Time flies, and with a flick of his fingers, Kang Hui has entered the twilight stage of his life. Looking back, he felt deep remorse, a decision he had made, and a deep sense of guilt for not fulfilling the last expectations of his deceased parents.
The memory is frozen in that ordinary night a few years ago, Kang Hui worked the TV station as usual, and devoted himself to the post-production of the new episode. Everything was so natural, until a phone call from my sister broke the silence of the moment like a thunderbolt in the clear sky.
The elder sister couldn't cry silently, and painfully told Kang Hui the sad news about his father's unfortunate death, Kang Hui felt like he had suffered a heavy blow, and tears instantly welled up in his eyes. He deeply regretted that he had missed the last opportunity to see his father, and even more saddened that his father's only wish in the last moments of his life was to be able to hold his grandson. However, this wish now seems destined to be unfulfilled.
Soon after, his mother also passed away due to illness, but this time, Kang Hui was also unable to rush home in time to accompany his mother due to his busy work. When his sister passed on the bad news to him, his heart was like a knife, and he was so painful that he fell to his knees weakly. As his mother's most beloved son, he failed to grasp the last opportunity of filial piety, and his inner guilt and self-condemnation made him feel tormented.
Her mother had persuaded Kang Hui many times, hoping that he would change her mind and give her a chance to hold her grandson. However, Kang Hui was stubborn at that time and failed to cherish this opportunity that he knew his mother's wish but never realized. Now, it is too late, and he can only fill the endless debt to his loved ones with full regret and apology.
Talking about the love process between Kang Hui and his wife Liu Yajie, it is undoubtedly a good story full of warmth and touching. At that time, the young and promising Kang Hui had just entered the TV station and devoted himself to the development of his career. Until one day, a friend introduced his younger sister Liu Yajie to him with anticrisy at a party.
When they first met, Kang Hui was not impressed by the young schoolgirl, perhaps because of her slightly straightforward and slightly shy temperament, which made Kang Hui joke and ridicule her for being "too upright" in the show. At the same time, Liu Yajie also failed to pay too much attention to Kang Hui, who was already a senior, thinking that he was too serious and lacking eye-catching highlights.
However, as they spend time together, they gradually discover that they both have a unique and charming personality that people love each other and a good character hidden deep in their hearts. Kang Hui acts calmly and reliably, thoughtful and meticulous; Liu Yajie is lively and cheerful, generous and casual, and there is obviously a complementarity between them that cannot be ignored.
So, driven by strong emotions, Liu Yajie happily accepted Kang Hui's affectionate confession, and the two officially entered a sweet love journey.
For the next eight years, they supported each other. Although the economic situation at that time was not wealthy, and even the wedding was held in a low-key living room in a rented cottage, Liu Yajie never expressed the slightest dissatisfaction with this, and she had only one wish in her heart, that is, to stay with Kang Hui for a long time.
She once said to Kang Hui affectionately: "As long as I have you by my side, even if I live in a simple shantytown, I am willing to eat." ”
In the heartfelt blessings of relatives and friends, Kang Hui and Liu Yajie stepped into a new chapter in their lives - the palace of marriage. Affectionately known as the "golden boys and girls of television" by their colleagues, they portray the perfect combination of natural and loving couples.
In fact, whenever they walk the streets hand in hand, passers-by are always deeply touched by the picture full of happiness, and can't help but praise them heartily.
Although everyone is looking forward to the early realization of love between this couple, who is known as the "golden boy and girl in the TV industry", Kang Hui and Liu Yajie have always adhered to the concept of "Dink" and have no plans to have children.
At first, this was mainly due to Kang Hui's long-term career planning. As a well-known anchor of CCTV, he needs to travel around every day, busy with the hosting of various large and small events, and the pace of life is extremely unstable.
If a child is born, it will inevitably cause serious disruption to the child's daily life, which is the last thing Kang Hui wants.
During this period, Kang Hui was also worried that the birth of the child would have a great impact on the emotional world of him and Liu Yajie, and the two would inevitably face an emotional low tide, and the original sweet happiness seemed to dissipate.
As a novice parent, dealing with the trivial affairs of children's daily life will definitely occupy most of their time and energy, which makes Kang Hui's heart full of anxiety and uneasiness.
With the passage of time, Liu Yajie's age has gradually surpassed the golden stage of childbearing. Coupled with her poor physique, in order to protect his wife's health, Kang Hui finally decided to completely dismiss the idea of having children.
It is gratifying that Liu Yajie also agrees. Like Kang Hui, she has a natural attitude towards life, and will not be too demanding or opinionated about anything.
What's more, the two of them have been working together for a long time, going through countless ups and downs. If you suddenly add a child at this time, your lifestyle will inevitably change drastically, and they may not be able to adapt to their new role quickly.
"If we had had children earlier, our lives would have been very different." Whenever he talks about this, Kang Hui always falls into deep reflection and remorse.
Whether or not to have children is a major life decision that needs to be carefully weighed for every couple. It is well known that having no children means cutting off incense, which is undoubtedly regarded as a sin in the traditional view.
However, having a child also means that your life will be turned upside down, and it will require endless effort and sweat. Therefore, there is no fixed answer to follow, and everyone has their own unique understanding and pursuit of marriage and life.
Kang Hui and Liu Yajie chose to stick to the concept of "Dink" at the beginning, mainly based on the consideration of career development and concerns about many factors that may affect the relationship, which has to be said to be a decision made after careful consideration.
However, as we get older, many of the worries and worries that we once had have vanished. There are some things that you can only realize how naïve and naïve your ideas are after experiencing them yourself.
As more and more relatives and friends embark on a new journey in life and step into the position of the long-awaited grandparents, Kang Hui naturally feels a trace of deep regret and loneliness in his heart. The dream that was once at his fingertips is now gradually moving away from his sight, making people sigh that the world is impermanent! He began to reflect on why he was so stubborn in the first place, and persistently missed out on this precious opportunity.
However, even if he could turn back the clock and face that crucial moment again, would he really make a very different choice? This is undoubtedly a thought-provoking question. Because no matter what choice is made, it is difficult to get rid of some regrets and shortcomings in life, which is a reality that we must accept.
Maybe when we were young, we didn't care about it, but as the years passed, the regret and remembrance became more and more profound. Kang Hui only hoped that his decision back then was not based on impulse and willfulness, but after careful consideration, he made such a choice.
However, from an objective point of view, Kang Hui's life journey so far is still remarkable and successful. As a famous host of CCTV, he has hosted many major events such as the Spring Festival Gala at home and abroad, and has a high reputation and status in the industry.
It is no exaggeration to say that he has already achieved remarkable results in his career. Recalling that back then, when Kang Hui had just graduated from a normal college, who could have foreseen that decades later, he would become a well-known host loved by audiences across the country?
At first, he was just an obscure grassroots employee, working hard in front of and behind the scenes, running around every day. However, it was with his never-say-die spirit and enthusiasm for his career that he finally ushered in the dawn of success.
From the initial supporting role to the shining star host in front of and behind the scenes, and then to the first-line celebrities who are now worth a lot of money, Kang Hui has written a dazzling and legendary chapter of life with his hard work and firm belief. He is dedicated, focused, calm and wise, with a unique and distinctive hosting style and rich experience, which are all important factors for him to be able to sit on the CCTV stage for a long time.
Whenever a major national festival celebration comes, Comrade Kang Hui always plays an irreplaceable key role inside and outside the venue. His experienced and steady hosting performance made the emotional atmosphere of the whole event just right, and the language was sharp and to the point, which was full of praise!
The audience is full of respect and love for this highly respected host, and regards him as an idol-level figure.
It is precisely because of such brilliant achievements in his career that many people take it for granted that Kang Hui's life is undoubtedly a complete success and a winner in life that countless people are fascinated by. However, he himself has a different view on this, and he knows that there is still a deep regret and lack in his life journey, that is, he has not met his parents' desire to "hold grandchildren".
This may be the pain that all successful people can't let go of in their hearts.