Recently, some media have made an unexpected discovery when filming the video of Sun Qian getting off the camera.
Sun Qian, known as the "Thousand Song Yi" in the northeast, wears a handsome black short suit with gold buttons on the upper body of the airport, and the lower body is paired with smart jeans, and his hair is naturally tied up.
Simple and stylish, it resembles the sister next door in the crowd.
Out of the airport, Sun Qian kept on the phone, like he was looking for someone.
After finding the target, she ran quickly and ran into the arms of a handsome man.
The two people hugged each other tightly, and Sun Qian touched the man's head.
The two people looked at each other for a moment, and the man touched Sun Qian's hair dotingly, and then the two people hugged each other tightly again.
After watching the video, everyone's first reaction is that Sun Qian is now in the limelight and actually dares to expose the relationship during the rising period of his career.
She played the TV series such as "I'm Fine In Other Places" and "I'll Wait for You in the Future".
Sun Qianjie's new play "Ode to Joy 3" has just started.
For small flowers in the ascending period, gossip will affect the future development.
This can't help but make us wonder, what kind of man can make her love in full swing?
A closer look at the man's coat found that this coat was particularly familiar, exactly the same as the coat print pattern of the male star Thale of Sun Qianpai Douyin a few days ago.
Although the man is not public now, according to some detailed traces, everyone has tacitly agreed that the man who is in love with Sun Qian is Tyre.
Many people may not be familiar with the name Taylor, but they must be very familiar with his other name.
That is "I am very good in other places" and Xu Yan, played by Sun Qian, is the official partner in the play--- Shen Zichang.
This pair of unsatisfactory screen CPs, although there is no perfect ending in the play.
However, the interaction between the two people in private poking and poking has been noticed by the fans of the heart, and the two people have been in close contact for nearly half a year.
Thale will silently praise Sun Qian's acting very good Weibo, and Sun Qian will also secretly poke and poke at the silly "Lele" around him in the Weibo short article to make him very happy.
Many fans saw Sun Qian in love for the first time, saying that they had a feeling of heartache and hated their idols for not being able to concentrate on their careers.
But after learning that the man was Shen Zichang, the CP of "Other Towns", the painting style changed to "Lock me up!" ”
Maybe with another person, fans will not bless Sun Qian's love so quickly.
But who made her and Tyre really love so bitterly in the play!
01
Falling in love doesn't necessarily mean being together
Xu Yan in "Other Lands" started out as a little girl who was a kind of demon, vain, childish, flirtatious, and the princess was very seriously ill.
But after growing up, Xu Yan learned to give up being a "princess" in order to build a home of his own.
This role has resonated with many female audiences, and everyone has realized it after a while and feels that they have seen the shadow of their own growth.
That naïve little girl, truly exposing herself to this society.
Although it is pretentious, it is because it is not yet able to disguise their own ideas, and they can say whatever they want.
Talking about love with his heart and lungs, he is full of curiosity and longing for the world.
Everyone has that childish stage, telling the people around them the most straightforward desire in their hearts.
"I want that, give me that."
When we can confidently say this need to the people around us, it is not only because the person around us can give us the greatest protection and safety, but also because we are full of expectations for this person.
This person may be a relative or a lover.
And slowly in the constant encounter and rejection of the wall we will find that not everything I want, I can get.
If you put your expectations on others, some wishes may not be fulfilled.
The man next to us is not superhuman, and we have learned to grow in disappointment and loneliness.
Unfortunately, the lovers who were initially infatuated with love were not able to accompany us all the time.
Although both people love very hard, they both hope that the other can achieve the wish they want to fulfill.
But as I faced more practical problems, I found that the returns that two people can give and want are not the same.
For the sake of their respective ideals, everyone is separated at the intersection of life, and we begin to learn to face the difficulties in life alone.
The most surprising thing is that we love each other so much, but we can't continue.
02
Loving each other too much has become a reason to break up
Just like the breakup of Xu Yan and Shen Zichang, it is not that they are not in love, but that they have grown up and want to go their own way.
When I was a student, my views on love may have been too one-sided.
I will feel that I like you, and you like me enough.
Separated from the identity of students, they always have to face more realistic and heavier problems such as income and house.
Shen Zichang clearly knew that Xu Yan wanted a home of his own.
But just by virtue of the salary of an ordinary primary school physical education teacher, it is difficult to afford.
If you want to keep Xu Yan, two people are desperately working hard in Beijing, and it is difficult to earn money for a house.
Later in life, both people will only be exhausted by trivial things.
Only by letting Xu Yan go can xu Yan find the "ideal life" in her heart.
He took the initiative to say that he broke up, not because he didn't love anymore, but because he was too considerate of the other party.
Xu Yan and Shen Zichang's love affair has always been vigorous and noisy.
Their love is passionate and carries a lot of tests at the same time, and almost every quarrel xu yan hopes to make Shen Zichang agree with his opinion by talking about breaking up.
Love makes both people full of passion, but every problem that cannot be discussed will make two people lose control of their emotions.
Shen Zichang was caught between his beloved girlfriend and the biological mother who raised him, and he was tormented by intense torment repeatedly.
In the process of continuous reflection, the lover finally grew up, trying to understand what problems they could compromise and what problems they could not compromise.
While love gives a person intense pleasure, it can also bring intense pain.
If two people continue together and cannot live the life they want, it may be that separation is the way out for two people.
03
To learn mature love, you always have to see money
Many people feel that love is a man's obedience to himself, sweet words, helping himself achieve his wishes and creating small surprises from time to time.
And the married man found that the man who had been sweet talking was more and more occupied by other things.
There are many problems in life, and he has more ideas to deal with on his own.
The man's parents have changed from being amiable to demanding, and the two families will continue to have contradictions due to different concepts and views.
The surprise was gone, replaced by the shock of the different ways of dealing with the problem.
It becomes difficult for the other person to agree with their wishes, and they have to constantly offer opinions to change their original self.
Life becomes a game of who is more able to persuade each other.
When in love, it seems that no matter what happens to two people, as long as a hug, they feel that they are the richest people.
And after getting married, you will find that if two people do not create value for marriage, they will become the extra one in the family.
At this time, it will be more clearly recognized that if two people who love each other want to enter the marriage at the same time and manage it well, they can no longer simply look at a problem, but learn to solve a series of problems.
From giving each other courage to unlocking the joys and troubles of marriage together, the moment these steps are completed, both talents have mature love.
Honest men are not necessarily rich, rich men are not necessarily single-minded, single-minded men are not necessarily capable, capable men are not necessarily willing to accompany you, and those who are willing to accompany you are not necessarily truly in love with you.
There is no perfect lover in the world, and only after going through the ordeal together and running into each other will there be the person who is most suitable for themselves.
Author | Yu Bing graduated from Beijing Normal University majoring in finance, has been engaged in the financial industry, and then transferred to the media industry for 3 years, a domestic and foreign film and television analysis researcher, good at thinking about life from watching dramas, as well as exploring realistic emotional values from the current situation of women's existence at home and abroad, deeply inspiring many women to marry and self-improvement.