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Understand the original situation from the offense, and recognize the reality from the loss

author:Yuan Dadao
Understand the original situation from the offense, and recognize the reality from the loss

The environment always hints that you are the one who is being taken care of.

You have received a lot of benefits, you have enjoyed a lot of preferential treatment, you have enough reasons to "keep up the good work", and I hope that you can give a little more and be worthy of those "care".

As ordinary people, especially ordinary people who are still in the "struggle period", they do feel taken care of,

And also a special care.

This kind of special care is not to push them to the road of worry-free food and clothing.

Rather, it makes them realize how to face the cruel reality and the contradictions of separation,

"Be a good man. ”

Understand the original situation from the offense, and recognize the reality from the loss

Being a good person is not an ironic statement.

Being a good person is a deep understanding of reality.

Generally speaking, the appearance of these four words is by no means purely encouraging,

Rather, there is a little bit of "exhortation" to the request.

For example, the cognition of ordinary migrant workers in the matter of survival is like this, at first people will believe that fair competition is to give themselves a chance to surpass others, so in the process of constantly overdrawing their energy and physical strength, they believe that the meaning behind the word fairness is the guarantee for them to go higher and go further.

The high rent, the cost of integrating into the circle, the cost of children's education, and the constant pull of family medical health and other issues have made their understanding of this issue gradually become a little sensitive.

Sensitive issues are not in them, but in others,

lies in the "victory of the world" of others.

These other people are always better than themselves, and they are more chic and comfortable, and when you hear their "life history", combined with their casual behavior, it seems that you are beginning to realize that you are not the people who are taken care of by the so-called fairness.

Or that the concept actually starts from the beginning,

It distinguishes between "Standard Edition" and "Deluxe Edition".

The standard version of people began to realize that their lives were like a joke, and when they worked overtime until late at night, they would post a black humor like "The starry sky is so beautiful tonight, suitable for overtime", ridiculing themselves and making fun of their fate.

And for those players who enjoy the deluxe version of the treatment, it seems that they don't care about this person around them who is "as close at hand, but in fact thousands of miles away".

They eat, drink, and have fun, bask in beautiful scenery and beautiful encounters, compared to their own "black ridicule",

Their lives seem to be fair, and the interpretation is particularly interesting.

It turns out that success is indeed the "patent" of a few, and they, those who are diligent and diligent, are still stuck in the so-called majority area,

The next moment, will they succeed?

Will they enjoy the rewards they have paid and enjoy the dividends that are truly theirs?

They know this well.

Understand the original situation from the offense, and recognize the reality from the loss

Whether the reality offends their once firm beliefs, it's hard to say,

After all, this is a different understanding, some people think that the reality is worth fighting, and some people think that there are too many things that are not worth it.

But in the end, their unchanged dedication and change mentality,

It proves that they have a new understanding of the problem of survival.

The premise of re-understanding, the previous set of understanding,

Not at all,

So the result of re-understanding is to change the set of things that were completely wrong before.

All overturned.

All the ill-intentioned ridicule, all the unfounded prejudices, all the attitudes based on "I just want to take advantage of you",

All prove why they want to deny it, why it is necessary to overthrow.

And such them, in fact, are who we are today,

Now we who have seen through the facts and understood all this:

The reason for the offense made the originally restless emotions extraordinarily calm.

Reality recognized from loss,

Let this extraordinarily calm surface,

become a kind of cover-up,

The surface is indeed calm,

But the undercurrent in the depths of my heart surges,

is destroying all innocence and belief.

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