Ms. Li is exhausted about her husband's cheating. In the first half of 23 years, Ms. Li has been living in the hospital, and her husband has visited her twice, but her attitude is still not painful. After this serious illness, Ms. Li suddenly thought about it, and felt that it was boring for her and the man to go on like this. Ms. Li just thought that she would have a good time with her two children in the future, and just treat this man as if it didn't exist.
But the turning point came in October 2023.
Xiao San's younger brother was deceived of more than 2 million yuan in business, and Xiao San's filled most of the hole for his younger brother, but there were still more than 500,000 holes, and Xiao San asked the man to fill in for his younger brother.
In November, the younger brother of the junior asked the man to find him a job with a high monthly salary and leisure. The man did the same. Then the third brother proposed to let his "brother-in-law" buy him a wedding house.
This time the man was a little unhappy. It's not that the man can't afford to buy this house, it's just that he doesn't like his money being stared at all the time
At this time, Ms. Li's daughter called the man and informed him that she had been admitted to a double first-class graduate school.
Of course, the man was very happy to hear that his daughter was studying so hard, so he gave his daughter a car. As a result, he stabbed Xiao San's hornet's nest all of a sudden.
Xiao San immediately accused the man of partiality. didn't buy a house for his younger brother, but actually bought a car for his original daughter. The junior's daughter also immediately said to the man: "I also want a car, you can't buy it if you don't buy it." ”
Originally, the man felt that the little three family were very deferential and polite to him. But after this incident, the man reacted a little in his heart. He thought about it, Ms. Li's mother's family has never let a man make up for it like this, because Ms. Li's younger brothers and sisters are quite promising, and they are also worried that Ms. Li has already climbed a man, if her mother's family doesn't give her strength anymore, her mother's younger siblings are worried that Ms. Li is not doing well, so they have never stared at the rich brother-in-law to want to go east and west.
This comparison makes men feel very chilled.
During the 24th Chinese New Year, the man avoided the Xiaosan family on the grounds of work and accompanied Ms. Li and the children for the New Year. In March, the man officially proposed to the mistress to break up.
After the man returned to the family, Ms. Li was always quite resistant to the man, so the man brought Ms. Li to me to do the marriage reconstruction work.
This is the experience of a recent marriage to one of my clients.
The reason why I tell this matter is that I want to tell you that when men are fascinated by Xiao San, most of them will ignore these three things:
First thing. Men think that Xiao San cares about him as a person. But in the end, men without exception will find that what Xiao San really cares about is money.
If the original partner can actively operate from this point and let the man discover the true face of the mistress earlier, maybe the man will go home much earlier.
THING 2. Many men feel that the mistress doesn't want anything, and the reason why the mistress is a mistress is because he loves men too much.
In this case, a man might as well go out of the house and be with the junior in poverty, do you think the junior is still willing to want you?
Xiao San may have some feelings for men, but Xiao San loves a combination of men, money and power, and his feelings for the man himself may be less than 1/3.
As the old saying goes, if you marry a man, marry a man, dress and eat, and the woman who is married to the Ming media, you also need to see if the conditions of the man's family can make her feel at ease to raise her children? Why does she not want anything when she comes to Xiaosan? Do you think this is in line with human nature?
The third thing Since 23 years, many men have a consensus when they come to me to deal with extramarital affairs: when men and mistresses are good, mistresses are indeed gentle, obedient, sensible and well-behaved. Once the two of them collapsed, Xiao San's performance was immediately unbearable. Nine times out of ten, they will change their faces and bite men hard.
So through this case, I want to tell you that cheating is really risky. Of the 10 men who cheated, at least 7 regretted it.