Dear friends, we all know that marriage is like a marathon, sometimes, running and running, you will reach the end station, but sometimes, two people feel that there is still a long way to go, at this time, a question comes to the surface: one party does not agree to divorce, how long can this matter be delayed? Don't worry, today we will talk about this worrying topic.
First of all, we must know that the laws of the mainland respect the will of the individual, especially the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China. According to it, there are two ways of divorce: divorce by agreement and divorce by litigation. If both parties can reach an agreement, it will be much simpler, take the marriage certificate and divorce agreement, go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through a procedure, and it can be done in one minute, which is the so-called "harmonious breakup".
But when one party firmly disagrees, we enter the stage of litigated divorce. At this time, the court will consider whether your relationship has broken down and whether there is a possibility of reconciliation. The court is not the place to grant a divorce, and they will give you both a cooling-off period, usually six months. During this time, if the two sides can reconcile, then congratulations, this "marathon" may be over.
Of course, if after six months, the relationship still does not improve, the court will hear it again. This time, they will also look at your living situation, property division, child support, etc. If there is still no discussion, the court may give another cooling-off period according to the actual situation, up to a maximum of one year. It's like testing your patience and determination to see who can make it to the end.
However, the law is not static, and under special circumstances, such as domestic violence, abuse and other serious problems, the court can directly grant a divorce, regardless of the length of the cooling-off period. After all, personal safety comes first, and patience cannot be turned into endurance.
Speaking of which, I'm reminded of the old saying, "Marriage is the grave of love, but not all love has to be buried in it." "Sometimes, letting go is also a relief, isn't it? So, as you wander through the crossroads of marriage, remember that the law is not a cold stone, it is your guide to help you find your way out.
In closing, I would like to say that deciding on a divorce is not an easy one, no matter when or where. It requires reason, but also courage. If you are in such a difficult situation, you may want to talk to family and friends, or seek professional legal advice. Remember, the law is just, but the key to solving problems often lies in our own choices.
This article hopes to help those who are experiencing marital troubles, and I hope that everyone can find their own happiness. Life has its ups and downs, but the law will always shine a light for us when we need it. Forward it to let more people know that divorce is not unsolvable, it just takes time and courage.