01
When I saw my husband take over his parents for the elderly, my whole person was not good.
Our wedding house was bought by my parents, they paid for the down payment, the decoration money, and even the furniture and appliances. The in-laws only had one mouth.
Before marriage, my husband promised that he would not easily take his parents to support him without my permission. Even if it comes, it will be two parents who come together, and they will be treated equally.
I believed in my husband's assurance, but in the name of filial piety, he took his own initiative to take his parents to support the elderly, and named me to take care of three meals a day.
02
My husband and I were not in the right household, if it weren't for my husband stalking me, sending flowers, gifts and warmth, I wouldn't have easily agreed to be his girlfriend.
My husband's obedience to me greatly satisfied my vanity, so under the pressure of my parents' opposition, I insisted on entering the palace of marriage with my husband.
And when I started talking about marriage, I really understood what my parents said: marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families. A marriage that is not in the right place will eventually harm oneself and one's parents.
When my parents saw that I was stubborn and afraid that I would break it apart by force, I would hate them, so I had to agree to the marriage. However, my parents relented, but what my in-laws did still disappointed my parents.
03
The mother-in-law first cried poor, and then gave alms and took out a bride price of 20,000 yuan. Originally, we discussed that our parents would each pay half of the down payment and write the names of the two people, but my in-laws were stunned that they didn't pay a penny, so I let my parents out.
My mother-in-law married back to me, the only daughter-in-law, without much effort, and naturally she couldn't stop laughing, but my parents were full of worry and couldn't laugh.
Fortunately, after marriage, my husband was as good to me as ever. Only when it comes to the matter of parents, two people will have differences and contradictions, but they are often handled lightly and never really conflicted.
When I was pregnant and gave birth, my mother-in-law promised to take care of the confinement child. But when I was confined, my mother-in-law shouted that it hurt this and that; I have finished my confinement, and my mother-in-law still complains that it hurts this and that.
04
I can only count on my own parents, instead of my mother-in-law. Fortunately, my parents were very helpful, although they were dissatisfied with the negligence of my mother-in-law's family, but they still took it all and didn't let me half a snack.
My parents helped me raise my children, and I wanted to stay at home for a long time, but my husband often gave my parents a face. The parents were unwilling to be disliked by their son-in-law, so they offered to go back to their home.
As soon as my parents left, my husband discussed with me that he wanted to take his parents to live there. I refused at the time, the children are already old and can take care of themselves, and I don't need my in-laws to pick my parents' ready-made peaches.
As a result, my opposition did not make my husband give up the idea. didn't tell me, so he took his parents to care for the elderly, and said that he wanted to put his parents under his nose and do his filial piety.
05
Looking at my in-laws' luggage and looking at my husband who was a villain, I was furious in my heart. It's a prelude.
But my husband also named me to take care of his parents' three meals a day, saying that his parents don't know how to use the electrical appliances at home, and that his parents don't know the way to the vegetable market and the supermarket.
My in-laws didn't look at my face, so they settled the room for themselves, and chose the room I was going to provide for my parents.
I discussed with them to move to another room, but they were told back: Your parents have their own house, and there is no need to live in my son's house.
My husband also chimed in, persuading me not to work against his parents, and said that it was a waste to have an empty room, not to mention that my parents-in-law might not come to live at home for a long time.
06
I understand my husband's subtext, which is nothing more than that his parents are here, and my parents should not come to join in the fun. Looking at the dove occupying the magpie's nest, but the in-laws who claim to be the owner, I am really angry.
The next day, I packed my bags and took my children back to my parents' house. My husband called me several times and told me not to be so selfish, saying that his parents were not familiar with life in the city, and that he had to go to work again, and that as soon as I left, his parents would suffer, and they couldn't even eat a hot meal.
My husband calls me several times a day, urging me to hurry home and stop losing my temper. I was so annoyed that I bought a plane ticket on the spot and took my parents and children to Sanya for a tour.
As soon as we arrived in Sanya, my husband's phone call came again, and this time he was even more depressed. Because his parents felt sorry for the younger son's family suffering in their hometown, they didn't discuss it with their husband, so they let the younger son's family defect to the eldest son.
07
My husband is sad in front of my husband every day, and he is very angry. When he served his in-laws' family of six for one month, I also took my parents to travel around the country for a month, from Sanya to Beijing and then to Shanghai.
In the past, my parents always envied other people's children for being filial and sensible, and often took their parents on trips, but they never dared to mention it to me, for fear that I would be embarrassed and spend more money.
But now, my husband is blatantly raising his parents and younger brother's family, why should I save money and let my own parents be wronged?
My husband first patiently persuaded me, but when he saw that he couldn't persuade me, he began to kidnap me morally. Seeing that I was indifferent and still took my parents to travel everywhere, he simply broke the jar and even filed for divorce.
I'm not polite, I bluntly said that it's okay to go back, send your parents away, and pick up my parents. The husband was so angry that he shouted divorce, divorce will be divorced, who is afraid of whom. Living in the house that my parents paid for, and my parents are not allowed to move in to support the elderly, who is used to him?