We all say that school is equivalent to a "small society", where children need to learn not only cultural knowledge, but also how to socialize. For children, socialization in school can not be smooth sailing, different children have different personalities and different ways of getting along, carelessly, there will be conflicts between children, but how parents deal with children after conflicts is also a very important topic.
Recently, a grandmother Zheng in Hanzhong, Shaanxi Province, made a wrong example for everyone when dealing with her granddaughter's social problems.
Hearing her granddaughter's complaints about the tense relationship with her classmates, Grandma Zheng broke into her granddaughter's middle school with a loudspeaker and then scolded the teacher for 20 minutes with a loudspeaker.
After scolding, did this Grandma Zheng help her granddaughter solve the problem? Of course not, not only not, but she herself was also administratively detained for 5 days for violating relevant regulations for her radical behavior.
In the comment area, netizens have different opinions on this matter, some people think that this grandmother dotes on her granddaughter too much, so that she feels that her granddaughter has been wronged a little, and she has to find a way to get the field back. In fact, this kind of doting practice does not have any positive help for the granddaughter, but makes the granddaughter more embarrassed in front of the teacher and classmates. If there is only some small friction between classmates, parents can let their children deal with it by themselves, even if the process may encounter some grievances, but children always need to gradually grow from "grievances", "setbacks" and "disadvantages".
However, some netizens said that if the granddaughter was bullied by her classmates at school, and the teacher chose to turn a blind eye and do nothing, then the grandmother took a loudspeaker to shout and shout.
Of course, because it is not clear to what extent the relationship between Grandma Zheng's granddaughter and her classmates was tense in this incident, and it is not known what happened between classmates due to the tension, it is difficult to judge Grandma Zheng's original intention of doing this. However, even if the grandmother wants to protect her granddaughter, she should first communicate with the teacher when she encounters this kind of thing, understand the ins and outs and ask the teacher to cooperate with the handling of it, instead of adopting this extreme way.
You must know that every child is the heart of parents, and some parents just can't see their children suffer a little grievance, and there have been parents who run to the school to fight because they are dissatisfied with their children's seats, and scratch the teacher's face.
Of course, parents have also been punished accordingly for such extreme behavior, and it is conceivable that this kind of radical behavior that seems to "protect children" will not have a positive impact on children in the end.
The normal growth process of every child should include how to deal with conflicts between classmates, and the situation that may not be taken seriously by teachers and classmates in the class. In this case, parents should communicate more with teachers and children, and seek solutions that are more conducive to children's growth through discussion.
Everyone understands that parents "love their children", but in any case, parents should uphold a principle: now, what parents do should have a positive guiding effect on solving problems and children's growth.
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