[This content is an adaptation of a long fictional short story, please watch it rationally, do not sit in the opposite seat]
When it comes to class reunions, everyone has different opinions, and some people think that class reunions are ostensibly about contact, but in fact they are a comparison game.
Before, the gap between the rich and the poor had not yet widened, so the party was still very interesting, reminiscing about the past together, and talking about the childish events that we had done in our youth.
But with the progress of society, some meaningful things have been scandalized by some people now, and the taste has changed, and a good class reunion has become a comparison meeting.
But sometimes I miss everyone's life at school, happy and carefree.
But now it's really getting more and more tasteful, but if you don't go, it's not okay, everyone will think you're arrogant, and they will say that you're not social, and bombard you in all kinds of ways.
He is an example, it has been five years since he graduated, and he is average, and the unit pays a salary of 3,000 a month, which has become the object of discussion, and they are all saying that he has no income, only 3,000 yuan a month, and he is not even enough for a meal.
Later, when he was about to leave after dinner, the eldest sister went to pick him up, but I didn't expect everyone to be stunned at that time, what was going on? What happened?
First of all, let's start with him, he has been an excellent child since he was a child, he studied very hard, and his parents at that time were usually busy with work and had no time to take care of his studies.
But he is very conscious, he will complete his homework on time every day, and he doesn't have to worry about his parents at all, and he is someone else's child in everyone's eyes.
The eldest sister is very different, the eldest sister did not have good academic performance when she was young, and she especially likes to play, but she has an advantage, that is, she can speak well, her mouth is very sweet, she will make her parents happy, and she is also very confident.
When he was in junior high school, something happened at home, that is, his mother fell on a bicycle on the way from work.
It didn't matter if I fell, my calf was broken, so I couldn't go to work anymore.
The burden of the family is handed over to Dad, it is not easy for Dad to feed three children alone, the eldest sister is responsible for grooming her mother after school, he is also very concerned about her mother, and will help her mother do what she can.
So he was distracted in his studies, because he was a filial child, and he regarded his mother as something more important than studying, and his grades at that time fell more sharply.
This matter was known to the teachers at the school, so they came to the house and explained the situation, why is the child's grades declining so much, you parents don't know.
However, the teacher also went to the home to understand the situation to know the specific reason, and after knowing the reason, he did not have the previous attitude, reassuring the mother to take care of her own business, but at the same time, she also had to take care of the child's learning.
After saying that, the teacher left, and his mother said to him very seriously, you have been someone else's child since you were a child, and you must not delay your studies, I have your father and sister to take care of it, so you can study with confidence!
He listened to his mother's words and felt that what he said made sense, although it is important to take care of his mother, he can't delay his studies, otherwise what if he can't find a job in the future!
Then he began to work hard, and finally the emperor lived up to his wishes and was finally admitted to a key high school, all of which was really not easy, and his parents were very happy.
But at this time, the eldest sister had already graduated from high school, and at that time, because of the poor family conditions, the eldest sister's academic performance was average, and the college entrance examination results were not ideal, so she did not choose to continue to go to school, and dropped out of school after graduating from high school.
At that time, all the hopes were placed on him, and he finally lived up to everyone's expectations and was admitted to a good university.
When he was in school, he was beautiful, handsome, serious in his studies, won a lot of awards and scholarships, and he was also the class president when he was in school.
His parents never had too much to worry about him, so he graduated from college a few years later, and after graduation, he had to face the problem of finding a job, and everyone knows that a good job is the most difficult to find.
At that time, his mother wanted him to take the civil service exam, saying that the civil servant was well treated and had good benefits, but he was resolutely opposed at that time, saying that he wanted to start a business and was unwilling to take the public exam.
The first is that it is difficult to take the civil service exam, and then he must want to go out and break through when he just graduates.
But he couldn't withstand his mother's bombardment, so he was soon defeated, accepted his mother's proposal, and started the road to the public examination, he began to study hard, and finally his hard work paid off, and he was admitted.
As soon as the news came out, the whole family was overjoyed, and they all praised him, it was so competitive, God appreciated the food, and finally had an iron rice bowl.
Because the previous people still attached more importance to the iron rice bowl, such as the profession of teacher, which was more popular, and the doctor and the like, I felt that it was an iron rice bowl.
Although the ages are different, his parents still think that civil servants are strong entrepreneurs, which may be the persistence of the older generation, and in any case, his work as a civil servant is implemented.
The first is to be able to stay with your parents, and you can also have a stable job, compared with your peers, you are better than most people, and you can be regarded as having a stable life.
Later, he relied on his handsome appearance to find an object in the unit, and there is another interesting thing about this object, and I will tell you about it next.
It turned out that his object was a junior high school classmate with him, and at that time! The two of them were at the same table when they went to school, and the two often had small conflicts, so it can be said that they were a pair of enemies.
How much did I hate each other at the time! When I graduated from junior high school, I didn't want to write a classmate, and he let the whole class leave a message, but he didn't let this girl leave a message, saying that she had a bad temper, and people would be very strange, and she was a competitor when she was in school.
The two didn't see each other since, and they didn't meet until he worked, and when they first met, they couldn't look at each other, but then they experienced an incident that changed their views on each other.
One day, when the unit got off work, it was raining heavily, and everyone else had someone to pick them up or drive by themselves, but the two of them had neither a car nor a pick-up and drop-off, so they could only wait for the rain to stop.
Later, the rain became heavier and heavier, and the weather became dark, because the rain was also cold, and the girl was shivering from the cold, at this time he took the initiative to care about the girl and gave his clothes to the girl.
And found another umbrella from the office, and the two of them played an umbrella, but the umbrella was always tilted towards the girl, so the girl was sent home, and then the girl invited him to dinner in order to express her gratitude.
The two people who came and went became familiar again, and changed each other's views, feeling that both of them were still good choices for each other, so the two began to fall in love.
He talked with the girl for about two years and entered the palace of marriage, and lived a happy life after marriage, and gave birth to a child after marriage, and the family was happy.
For his class reunion, his daughter-in-law also disagreed, saying that many classmates broke up because they participated in the class reunion, and gave many examples of this, the meaning is very clear, it is useless, so don't go to it.
In fact, he was reluctant to go at first, unwilling to go through this so-called form, he didn't think it was interesting, everyone just had a good job, and if he really wanted to get together, he would come out and get together with a few good relationships.
Maybe I don't like this format! But I couldn't stand the invitation of my classmates, and it was difficult to shirk it, so I went to participate.
The current class reunion was originally to go to catch up, but I didn't expect to find that it was not the same thing at all, and began to discuss who mixed well, who mixed badly, who had a high salary, and who had a low salary.
When his classmates learned of his salary of 3,000 yuan a month, they began to say, "Brother, don't do it, what is 3,000 a month enough to do, why don't you follow me, and I will give you 6,000."
There was sarcasm in his words, and then he began to ask him, did you buy the car, do you want to see the car I bought, in fact, this kind of person has no bad intentions, but it always makes people feel uncomfortable.
Later, when the toast was gone, there was no more scenery from the college days, and whoever mixed well would toast to whom, for others he was just a small role, not enough to make others toast.
After a pleasantry, everyone was about to separate, he breathed a sigh of relief, feeling that this meal was really boring, and it was finally time to leave.
When we came today, everyone came by car, he took a taxi, and when I came out, the eldest sister said that she was going to pick him up, and everyone said goodbye at the door of the hotel, but at this time the eldest sister drove over, and everyone was stunned when they saw the eldest sister.
Why is that? It turned out that the eldest sister drove her brother-in-law's luxury car that day, and the eldest sister was very beautiful, wearing a white dress and making a stunning appearance, saying that I didn't expect you to have such a good-looking sister.
There is even more explosive is that this hotel is the eldest sister old public, the eldest sister got off the car, the waiter began to call the hostess, that scene is very magnificent.
At this time, the classmates were not yin and yang, and they cast envious eyes on him, saying that they would often contact him in the future, and don't forget their old classmates or something.
After the classmates left, he began to say to the eldest sister, thank you for coming to save me today, otherwise, I would still be looked down upon by others! The eldest sister is very calm, saying that you should not be influenced by the outside world, in my mind you have always been the best person.
Because everyone dropped out of high school, they have been relying on their own efforts for so many years, until they met their brother-in-law, and the two of them opened this hotel together, and now it is also very good.
The eldest sister said that as long as people work hard, there will be a way out, don't care what others think, how to say, your current civil servant is my dream job, relatively stable, but I have no academic qualifications and can only work my own.
Yes, the eldest sister is right, all roads lead to Rome, as long as people work hard, there will be everything, this is the reason why everyone saw the eldest sister stunned, no one thought that a mediocre person could run such a big hotel.
So everyone has unlimited potential, it's up to you how you find it.
[This content is an adaptation of a long fictional short story, please watch it rationally, do not sit in the opposite seat]