In "Qiao Family Compound", Qiao Zhiyong originally had Jiang Xueying, a cousin of Qingmei Bamboo Horse, but because the Qiao family's business failed, he urgently needed capital turnover, and had to become related to Lu Yuhan, who admired him.
It is said that only the new people laugh and hear the old people cry. Lu Yuhan is a good wife, for Qiao Zhiyong, almost all the silver her father has earned in his life has been used in the Qiao family, and the Qiao family and Qiao Zhiyong are grateful to her. Two people are also very sweet. In contrast, Jiang Xueying's suffering was much more tragic, marrying a dying person, and remaining widowed for most of his life, not even having a biological child.
But I have to say that what you can't get is always the best, and in the depths of Qiao Zhiyong's heart, Jiang Xueying is still his favorite.
If it wasn't for Sun Maocai, they chased after him, Qiao Zhiyong estimated that he would have eloped with Jiang Xueying, of course, the responsibility for the family, maybe he would still come back halfway, but putting the family's sense of responsibility above his love was originally the choice of many people. Men who give up their families for love are more worrying.
When Lu Yuhan asked Qiao Zhiyong who he would save if she and Jiang Xueying fell into the water together, Qiao Zhiyong did not answer. While it's a boring question, make sure to ask a man who he'll save when I fall into the water with your mom, and one hundred percent of men will say save mom. Boring questions also have a useful effect on boring. If Lu Yuhan asked him about him and another strange woman, I believe that Qiao Zhiyong would not hesitate to say that of course it was to save you. It can be seen that in Qiao Zhiyong's heart, even if Lu Yuhan is already his daughter-in-law, his satisfactory daughter-in-law, and the people of his Qiao family, he is still inferior to his first love.
When Lu Yuhan asked Qiao Zhiyong not to think about Jiang Xueying, he could only think of her, and he could only think of her every day in the future, Qiao Zhiyong did not answer positively, or Lu Yuhan justified himself and said, "How can I let you do something difficult, don't embarrass you" As a daughter-in-law, Lu Yuhan is qualified, but in the depths of Qiao Zhiyong's heart, there may be love for Lu Yuhan, but more is gratitude.
Why did Qiao Zhiyong always look for the person who saved him when he walked out of the prison, because in the dark, he believed that that person might be Jiang Xueying, just like when Xueying went to see him, Xueying did not show up, and he could feel it. Many people will feel that if it were not for Jiang Xueying, Qiao Zhiyong would not have been in prison. But is that the case? According to the situation that the Qiao family was getting better every day at that time, the Qing government was corrupt and incompetent, and in order to protect itself and betray the country and seek glory, it was sooner or later that Qiao Zhiyong's fat meat was targeted. Jiang Xueying's denunciation only advanced his encounter some days ago. Wu Jiang's accusations pointed out that what was waiting for Qiao was not to buy his life with silver, but to be directly replaced, and his life was not guaranteed.
Qiao Zhiyong has been looking for the person who helped him, in addition to wanting to thank people in person, more vaguely knowing who it is, he just wants to prove his idea. I want to reduce my inner debt. Because he married someone else, Jiang Xueying gambled to marry a person with tuberculosis, and was widowed at a young age. And because of his big sacrifice, her last hopes were shattered, and her second half was miserable, not even a biological son of her own. He was afraid that she would live forever in hatred and not let go of himself. If it can be proved that she saved him, although it does not mean that she has forgiven him, it at least shows that she has given up, no longer hates him, no longer tortures herself.
In fact, Qiao Zhiyong did not want to like his wife, after all, his wife was gentle and beautiful, and wholeheartedly for him. But he had guilt for Xueying in his heart, and this debt made him feel that his violation of the oath between them was unforgivable, and if he didn't leave his love to her and fall in love with other women, it would be even more. Especially later, Xueying was not happy, and Qiao Zhiyong naturally felt that everything was caused by him (indeed he caused it).
The guilt in his heart made him not have the courage to love other women. Of course, Lu Yuhan was worthy of his love, and Jiang Xueying was even more worthy of his love. Lu Yuhan has the love of his father, the gratitude of the sister-in-law of the Qiao family, and the respect of all the subordinates of the Qiao family, and although Qiao Zhiyong does not love her, he also gives her all the respect that a husband can give. It makes sense that she behaves well. What's more, she was wishful thinking to marry Qiao Zhiyong, originally thinking of using her mother's financial resources to help Qiao Zhiyong and make Qiao Zhiyong fall in love with her.
But Jiang Xueying, she gambled to marry a dying person, life did not give her a miracle, and soon became widowed, because in the end she wanted to elope with Qiao Zhiyong, and she did not get what she wanted. The psychology is somewhat distorted, robbing Qiao Zhiyong's business and sending Qiao Zhiyong to prison. But it is also forgivable for people who have been so hurt to commit some extreme behavior.
Who will accompany her at the stall where the wound is slowly healing, and soothe her wounded heart? Chinese New Year's Eve only eat by herself, the child is not her own, if it is not Old Master Chen who looks up to her, gives her the great family property, and gives her ideas, she has long been driven away by the Chen family, just like her father, even if she remarries, what good family can she marry. It was she herself who stepped out of the desperate situation step by step, thinking through and understanding. To save Qiao Zhiyong from prison, she sent out most of her family business to help Qiao Zhiyong get rid of the riots of the victims, and she disregarded her own stability and caused trouble.
It can be said that in this "love triangle", Lu Yuhan loves humblely, whether she did not know it before, or later knew that her husband had a first love, she always wanted to use her mother's silver to save the Qiao family in the water and fire, so that the Qiao family and Qiao Zhiyong would appreciate her, and then fall in love with her. I remember that she said that she must make Qiao Zhiyong willingly help her to bring the bracelet, but in the end she still took it to Qiao Zhiyong herself and forced him to help put it on.
Compared with Lu Yuhan, Jiang Xueying loves to hate frankly, whether it is love or hate, it is vigorous. Although they did not stay with Qiao Zhiyong, they also accompanied each other mentally. Along the way, he came strongly, soothed the wounded heart, and forgave everyone. Especially in the end, I can calmly say to Qiao Zhiyong, "I'll come and see my cousin."
As for Qiao Zhiyong, on the surface, he seems to have enjoyed the good of the two women. But for the two women, he also did give the love of husband and wife to his wife, and the love of men and women to his first love. In particular, the last kneel expressed his debt to Jiang Xueying in this life, saying that the boy had gold under his knees, kneeling to the heavens and kneeling to the ground, kneeling to his parents. But he also kneels to those who are kind to himself, and those who love deeply but owe it. It shows that the person he loves most in this life is still Jiang Xueying.
Lu Yuhan and Jiang Xueying, which do you think Qiao Zhiyong loves the most?