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"Mom, the dumplings are out of the pot, try our new dumplings, they're delicious." The woman placed a plate of hot dumplings on the table with anticipation, waiting for her mother to come and taste them.
The woman happily made enough dumplings with the whole family to eat, but her mother didn't eat the dumplings they had just cooked.
The mother hid in the corner, as if someone else was bullying her, and ate the boiled noodles alone, saying, "Don't have enough to eat, I'll just eat this." ”
The mother's behavior immediately annoyed the woman, but there are too many parents in China who are so unhappy.
The "boiled noodles" incident
On May 8, 2024, a blogger named "Internet Celebrity Xiaohorn Sauce" posted a video that sparked heated discussions on the Internet, about a young woman who encountered an incident in which her mother ruined her life on National Day.
The reason for the incident was that the woman's parents were usually very frugal, and she herself had already gone out to work, so she wanted to take advantage of the National Day holiday to "improve the family's food." ”
When the holiday began, the woman returned home in high spirits, and the family sat around the kitchen, laughter and chatter filled the room, and the whole family made dumplings together.
However, when the dumplings were cooked and ready to be eaten, my mother insisted on not eating the freshly wrapped dumplings, but only took some dumpling wrappers and boiled them to prepare them for her own lunch.
(Women's Bao Menko screen)
When the woman saw it, she was puzzled and said, "Mom, I specially prepared enough dumpling filling for the whole family to eat today, you can eat it together in a while, why do you want to cook the dumpling skin and eat it?" ”
The mother hurriedly said, "No, no, I'll just eat this, you can eat, don't not eat enough." ”
Seeing that her mother insisted on not eating dumplings, the woman was a little angry: "But Mom, these are all things we work hard to make together, and you don't eat them makes me feel very uncomfortable, and our family can't afford to eat dumplings." ”
However, her mother still ignored her emotions and demands: "I'm good like this, you can eat as long as you are full, don't worry about me, I don't like to eat dumplings." ”
The woman immediately felt very frustrated and angry: "You do this, it feels like we are abusing you." I rushed home to make dumplings for everyone, you obviously love dumplings but insist on not eating them, you really make people feel very disappointed. ”
(女煮饺子母亲却不吃)
The woman's behavior left the woman extremely confused and frustrated, and she felt that her mother was silently expressing her mother's feelings that her mother did not respect her for the family's sacrifices and the fruits of her labor.
However, there are more than 200 dumplings in the house, which is enough for the whole family to eat, but my mother insists on not eating them, and she has to spoil everyone's fun, which is really suffocating.
This incident, after being released by a blogger with the online name "Internet celebrity Xiaohorn Sauce", immediately caused heated discussions on the Internet. However, in real life, many parents are like this woman's mother who does things that disappoint their children.
Other examples of parental disappointment
On May 14, 2023, in Dongyang City, Jinhua, Zhejiang, a junior high school student bought a bag of flowers for his mother as a surprise gift on Mother's Day.
However, his mother did not appreciate the gift, believing that the money spent by her son was not practical and a waste of money, so she criticized him without understanding his son's original intentions, causing him to feel aggrieved and cry.
The mother then filmed a video of her son crying and uploaded it to social media, which sparked widespread discussion and criticism among netizens.
This junior high school boy sent flowers to his mother on Mother's Day in order to thank his mother for her hard work, but the mother didn't see the child's love for her, but only saw the man wasting money, so many netizens felt angry.
However, like this junior high school boy, there is also a 14-year-old girl who feels that her parents are also "down".
(A blog post posted by this mother in Zhejiang)
On August 11, 2023, in Jiangxi, a 14-year-old girl carefully prepared a lunch of three dishes and one soup and placed fruits to welcome her mother from work.
However, when the mother returned home, instead of expressing surprise or emotion, she blamed her daughter for cooking too many meals and wasting food.
After this incident sparked criticism from netizens, the mother not only did not repent, but instead insulted her daughter even more.
In these two examples, the parents are very disrespectful to their children and always criticize the children's way of doing things, which not only discourages and suppresses the children's interest in doing things, but also makes the children feel inferior.
These two incidents have aroused strong dissatisfaction among netizens, and at the same time, the "boiled dough incident" has also sparked everyone's discussion.
Netizens' comments on the "boiled noodles" incident
The incident of preparing dumplings for her mother on Women's National Day, but her mother only ate "boiled noodles", triggered heated discussions among netizens, and the specific discussion content is as follows:
Many netizens expressed their incomprehension and criticism of their mother's behavior: "The older generation of people have no hardship, and they have to create pain if they don't have pain." This mother, so sweeping her daughter's interest, her emotional intelligence is really low. ”
Another netizen agreed with the above netizen's point of view, "My mother is, disheartening and hypocritical, disgusting, probably because she wants others to feel guilty about her, or wants to be moved by herself, anyway, I am now very rebellious by her."
So, this woman's mother is really like my mother, really annoying. ”
(Netizens' comments on the "boiled noodles" incident)
Some netizens also expressed sympathy for the woman: "This woman has a really good temper, but it's also pitiful." I can't stand my family like this, if it were me, I would just overturn the table and never give her any more delicious food in the future. ”
Some netizens also expressed concern about family communication issues: "Why do mothers choose to show indifference in warm family moments? Are there deeper communication issues? Is the mother doing this to get the attention of her family? ”
In general, netizens' comments on this incident reflect their disapproval of the mother's approach and their sympathy for the woman.
I hope that some families in China can get along with their children in a more humane and empathetic way, and if they don't want their children to be estranged from themselves, they won't become unhappy parents.
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On Mother's Day, my son bought flowers to send a surprise, my mother didn't think it was practical and wanted to return it, my son was aggrieved and cried, netizens: It's too disappointing Jimu News
The 14-year-old daughter made a table of dishes but was tragically counted by her mother, netizens: It's not the child who is wrong The surging news