Tomorrow is the golden wedding anniversary of Qiao Hao and Tang Guomei. Love, if you want to be undefeated, affection, must be deeply planted. The golden marriage of "The Voice of China" is an old-fashioned "parental love".
The words are beautiful, but in the end they are not as great as the reality. Tomorrow is the golden wedding anniversary of Qiao Hao and Tang Guomei. He was a teenager at the time, and now he is white.1 How firm, no matter how proud and disagreeable, always snuggled; and what kind of persistence, let life and death be wide, never let go. The golden marriage of "The Voice of China" is an old-fashioned "parental love". The woman hiding behind her husband said: "It's just 50 years of ordinary Chinese couples." "This is probably not the love and affection that young people are familiar with, but it may make us think and feel something."
Gold, dazzling, dignified, precious and reliable. But don't doubt it, even if it can be done around the fingers softly, affectionately, than jinjian.
1. When nameless, the completion of seven circles of small fat pigs
When it is really unsure, it goes deep. Guo Mei is 22 years old, Qiao Hao is 27 years old, she has just joined the Shanghai Film Orchestra, he is still in the Shanghai Film Studio, and the two go to a meeting together. His bike scraped dirty with her newly made wool pants. One apologized hard, one waved his hand again and again, and the two of them knew each other. Instead of an electric flint, Qiao Hao only felt, "This little girl has a good temper." The two have mutual friends, and after joining their respective squads, they also meet on various occasions from time to time. For Qiao Hazel, the big brother, Guo Mei is a little unconvinced, "The program they rehearse, we can all act, but as soon as we get on the instrument, they can't do it." In those days, it was sometimes necessary to "break" others to protect themselves. Tang Guomei was unwilling to do such a thing, and she suffered bitterly. She fell into the situation of "everyone shouting and beating". Qiao Hazel went to the orchestra to visit friends and met Tang Guomei, who was depressed. He did not avoid it, but took the initiative to enlighten, talk about life, and talk about the future. "At this time, someone can talk to me like this, and I think this gay man is really good." This good gay man is actually "like-minded" with Tang Guomei. Yang Zaibao, who was elected as a deputy to the National People's Congress, suddenly became a problematic figure. As a good friend, Qiao Hao knows him well and is reluctant to say a bad word about him in public.
Later, the number of chats increased, and the content of the chat became more and more extensive, and the hearts of the two young people were close to each other. Guo Mei lives in Pudong, crosses the Huangpu River, and walks home for only 500 steps. However, the last few tens of meters on the ship could not take a step. Often, blowing the river breeze, sitting on the cotton bale on the dock, the whistle is low and low, the two are tireless, not tired, suddenly see, the east has been whitened. "I don't know how we can have endless words, but then I think about it, this is probably a kind of agreement, and everyone's thinking is highly compatible." Guo Mei's tutors are strict and never take advantage. Whenever I eat out, there is always a back and forth between the guests. Qiao Hazel's salary is higher, and he invites Guo mei to eat small cage steamed buns. "My salary is less, so I'll ask my eldest brother to eat small ravioli." The hairy-footed son-in-law came to the door, and in addition to the fruit and the big meat dumplings wrapped in his own home, Qiao Hazel also brought a handicraft. GuoMei's father died early, and he placed this ceramic field snail ornament with flowers in front of the statue and bowed respectfully three times. After Qiao Hazel left, her mother dragged Guo Mei into the box, and she was happy for her daughter, "Oh, your vision is really good, where to find such a good man." If you can marry him, you must treat him well. ”
Speaking of which, in addition to the two people's hearts and minds, the families of both sides are happy, and the marriage between Qiao Hazel and Guo Mei depends on the completion of seven circles of small fat pigs. Qiao Hazel has a heart for the girl, and after moving the idea of a hundred years of good union, he found the big brother Yang Zaibao. "I said to him, big brother, you go and help me get the checks." At that time, Tang Guomei was working in the cadre school. She and other female colleagues each raised seven hoops of piglets. Yang Zaibao went for a trip and came back and patted Qiao Hazel's shoulder, "Qiao Er, just her, a good girl to live a life." Qiao Hao recalled: "Brother Yang said that Guomei and her colleagues raised pigs together, but the situation of pigs was obviously different. The pigs raised by the national sister are fat, strong and lively, and the pigsty is also cleaned refreshingly. Other pigs are listless and scruffy. This girl, good! "Girl, it's really good. Qiao Hazel's father, a mechanical engineer who participated in the preparation of the Wujing Chemical Plant and the Takahashi Chemical Plant, was injured in the line of duty and fell into a semi-coma. The daughter-in-law who has not passed through the door takes the initiative to go to the hospital to take care of her future father-in-law. Dirty work, no complaints. Qiao Hazel looked in her eyes and was very moved, "I love her because of her simplicity, because of her transparency." ”
2. When highlighting a few bags of courtship letters tested
It must be a special fate that can become a family along the way. Qiao Hao and Guo Mei got married after 2 years in love. On that day, Guomei also performed in the afternoon, and after the end, she carried an instrument and pedaled her bicycle to the wedding scene, the Deda Western Cuisine Club, and set up four long tables. The two young men wearing "dual-purpose shirts" will forever be united.
What happened later, people of some ages know. Qiao Hao was selected to participate in the dubbing work of the translation and production. "I didn't know what dubbing was, I just felt that it was closer to what I had learned, and I was already very happy." He studied characters and pondered emotional tones. Every classic character has been "matched" by him. "I was completely fascinated, I was them, they were me." His voice is always combined with some handsome and upright characters, but he is not limited to fixed genres, and even controls comedic characters with ease. "Soul Broken Blue Bridge", "Yesenia", "Spartacus", "The Story of Injiro", "The Dream of the Covered Bridge"... Qiao Hazel and his voice have pushed open a different window for the Chinese people through one movie after another.
Joe hazel blushed. How red is it? Transferred from the Shanghai Film Studio to the Translation Studio, in his early 40s, Qiao Hazel became the director of the factory. The girls' courtship letters, bag after bag. Some fans went directly to the factory to find Qiao Hazel, and Mao Sui introduced himself that he also had dubbing talent. Qiao Hao replied: "Even if you are really talented, you need formal assessment and necessary processes. The girl was helpless and made a final request: "Teacher Qiao, can you give me a hug?" Qiao Hazel did not understand the style, and the girl went out and cried. What does Mrs. Joe think about this? Tang Guomei said lightly, "To tell you the truth, if I were jealous, we wouldn't be able to maintain today." Trust is just as important as understanding in married life. Tang Guomei is also making progress, and she has become the principal of the Shanghai Film Orchestra. Everyone thinks that this pair, men are strong and women are weak. Actually, not really. Tang Guomei is a really interesting woman. Guarding marriage and defending love, she summed it up in the vernacular: "Husband and wife must communicate, if I am not happy today, I will say it, and I must solve it on the same day." "She's not good at drinking, but she's a lot of alcohol. Once, Tang Guomei had to undergo a small operation. Lying on the operating table, the anesthesiologist asked her how much she had drunk. "I don't know why he asked like this, but I always have to be polite and say it's not good." Who knows that the doctor's regular dose is down, and the patient's side has no reaction at all, "The doctor said, you get it, why are you so polite?" As a result, after adding a number of doses, I passed out..." After being visited, Mr. and Mrs. Qiao Hao had moved into the senior care community. There was a half-remaining bottle of red wine on the table, and Joe Hazelnu said, "She drank it, and read the newspaper and have a drink at night." "Totally "rich", difficult. It's not without rumors, it's not that there are no swings, but the ending is safe, with the responsibility of a man and the wisdom of a woman.
3. When in danger, the eight ghost doors are closed
Outside, Qiao Hazel is a master of sound carving and an artist who speaks Chinese for foreigners. At home, Qiao Hazel is the top pillar. Top beams and columns, poured down. In fact, compared with the story of the couple Qinser and Ming, people know more about Qiao Hazel's nine deaths. At the age of 45, Qiao Hazel was diagnosed with urinary tract cancer. "I was blindfolded at once, but I quickly reacted and must not show negative emotions in front of my big brother." In all these years, I have never shed a tear in front of my big brother. After the operation, the familiar doctor held out five fingers to Guo Mei: "Five years." "I thought the doctor meant that big brother had five years to go, and he was still so young. "Tears can only flow secretly. Back at home, Guomei cried well under the covers, but later found that the doctor meant five years as a barrier. Since then, she has put down her beloved instrument and taken care of her husband wholeheartedly. But, this is only the beginning of the catastrophe. After 13 years, the same site of cancer recurred. In 2001, there was extensive bone metastasis. In 2009, he had myocardial infarction and cerebral infarction, colon cancer in 2015, small intestine metastasis in 2017... Qiao Hazel hovered at the ghost gate, again and again. "It was Guomei who pulled me back, without her, there would be no life for me." Qiao Hazel stared at his wife next to him, raised his hand to touch her hair, but finally it hung down again, "But you look at her, I have worked for me for half a lifetime, this white hair..." The voice was choked. The old wife interrupted, "What do you say, big brother, when you are old, your hair will always be white." "Tang Guomei doesn't like to complain. She won't tell you that after the stroke, Qiao Hazel went to Hangzhou for rehabilitation, and every day she trained to soak five or six clothes. Because she did not trust the nurse, she took care of all the care work. Not only was every piece of clothing washed, but ironed flat, even the handkerchiefs were structured; she wouldn't tell you that in all these years she hadn't slept before twelve o'clock all night, to work for Joe Hazel's body, to prepare for Joe Hazel's work; she wouldn't tell you that the doctor had once ordered her to rest, only because she was too tired and her physical condition had lit up red. She didn't even agree with the saying that "the top pillar fell", "The big brother is here, this home is there, and my heart is solid." The top beams and pillars have always been there. In the face of people's admiration, Tang Guomei did not think so: "I am a traditionally educated Chinese woman, this is what I should do, not to mention, he is also worth my doing." Until now, Qiao Hazel has performed, and his wife has always followed, tuning his microphone and cleaning up the instrument for him, "I want to make my husband decent." "Qiao Hazel is implicit, in the face of outsiders, his gratitude, his appreciation, are only expressed with restraint." Once we went out to dinner, not long after we sat down, someone ran to Guo Mei and said, 'You must have been old and beautiful when you were young, and your temperament is so good now.' No matter how old you are, the compliments your partner gets will be a little pride for each other.
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A few years ago, on the stage of CCTV's "Readers", Qiao Hao and his wife recited the Hungarian poet Petofi's poem "I Wish to Be a Rapids" - I want to be a rapids, a small river in the mountains, passing on rough roads and rocks, as long as my lover is a small fish, swimming happily in my waves... This is clearly their love poem. 50 years, he is her husband, she is his wife, there will be wind and rain when there is a bright sun, there will be sorrow when there is romance, this is the truth of life, this is also the truth of home. (Text: Hua Xinyi Photo: Wang Kai)