"If you tell my parents, I'll jump from the stairs!"
When Qiao Renliang found out that he was suffering from depression, the psychologist said that he would inform his parents and let his family accompany him for treatment, but Qiao Renliang said this sentence as if he was desperate.
But fate is playing tricks on people like this, and Qiao Renliang finally left this world in the most decisive way.
In 2016, when the words "Qiao Renliang took his life" circulated on the Internet, everyone was in disbelief for the first time, until it was confirmed, all fans cried until they couldn't help themselves.
And the most painful person is his parents who "send black-haired people to black-haired people".
Now, it has been more than six years since Qiao Renliang's death, and his parents have finally come out of the haze of losing their son, but the "keyboard warriors" who accused Qiao Renliang back then have jumped out again, as if even his parents will be "destroyed".
Qiao Renliang was born in 1987, and his family of three lives very happily.
Because he is an only son and his mother is a full-time housewife, Qiao Renliang has always been very favored, but he is not pampered and arrogant, but a very well-behaved child.
In junior high school, he was also an excellent national high jumper.
In 2005, at the suggestion of a friend, he participated in a talent show, originally with the intention of playing, but directly won the championship.
Two years later, he participated in "Come on Good Boy", officially entered the entertainment industry with extremely high popularity, and was also known as the "Four Young Men of the City" with three other people.
When he first came out, Qiao Renliang gained a lot of popularity, making him very confident in the future star path, but the good times did not last long, and as soon as the popularity of the draft period passed, he was like being beaten into a "cold palace" and did not work for a long time.
Everyone else in "Four Young People" has become actors, and Qiao Renliang also plans to change careers, but what he never imagined was that it was because of this decision that led him to make that painful decision in 2016.
In 2009, Qiao Renliang finally received his first movie - "Nightclub", but he was only one of many supporting roles at that time, and he did not make too much splash.
For the next three years, he remained tepid until the director of "No Other" approached him and invited him to play a psychologically twisted role.
But he is a sunny and cheerful person, and it is a very big challenge to play this kind of role that is very different from his own personality, so when he first started filming, he couldn't find a feeling.
Because of the delay, he went to consult the director, and in order to relieve his pressure, the director asked him to relax and grasp the essence as much as possible.
Before leaving, he joked with him: "It's really not good, just slap yourself a few times in the middle of the night, maybe you can find the feeling of 'perverted'." ”
It's just that the director didn't expect that his joke was actually taken seriously by me Qiao Renliang, he really began to fan himself in the mirror after returning home, and for more than one day, he did it for many days in a row.
Sometimes the face is pumped red, and the makeup artist needs to cover it up well.
It is undeniable that Qiao Renliang really fully interpreted the role of this "little tailor" with this, but some extreme methods still stimulated his psychology.
At the end of the movie, everyone withdrew from the plot, only Qiao Renliang, as if bringing the character to reality, was depressed all day, regardless of his care, and in order to ease his mood, he planned to find the former "Four Young Men of the City" to gather.
At that time, he had the best friendship with Li Yifeng of the fourth young man, but after many years, because of their lack of contact, their relationship had already quietly changed their taste.
And Li Yifeng's fame is already much greater than Qiao Renliang, so that later, when Qiao Renliang mentioned Li Yifeng, he said a little helplessly, "Brother Feng is very expensive now." ”
This remark not only hinted at the difference in status between the two, but also implied that they would never return to their former brotherhood.
Losing the only brother in the entertainment industry, coupled with the fact that his reputation is not as big as others, it is inevitable that he will not be angry, so Qiao Renliang's mood is getting more and more low.
At the same time, when he said that Li Yifeng was expensive now, many fans also said that he was "sour" and "can't see others well", and then attacked his career that has not made much achievements.
The psychological gap, as well as the gossip of netizens, further destroyed Qiao Renliang's strong heart, maybe he himself did not notice it, but depression has long found him.
However, fate suddenly began to favor him, and his career ushered in rapid development after that, whether it was film and television dramas, or released songs, he made good results, and the concert venue was full.
In 2011, he also cooperated with Chen Qiaoen in "Spring Splendid Pig Nine Sisters", and while further becoming popular, he also gained Chen Qiaoen, a confidant of the opposite sex.
But in order to make a name for himself in his career, Qiao Renliang worked hard every day until he couldn't sleep well, and often dragged his tired body to forcibly participate in various work.
The huge work pressure once overwhelmed him, but he still had to hold on, and he couldn't sleep on sleeping pills.
In 2014, Qiao Renliang's depression was already very serious, and there were great problems both physically and emotionally, which led many people in the industry to publicly accuse him of "inappropriate behavior".
Director Yang Wenjun and Che Jingxing respectively posted Weibo "accusations" of Qiao Renliang's disrespect for work.
Yang Wenjun said that when he was filming, he often ignored the agreed time, and every time he was late, which caused the entire crew to be dissatisfied.
The car track was similar to Yang Wenjun several times, but Yang Wenjun once threatened to join forces with people in the industry to block Qiao Renliang.
In addition, there is also Weibo that Qiao Renliang is too "pretending", and strongly accused him of poor acting skills, even third-rate actors are better than him, and there is no box office guarantee at all.
After the incident, Qiao Renliang, who was humble and remorseful, took the initiative to apologize and try to calm the turmoil, but the outside world did not buy it, but because he admitted his unethical behavior, he was even more miserable.
But at that time, Qiao Renliang suffered from depression every day, so after seeing the negative comments on the Internet, the depression in his heart was deeper, and he often had some bad thoughts, including "suicide".
Suffering from depression, his heart has become very humble, and his first thought after receiving criticism is to think of changing himself to meet everyone's requirements for him.
In addition, in order to hide his vulnerability, every time he participates in the show, he is strong to support his body and try to show people as a sunshine boy.
But when he got home, he was always alone in the corner, very lonely.
However, he also rarely revealed his psychological state at the moment in an interview: "I don't have nothing, I'm still sick." ”
How desperate is a person about his life to say such a thing? It can be seen that Qiao Renliang's heart has long been filled with loneliness, and he has long lost hope and enthusiasm for the world.
On September 16, 2016, before Qiao Renliang's 29th birthday, he finally ended his short and brilliant life by "suicide" at home alone under the continuous torture of depression.
The day before he died, Qiao Renliang also sat down with his parents for dinner, and his parents did not feel different, perhaps at that moment Qiao Renliang also felt the only beauty in life, and did not choose to go to the end.
But at the end of the story, he left us.
What is heart-wrenning is that although Qiao Renliang left, public opinion did not want him to go quietly, and immediately someone speculated maliciously: "He did not kill himself, but he killed." ”
There were even people who said: "Qiao Renliang's arm is gone." ”
The rumors are becoming more and more popular, and even Wang Sicong has been implicated, but from beginning to end, these are only transmitted on the Internet, and there has never been direct evidence.
In addition, some bad netizens published Qiao Renliang's "posthumous photos" on the Internet, and used this to threaten the second elder of the Qiao family that if he did not give 20 million, he would hang forever.
People are indifferent, even if people have died, they will not let go.
Now, Qiao Renliang has passed away for more than six years, and the old couple, who were once grief-stricken because of the death of their son, are actually like their son, and they have been sent to the forefront again by "those people".
Qiao's father and mother opened a video account by themselves, often sharing their daily life on it, and there is a lot of content about making food, and the result is such a normal content, but it is shouted by "those people" as "people who eat their son's blood steamed buns".
These "vicious" words, like a sharp sword inserted in the hearts of the old couple, have been forcibly suppressed by them in the deep pain of their hearts, and then they have been revealed again.
Fortunately, the old couple did not want to ruin their lives because of these "nonsense", so they continued to live steadily, continued to post videos, and interacted with kind netizens.
But once a video of Qiao's father knocking on meat, it was actually said that he was wasting ingredients.
But Qiao's father did not let the meat fall on the ground from beginning to end, just pounded on the panel, without any wasteful action at all, this netizen's statement is really some "rumor-mongering" ingredients.
In addition, the appearance of the old couple has also become a point of criticism.
Qiao's father's mouth is a little crooked, so some people say that he is ugly, and Qiao's mother was once called an "old demon woman" by netizens because her head was too big.
Some people said that Qiao's mother's eyes looked scary, and it was very bad at first glance, and even attributed Qiao Renliang's death to his parents, saying that it was "so ugly that he killed his son."
More and more evil words poured into the comment area of the two old men, and what was even more frightening was that there were actually many people who echoed them.
In fact, the appearance of Qiao's father and Qiao's mother is not born like this.
When Qiao's father was young, he suffered a serious injury, and later underwent surgery because he touched a nerve, which left a "crooked mouth" problem, but it was only a change in appearance, and speaking did not affect.
As for Qiao's mother, it was because she had a pituitary tumor, which left sequelae after treatment.
But even if the old couple patiently explained the reason for their appearance, "those people" still did not intend to let them go, and now when you click on their comments, you can still see a lot of malicious words.
For Qiao's father and mother, they posted videos to show their life moments, just to reassure their sons that they knew that their parents were doing well, which was a self-consolation for them to endure the pain of losing their son.
What was originally simple and beautiful has become the "malice" in the mouths of "those people".
After Qiao Renliang died, there were all kinds of rumors on the Internet, and now "those people" have begun to attack his parents, which is too unfair to this kind family.
The four words "online violence" have become a sharp weapon in the Internet world to "kill without blood", and too many artists have been seriously injured because of these four words.
But those who started the problem never examined their "evil deeds", they only blamed anyone because of their momentary thoughts or self-thought "justice".
However, in recent years, online regulation has become more and more mature, greatly reducing the possibility of "online rumor".
But the supervision of professional departments alone is far from solving the problem, only they can see the essence of human nature, let kindness replace evil thoughts, and replace hot-headed accusations with comfort and intimate greetings.
Only in this way will the society be beautiful, can we return Qiao's father and Qiao's mother a peace, and can persuade the next "Qiao Renliang" back.