In the entertainment industry, the marriage stories of celebrities have always been the focus of attention.
However, there are untold heartaches and stories hidden behind the marriages of some celebrities.
Recently, Sister Lang Miao Miao's marriage story has once again sparked heated discussions among the public, and her childhood experience and marriage choices have demonstrated a special "patriarchal" mentality.
What led to such a choice?
Should marital happiness really be built on such a state of mind?
Miao Miao's childhood was not as good as people think, and she was sent to a dance school by her parents as a child.
As a result, she found out that her parents had already given birth to a younger sister at home, and the feeling of being abandoned and neglected by her family was very painful for her.
Although her parents later tried to make amends for her, the shadow of her childhood had been deeply imprinted into her heart, leaving her feeling lonely and insecure all the time.
A similar situation happened to other celebrities, such as Zhang Ziyi.
She was also neglected by her parents and bullied by people since she was a child, causing her to always try to prove her worth.
She once mentioned in an interview that when she was a child, she was ridiculed by her classmates for not being good-looking, which made her feel very inferior and helpless.
It was this experience that strengthened her belief and worked hard to become a high-profile international superstar.
Miao Miao has been bullied by people since she was a child, and this capricious injury has taken a great blow to her physical and mental health, making her feel very painful and hopeless.
She began to question the meaning of her existence and felt worthless, both in life and in relationships.
Whenever Miao Miao tries to integrate into group activities, she always has a sense of fear in her heart, afraid of being attacked by others or being excluded from the group.
This experience of being neglected as a child gave her a strong sense of unworthiness, which led her to choose a "bad birth" marriage as an adult as a way to escape reality and seek security.
She married Zheng Kai not out of a real choice, but because of self-abandonment and distrust of others.
She even said when she chose Zheng Kai that she couldn't find the right person at all, so she just found a mentality.
She said that she didn't have much affection for Zheng Kai, but she felt that she couldn't find a really suitable person, so she just found a random one.
However, her husband Zheng Kai also gave her a lot of support and understanding, so that she no longer felt lonely and neglected.
Even when they encountered difficulties, they were always the first to stand up to support and accompany her, making her feel full of love and warmth.
Many netizens gave mixed comments on actor Miao Miao's personal life and marriage choices.
Some people believe that Miao Miao's choice of flash marriage after a very bumpy relationship is a manifestation of escapism and self-comfort, which is not advisable.
More netizens believe that everyone has the right to choose their own lifestyle, including marriage and family, and Miao Miao should respect her feelings and bravely pursue her true happiness.
In the entertainment industry, the marriage stories of celebrities often carry a lot of sadness and emotion, because their working environment and lifestyle are more special and challenging compared to ordinary people.
Among the many marriage stories, we have seen some people who are troubled by the "patriarchal" mentality, which is not only a social phenomenon, but also a misunderstanding of marriage and life.
We should recognize that everyone should be treated equally, regardless of their gender, race, religion, or cultural background.
Only when we truly learn to love ourselves can we get out of the shadow of childhood and have true freedom and happiness.
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