(i)
I know you can't accept that fact, but it's time to say goodbye.
The best goodbye is not to see the last person, not to listen to the last words, but to say goodbye. Isn't that how life is? Leaving suddenly, leaving nothing behind, leaving enigmatically, perhaps nothing wrong with that. There will always be some regrets in life, which will make future generations remember it.
At 22:05 on September 16, 2016, actor and singer Qiao Renliang died unexpectedly in Shanghai at the age of 28.
Hearing this news, the network exposed depression, SM excessive death..... Now that everyone is gone, there is no use in saying anything, may the deceased rest in peace. After preliminary forensic identification, the possibility of other killings has been ruled out, and the specific cause of death is under further investigation. Qiao Renliang's memorial service will be held at 9:00 a.m. on September 22 at Shanghai Longhua Funeral Home, where 520,000 Qiao Renliang's fans gathered.
(ii)
The company issued a statement: Qiao Renliang was seriously injured by false rumors about SM and suffered from depression.
Sm (sexual abuse: short for sadomasochism) is by no means a sexually abusive relationship, but also a master-slave relationship.
Some netizens also pointed out that Qiao Renliang had previously expressed his enjoyment of the role of M, perhaps because this sentence made his glass heart bear too much, and he should not bear things at this age.
What did the ghost know what he had been through? Only to let him choose to take this path?
At the beginning of the unacceptable, to the incident of "Joe" accidental death slowly faded, at this moment worthy of attention to a group of people with depression, about 15% of depressed patients died of suicide, depression has become the second largest disease in China's disease burden.
Depression is called an emotional cold, and it goes back and forth. Many, many depressed people cannot be understood, and in the eyes of bystanders, they are moaning and making a fuss without illness. Perhaps, many patients are initially reluctant to accept this "bizarre" diagnosis, but it is undeniable that it requires everyone to actively face and accept the fact of the disease, and actively restore a healthy psychological state through the treatment of drugs and psychologists. The best way to treat depression is to give patients more security and listen to their inner voices, after all, we can't empathize. What depressed people need is not comfort and persuasion, but attention and companionship.
Everyone has a "dwarf" in their heart, and it can also be sad, sad, negative, withdrawn, and even slow thinking. It is precisely because of this that our growth path will become stronger and deserve to be treated gently.
(iii)
Fumiko is a depressed person who has suffered from schizophrenia in recent years because of work and life reasons. Without work, without motivation, even memory is visibly diminished. Fumiko also had the idea of taking her own life, hanged herself but was saved. She said that living in the world feels like a burden, can't do anything, and life has no meaning at all. The burden and clutter of thoughts always causes insomnia and dreams, and never allows her to sleep peacefully. A woman in her 40s has lived to be seventy or eighty years old - haggard, which makes people feel sad when they see it.
When her heart is uncomfortable, Fumiko will shout uncontrollably, sing on the roof, you can feel her inner grief in the song, you don't know what she is thinking, she can't express the pain in her heart.
At first, the people around her didn't pay much attention to Wenzi's condition, thinking that Wenzi had to toss it once and then, let her toss it! Slowly she tossed enough, the mood improved, and everything would be fine. However, no one pays attention to the cause of "depression", which is not only about the mood, but also the control of a disease. Wenzi is sick, and without psychological and drug treatment, it will be impossible to heal automatically for a while and a half.
Fortunately, In the face of depression, Fumiko persisted until now and did not give up. Because she is a mother of two children, children are her greatest spiritual sustenance.
Once, I can't think through, when a person has no hope for life, why would he choose to live lightly, and once he left, he really would no longer have troubles? We can't empathize.
People with depression need more love and pampering from those around them to help them get rid of the effects of low mood faster.
As the saying goes: the person who is good at controlling emotions is a wise person, who can hold the throat of fate and reverse the direction of things; the person who is good at adjusting his mentality is a strong person, who can infuse the hope of new life and actively embrace a better future.
(iv)
Either way, please take care of a person's final decency.
Whatever life has brought you, don't end your life so easily. The glimmer of hope that remains must still be faced and embraced by the good life.
Don't let those obstacles that can't be overcome cover your eyes and extinguish your hope of survival.
The best relief is not to say goodbye to people who are sad, but to use their willpower to fight against the demon king of life, not to give up, to live.