a little more atmospheric, not so small. In fact, in the past ten years of marriage between the two of them, to be honest, Zhang He's problem is even greater, as long as he has more patience, more listening, and more temperature, presumably Guo Keyu will not divorce him, nor will he use "no love" to deceive himself.
Remember the original Zhang He Guo Keyu? At that time, they had just come to the show, and they all had a wall for each other. Both people are particularly hard-mouthed, Guo Keyu said that there seems to be no love between us, Zhang He also said that we all feel very lonely in this marriage, we don't understand each other, my world he can't come in, his world I don't want to go. In fact, we can clearly feel that they care about each other, that is, they use the wrong way of love.
Zhang He hoped that Guo Keyu would express love to him, Guo Keyu expressed that it was not what he wanted, and gradually Guo Keyu did not want to express, tired, tired, and then Zhang He also felt that his marriage in the past ten years had no love, especially grievances. The two of them are in love and killing each other, and the two people have a particularly heavy self-esteem, and they refuse to let go of their faces. Fortunately, in the end, Zhang He put it down, and I hope that he really put it down and really understood Guo Keyu.
Zhang He is already a man in his forties, it is time to mature and grow up, marriage is not always you want you to want, you also have to give, a woman to take care of children to take care of the family Where is so much time to warm you? If she keeps igniting you, then she will burn out in the end.
Guo Keyu is really good, don't say that she is pretentious and green tea, if you have been married and have children yourself, you will understand what kind of woman Guo Keyu is, and you will not be so harsh on her.
Zhang He has always cared, including his coming to "Goodbye Lover", the most direct purpose is to know whether Guo Keyu has ever loved him, and he wants this answer. But the question is, Guo Keyu said that he did not regret the past ten years, said that he was touched by you, is this love you can not feel?
To be honest, Zhang He is sometimes really upright, but in the end he grew up and found the answer he wanted.
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I never thought that I would be broken by this middle-aged divorced couple, the scene where the two of them finally decided was that no idol drama could be filmed, that kind of entanglement, that kind of twisting, that contradiction, that kind of complexity, all kinds of emotions, the two people interpreted very well, so it was more real. I prefer to believe that they are real, because the emotions of the small details are not something that can be performed by acting, they are parties, experienced, and will have that feeling.
"Goodbye Lover" has no script in the end, maybe there is, but Zhang He and Guo Keyu's last paragraph is more like a sense of truth, rather than acting.
The program group is also very considerate, after 18 days of travel, did not ask them whether they want to remarry, whether they want to fall in love, but asked whether they have moved each other's hearts, as long as they are moved, they get off.
Zhang He's decision to get out of the car shows that he had covered up himself before, and he told Guo Keyu during the "Ultimate Thirty-Six Questions" that he had never had the idea of remarriage, and must have lied. Zhang He said at the time that he did not want to remarry as a kind of revenge for Guo Keyu's joke that he was not attractive. Zhang He just has a stinky problem, loves to remember revenge, be careful with his eyes, and like to cut words.
I don't know if you have noticed some details:
The two of them have been thinking about the problem for a long time, not like other guests who get the problem and turn to the hourglass. They thought about it for a long time, and Zhang He quickly got out of the car, saying that he had two scenes flashing in his mind at that time, that is, he and Guo Keyu were riding electric motorcycles and bicycles. At that time, Guo Keyu said that he was moved, Zhang He said no, Zhang He was still entangled in whether Guo Keyu loved him or not, originally the two of them were quite sweet, but that night they talked quite deeply, and hurt each other very deeply.
Obviously, Zhang He said that he was not lying, because in the end, he thought of those two scenes and quickly got out of the car.
In fact, what is wrong with men taking the initiative a little more, love is love, why compete with a woman, you have to follow your own heart, moving is moving. Zhang He stood for a while after getting off the bus, and then he resolutely closed the car door, and the action of closing the door was to close his own back road, without giving himself the opportunity to hesitate.
And after he got out of the car first, when he was waiting, that time period was also very painful.
Guo Keyu in the car was also very tormented, because she had said that she was touched by Zhang He before, but Zhang He was not happy at that time, and when she asked Zhang He whether he had the idea of remarriage when she asked Zhang He in the "Ultimate Thirty-Six Questions", Zhang He did not let her hesitate. She was very entangled, and she felt that she should not give Zhang He hope. Her emotions are very complicated, it is not a pretense, but a true feeling, has been hesitating, but when the car drove away, Guo Keyu suddenly broke the defense, she said that she was pricked by a needle at the time, how can not help it, crying, emotions came up at once.
That's not acting, that feeling can't be acted out.
I don't know if you have found the beauty of Guo Ke, her face has the feeling of a movie face, very textured.
Guo Ke almost cried and said, "Master, you stop." ”
Then she opened the car door nervously, she didn't know if Zhang He had gotten out of the car, but she wanted to go down to see, she wanted to see if Zhang He was interested in herself.
When she saw Zhang He, she covered herself with laughter, it was happy, she cried and laughed, just like a young girl.
The details cannot be deceived.
There is also Zhang He, who has been asking very straight men, "How did you get off the bus", why did you get off, because I love you stupid boy, because I am touched by you.
That day was actually quite cold, Guo Keyu has been a little bit of a feeling of being frozen, in fact, she is overwhelmed, Zhang He looked at her and then undressed her, at this time, Guo Keyu's hand card was blown away by the wind, Guo Keyu wanted to chase the hand card, Zhang He said "No, don't chase." Guo Keyu looked at him, Zhang He put on her clothes, and at that moment Guo Keyu went directly to hug Zhang He regardless of his body.
Isn't that love?
If this is not love, what is love?
That action broke my guard.
Zhang He took the initiative to get off the car to put down his heart wall, and Guo Keyu took the initiative to hug him to explain how much he loved him with actions.
"I'm just joking sometimes, just joking, I don't know what to say, I can't say anything."
After Zhang He heard it, he finally said three words: I know.
The subtext is, you don't have to say anything, I understand.
When the two of them hugged tightly, Guo Keyu kept walking forward, Zhang He stepped back, they hugged for a long time, walked a long way, and separated for a long time.
Guo Keyu threw himself into Zhang He's arms and cried, the three words zhang He said were deeply loved, please don't miss it again.
Is there really no love in their marriage? It's not that there is no love, it's just that love is gone in the past together.
Zhang He loves Guo Keyu very much, and Guo Keyu also loves him very much, so if the two people who love him deeply miss it, it is really a pity. I have always told many couples that you have to learn to express love in marriage, but how many marriages in real life are like Zhang He Guo Keyu, love walks and dies, and then they feel that there is no love, no love, but how is it possible?
Zhang He said, go home, go home and invite your son to dinner.
They are all a family of three.
There is also Guo Keyu's "kissing and hugging and holding high", which should also be naturally revealed. Zhang He likes girls to lie to him, talk more about love and love him to coax him, but Guo Keyu is not that kind of person, she does not like to cater to men. But because of Zhang He she lied, she didn't look like herself anymore, the occasional petite, and the two of them were so sweet.
03
What is the marriage of Zhanghe Guo Keyu: Guo Keyu originally had a good career, but because she was pregnant and gave birth to a child, she later gave up her career to take a baby at home, and at that time she probably spent most of her time and energy on the child. She needs Zhang He's understanding and support, but Zhang He feels that she has someone to help, and there should be no difficulty, for example, Zhang He said, "You don't need to make rice, what do you arrange", it is obvious that Zhang He does not understand Guo Keyu. In Zhang He's view, Guo Keyu's taking care of children at home is pampered, but Guo Keyu said that he was trying to be a virtuous wife, but unfortunately this virtuous wife Zhang He did not see it, so she did not want to be.
Guo Keyu is a very detailed woman, but Zhang He is the kind of person who needs people's emotional expressions very much, he does not show it himself, and he needs Guo Keyu to ignite him. Guo Keyu was tired and tired and unwilling, so he chose to divorce after a serious illness.
They both misunderstand each other, causing the two to drift apart and be lonely in their marriage.
I sincerely hope that the two of them can be well, do not have to rush to remarry, and have a good relationship that belongs to middle-aged people.
I hope that Guo Keyu will not be so sensible, say his grievances and difficulties, don't bear everything by himself, the fragility is fragile, let the man help you carry it; I hope that Zhang He will be more patient, don't be impatient, listen to Guo Keyu's voice more, and don't doubt whether she loves you or not. More support Guo Keyu to work to act to do herself, so Guo Keyu is the real her, how charming.
Love well, in our lifetime, it is not easy to meet a person who is interested in each other, you have been married, after these 18 days of travel, I hope you can really love well, don't miss it.
Whether they will be together or not, it doesn't matter, what matters is that they are relieved of their past marriages.
Today's topic: Do you think Zhang He and Guo Keyu will remarry? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.