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"Dad, can you try your favorite wine and see if it tastes good?" A man raised his glass to his father, who was dying on the bed, and brought it to his father's mouth.
Generally, when a family member is seriously ill, the family member will follow the doctor's advice and pay close attention to the patient's diet and daily life.
However, the man did not listen to the doctor, and even said seemingly irresponsible words such as "Drinking is my father's wish, so I want him to drink".
However, surprisingly, netizens agreed with the man's behavior, why is this?
The son smoked and drank alcohol for his father despite the doctor's instructions
On April 1, Henan Radio and Television Minsheng Channel's "Elephant Live Room" released a video in which a man was feeding his father with cerebral infarction, which attracted the attention of netizens as soon as it was released.
It turned out that the man in the video was Mr. Feng, whose father had suffered from cerebral infarction for more than 10 years. Unexpectedly, some time ago, his father suddenly felt unwell, and Mr. Feng immediately took his father to the hospital for examination.
The doctor told Mr. Feng, "Your father is in the last stage of his life, and considering that your father's physical health is not very good, it is recommended not to give him smoking and drinking, let alone meat, because his body cannot afford these things." ”
When Mr. Feng learned about it, he burst into tears. However, in the face of his father, who has been bedridden for more than 10 years and is about to reach the end of his life, Mr. Feng decided not to follow the doctor's advice this time.
(Mr. Feng feeds his father with cerebral infarction and drinks)
In order to reduce the harm of his illness and live longer, Mr. Feng and his family have always followed the doctor's advice and not allowed him to eat anything irritating.
For Mr. Feng's father, who was sick in bed and couldn't move every day, and wanted to relieve his boredom by drinking a little wine and smoking a cigarette, such a decision made him very uncomfortable every day, and his eyes gradually lost their luster.
Now that Father Feng's life is dying, Mr. Feng has changed his mind, believing that it is most important for him to enjoy the things he loves when his life is coming to an end.
So, the scene at the beginning of the video happened, Mr. Feng sat on the edge of the bed and gave his father wine: "Dad, come, eat some cooked food, come and take a drink." ”
As soon as the son's wine reached Feng's father's mouth, Feng's father quickly drank all the wine, and then Mr. Feng smoked his father and ate braised pork.
(Picture of Mr. Feng feeding his father smoking)
Moreover, in an interview with the reporter of "Elephant Live Room", Mr. Feng also mentioned another reason for his own doing.
"My dad and I haven't drunk together since he got sick, it's been more than a decade. Now I want to fulfill my father's common wish to have a drink with my father and take pictures of it to make good memories of being with him. ”
After Mr. Feng's matter was posted on the Internet, it attracted onlookers from netizens. In fact, there are many examples of Mr. Feng doing this in real life.
Other examples:
On October 22, 2019, an 87-year-old man from Hangzhou, Lao Du, left this world with advanced liver cancer, but he left no regrets.
Two years ago, after learning that her father was terminally ill, Lao Du's daughter Huihui initially tried to persuade Lao Du to accept the doctor's advice for treatment.
However, Lao Du resolutely refused this request and chose to live on his own terms, and in the end Huihui also respected his decision.
Therefore, even if he is sick, Lao Du often plays mahjong with his friends in the park, and goes to his favorite snack bar alone to enjoy beef vermicelli, cherishing and enjoying the beauty of the last moments of his life.
At the last moment of his life, Lao Du said the words "I don't regret not receiving treatment, thank you daughter".
Like Lao Du, there is also a man in Shandong who does not listen to the doctor's advice.
(Lao Du's condition worsened at the last moment of his life, and the doctor examined him)
On April 17, 2022, a man from Heze City, Shandong Province, made the difficult decision not to undergo treatment after discovering that he had terminal cancer.
Her wife strongly disagreed with his decision, but after the man said that he did not want children to study because he spent too much money on medical treatment, he agreed to his decision.
Later, his wife accompanied her husband on a trip to Tibet at the end of his life, fulfilling his life's wish, instead of leaving the last moments of his life in the endless treatment and desperate pain of the hospital.
After netizens learned about it, they expressed their admiration for the families of the two patients, and in addition, Mr. Feng's disobedience to the doctor's advice also sparked discussions among netizens.
Netizens' comments on the incident of his son ignoring the doctor's advice
Regarding the incident of Mr. Feng ignoring the doctor's advice and feeding his father who had a cerebral infarction and was at the end of his life to drink and smoke, netizens' evaluations showed obvious differences.
Those who support Mr. Feng's actions say, "I understand him very well, and Mr. Feng will make the old man happier by letting him enjoy the things he likes in the last stage of his father's life." ”
Some supporters also emphasized, "Life is short for decades, why do you have to listen to the doctor's words all the time, Father Feng has been living such a torturous life for more than ten years."
The son can follow his heart and let him enjoy it, which is also a respect for his own right to control his own life. ”
(Netizens commented on the incident of his son smoking and drinking alcohol for his father despite the doctor's advice)
Those who oppose Mr. Feng's actions consider the matter from the perspective of health, social responsibility and earning traffic.
"It is irresponsible to feed my seriously ill father alcohol and smoke despite the doctor's advice. Mr. Feng's actions may have aggravated his father's condition and added unnecessary physical pain to his father. ”
"Even at the end of life, consideration should be given to the long-term consequences of actions and the impact on others. Public violations of doctor's orders may set an unreasonable example for other families, and who is responsible for what happens?
"He shoots this kind of video on the Internet to win traffic, and it looks really good."
Some neutral views are that "society needs to treat seriously ill patients with respect and hope that the state will develop more humane medical and nursing policies." ”
Overall, Mr. Feng's actions have sparked widespread discussion in society and touched people's thinking about profound topics such as life, death, family responsibilities and personal autonomy.
The opinions shared by netizens are very reasonable, it is difficult to make a conclusion on this matter, and I still hope that everyone can look at this matter rationally.
Resources
Henan Radio and Television Minsheng Channel "Elephant Live Room" Elephant Live Room
Hangzhou Lao Du refused surgery in the advanced stage of liver cancer! In the last days, I don't have chemotherapy, play mahjong, and eat Xinfeng snacks...... Hangzhou Net